2. Try to bring your baby by yourself, and at least take your baby to sleep at night, which is conducive to cultivating parent-child feelings.
3. The baby must hug when crying. Don't believe that the baby can't hold it well when crying. A few months old baby needs a sense of security, but when he feels safe enough, he doesn't like to cry.
4. Talk to your baby more, whether he understands or not, which is good for your baby's intellectual development. Besides sleeping and drinking milk, I always talk to my Jiabao. I make myself very talkative.
5. Take the baby out for a walk, not only to bask in the sun and enhance immunity, but also to communicate with people that the baby is not familiar with, such as neighbors, so that the baby will not recognize strangers early and have a more cheerful personality.
6. Complementary foods should be varied, and you must eat things that adults don't like, such as vegetable puree and sour apple puree. Feed those foods that you think are delicious as late as possible, so that the baby will not be picky about food and have comprehensive nutrition.
The key to children's healthy growth is reasonable diet and strengthening exercise. The growth and development of children depends on many factors such as genes, nutrition and physical exercise. Therefore, the growth and development of children and adolescents is a serious problem before us, which needs serious consideration and treatment.
With regard to genetic problems, in our time, sons are often taller than fathers, because children get better medical care and food with high nutritional value. However, we can't expect a little father to have a tall son.
Food is an important factor to ensure the healthy growth of children. The age of children's growth and development is the first two years after birth. Girls are about 12 years old and boys are about 14 years old.
Good eating habits should pay attention to food nutrition and reasonable collocation. Parents should pay attention to cultivating their children to have this good eating habit.
Physical exercise is good for children's development. Can speed up metabolism, thus helping the body absorb nutrients.
In short, the key to children's normal development lies in reasonable diet and eating habits, as well as active physical exercise.
Every child is an angel sent by God, which will make people become omnipotent from ignorance. I want to share the following points with you:
First, insist on breastfeeding.
From a medical point of view, breastfeeding is advocated from the moment a child is born. Because protein contained in breast milk is a small molecule protein, which is beneficial to the baby's absorption. The temperature of breast milk is the temperature of the mother, and it will never be cold. Containing IGA in breast milk can improve the immunity of infants. Postpartum breastfeeding can promote the mother's physical recovery and enhance the relationship between mother and baby. Insisting on breastfeeding has greatly protected the child's resistance.
Second, accompany reading before going to bed
Maybe everyone has different views on this view. For me, I think this is very important. In the process of accompanying students, it can not only enhance parent-child feelings, but also expand children's horizons and learn knowledge. This task is not only for mom, but also for dad. A complete parent's company can give children more care, make their physical and mental health grow, and be a healthy person can make their children realize how happy they are. And parents accompany their children, and children also cultivate their parents. This is an interactive process, and parents will continue to grow and change in the process of accompanying their children.
Third, equal status.
Perhaps many people often take out their parents' identity to educate their children, make them succumb to themselves, and let them become obedient good children in their own minds. I think many times, we get along with our children on an equal footing. When they are good friends, good buddies and good sisters, they will trust their parents more, talk to you more openly and have a more extroverted personality. Children who are respected will be more confident.
Fourth, words and deeds
Children are naturally fond of imitation. Learn to adapt to this world from birth, and the most direct way for children to adapt to this world is imitation. He will imitate the words and deeds of people around him. His parents are the closest people around him and the people who communicate with him most attentively. So parents are the most qualified and willing to imitate their children. Usually, the tone, words and actions of adults will be unconsciously imitated and useful. Suhomlinski, a famous educator in the former Soviet Union, once said: "The all-round development of human beings depends on what kind of people mothers and fathers are in front of their children, and on how children understand interpersonal relationships and social environment from their parents' role models. "It can be seen that parents' practical actions play an important role. Finally, parents' words and deeds can determine a child's character.
When we are about to have a baby, prospective parents should first understand the fact that there are individual differences in parenting, so when we face a new life, we should absorb and accept the parenting knowledge and experience suitable for our baby with an empty cup.
In fact, many mothers will search a lot of parenting knowledge and consult other people's parenting experience before giving birth. Learning more can really help parents take care of their babies correctly, especially when they encounter some common diseases and symptoms, so as not to be nervous and flustered. At the same time, some parents will go into some misunderstandings, blindly adopt others' summaries and experiences, and ignore the individual differences of each baby.
You know, different situations are treated differently, even in medicine, no pharmacy can cure everyone's diseases, and adjustments must be made on the premise of respecting individual conditions. So what aspects of parenting must be taken care of according to the baby's own situation? Share a few knowledge points with you!
Lesson 1: A baby crying is not necessarily hungry. Parents skillfully use tools to record the baby's crying.
Many parents will feel particularly devastated when they hear their baby crying. It's no use coaxing, but cry after feeding. What should they do? It's simple. First of all, why does the baby cry? Hungry, sleepy, stomachache, smelly stool, fever, etc. will make your baby cry.
But according to different situations, the baby's crying will be different. Parents are advised to take notes for half a month, or leave the baby's crying voice and expression with videos or photos, and make a note: What does this crying mean to the baby?
In fact, I have shared the meaning of different baby cries before. Some fans said that it is difficult to closely link the words with the baby's crying. Therefore, parents can make full use of the influencing materials to leave crying "samples", which also helps to quickly identify the baby's needs.
Experience 2: Babies within 6 months can drink water in moderation.
We all know that babies within 6 months should try to breastfeed exclusively. Some parents exaggerate and don't let their children drink water, but in fact this way is limited and ridiculous. They tell their mother, "Learning is endless hunger, but the living expenses are increasing.
Of course, the baby within 6 months should drink as little water as possible and not drink too much, which will affect the baby's breastfeeding and other complementary foods.
Experience 3: Buy things for your baby, buy as needed, and store as little as possible.
/kloc-babies under 0/year old grow rapidly. It is very likely that what you bought for your baby today will not be used tomorrow, so try to wait until the baby needs it. In fact, many treasure mothers have the habit of hoarding goods for their babies. They will buy a lot before their children are born. This is actually very irrational. Don't waste money, things still take up space. The point is that it may not work after buying it.
Experience 4: In the first year after the baby is born, parents must take care of the child themselves.
For example, after work at night, parents can take care of their children until they go to bed. You should know that the first year of a child is the cultivation of mind and values, including some good habits, which need the guidance of parents. Therefore, taking care of the baby can not be completely handed over to the elderly, and it can also lay the foundation for a good parent-child relationship within one year old.
In addition, parenting requires a lot of patience from parents. After all, parenting is not easy, and children may face many unexpected situations, so parents may be very tired, but they must also find ways to overcome them. I believe that in a few years, the future of children will be better.
The most important point is to say it three times, handle the relationship with family, handle the relationship with family, and handle the relationship with family.
The first year after a child is born is an important year to test his family. Maternal women may have postpartum depression, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the relationship between husband and wife, the concept of parenting, the difficulties they face on the way to parenting, and so on. The suggestions are as follows
1, communicate with your husband more.
Communicate with your husband more about emotional problems, because the baby hormones will make trouble just after giving birth. Being angry or depressed is a normal physiological phenomenon, not a so-called sitcom. Here, I also call on fathers to pay more attention to postpartum mothers and help them adjust slowly and be more considerate.
Step 2 talk to your mother
These emotional problems are caused by being a mother for the first time, and people around you will not really understand the mother's collapse if they have not experienced it. So you can find more people's mothers or spit in the mother group and find an outlet to vent these negative emotions.
Bring your own if you can.
Take the children out to play more, or fix two or three playmates.
Do regular growth monitoring, such as once every March or half a year.
Let the children scratch when learning to eat, not too dirty.
If you can apply for an early education, it will help children to establish a sense of rules as soon as possible.
Insist on going to bed early and getting up early.
That's about it. They are all suggestions for my son's characteristics.
Oh, by the way, buy insurance early. My son began to pay attention to it, and then I bought it because of otitis media. Be excluded.
Children's risk protection must be established early.
Tell me about my experience. When Bao Xiao was in the second month, he had eczema on his face. At first, a little. I have no experience. At first, I didn't deal with it very much. Maybe he scratched it himself, which led to more and more eczema on his face. It's really sad to watch. I went to many hospitals, but I didn't like it. The most pitiful thing is that I have to tie his hands when I sleep at night, lest he scratch his face.
Later, my sister told me not to wash my face and to keep it dry. Well, in short, many methods and drugs have been used, and the eczema on the face has gradually improved with age.
As a novice mother, there are really many pits for parenting first. I hope all mothers can avoid it.
1. It is really necessary to give birth to the first child who is afraid of pain without confidence.
Let's talk about painless delivery first: the so-called "painless delivery", medically called "labor analgesia", is to use various methods to alleviate or even disappear the pain during childbirth. Labor analgesia can make expectant mothers no longer suffer, reduce their fear of childbirth and postpartum fatigue, and let them have a rest in the longest first stage of labor. When the cervix is opened, they have enough strength to complete the delivery because of the accumulation of physical strength.
Because I gave birth painlessly, I have to make it clear to those mothers who have great doubts about painless delivery: painless delivery will not affect the intelligence of children, nor will it cause your back pain in the later stage (because you will have back pain if you fight or not). Painless delivery is not expensive at all. My personal painless delivery cost is more than 1000, but 1500.
2. If there is no elder at home after childbirth, or if you are worried about differences in parenting, it is recommended to start with Yueyue or Yuezi Center to avoid parenting wars with elders brought about by multiple parenting.
3. postpartum mother's mood will fluctuate greatly. Super daddy should understand and spend more time with his mother. Mom is prone to postpartum depression. Postpartum depression is no joke. I hope to attract attention and give more company.
It doesn't matter whether you have milk or not. What's important is to drink more soup instead of water and keep a good mood.
5. It is necessary to do levator ani exercise after postpartum lochia and wound recovery, which can shrink your vagina and enhance the relationship between husband and wife.
6. Don't drink milk to sleep. Milk sleep is very harmful, and it is easy to flatulence if you don't talk about BB in the future.
7. Novice mothers may have disputes with their elders in parenting. At this time, there is no need to be too angry. It's normal to have contradictions. How to solve them is the most important thing. It is necessary to find a good adjustment between your husband.
8. It is necessary for mom to socialize. Don't leave your social circle because you have children.
9. Ma Bao should vent when he is in a bad mood, and don't hold back endless troubles.
10. It's a long way to raise children. Good luck.
[Like] [Like] [Like] After the birth of a child, it is destined to change your life trajectory. The free and easy life in the romantic world once made you think twice. After the baby is born, you will find the role played by a great father who loves his mother. When he cries, you will be at a loss. When he smiles, you will be elated. You will put a lot of time and energy into taking care of him, and all the efforts are worth it. Four-month-old children have stomach cramps. At this time, he was unreasonable. At this time, parents should have enough patience. New parents will be more nervous and sometimes have a better attitude.
I'm glad to answer this question. After having children, the family's economic expenditure will increase first. Generally, the husband is making money to support the family, and the wife is taking care of the baby at home. Sometimes when Ma Bao is tired, she hopes that Dad Bao can help take care of the baby or share some housework, but Dad Bao is also very tired after a day's work and may not want to work or take care of the children when he comes home. There are often some problems at this time. Dad Bao said he was too tired to understand him! Ma Bao said, "It's hard to take care of your children. Bao Dad can't help him share, and he doesn't care! " At this time, Bao Da must always communicate with Ma Bao and tell her that she understands her and knows her hard work. Ma Bao should also communicate with her husband more, and can't lose his temper and quarrel just because he doesn't do housework for a while without children. This will only destroy the relationship between husband and wife. A little more mutual understanding, the family will be harmonious and happy. In fact, with the baby, Bao Dad may put more energy into his work, sometimes ignoring Ma Bao, while Ma Bao will put more energy into taking care of the baby and ignore Bao Dad. So sometimes Bao Dad will be jealous of the baby and feel that her husband doesn't love and care about himself as before, which will lead to whether he hates having children, is ugly, doesn't love himself, and is insecure! Here, I want to say to all Hebao dads that after work and taking care of children, we should care more about each other and give them affirmation and comfort! Second, when you have children, Ma Bao can't indulge himself without dressing up. She thinks she has no time. This is not right. No matter how busy she is with her children, she should take time out of her busy schedule to paint a light makeup and dress up beautifully every day, so that your mood will be much better and your husband will pay more attention to you when he sees you! Love you dearly, he will feel that it is not easy to love you more because you are so beautiful, give birth to his children and take care of his family. Third, if children live with the elderly, they must criticize education when they make mistakes. When Ma Bao is in charge of the children, it may be bad for his grandparents to protect this point, and Ma Bao will have trouble with his grandparents. Baoda's position must be firm and clear. Protecting children and agreeing with Ma Bao is absolutely impossible! Fourthly, Baoda should ask or listen to some concerns of Ma Bao. Don't think this is her nagging and complaining. In fact, this is an inner catharsis. When she speaks her inner thoughts, maybe some previous complaints and grievances will be eliminated at once! Fifth, if you feel wronged and sad sometimes, don't always complain to Bao Dad, especially when there are many people. If dad Bao is willing to take the initiative to listen, he can say it. If dad Bao doesn't want to hear it, then talk less. Talk to good friends more, or think more when you are happy. Replace negative emotions with happy good feelings. It's a pleasure to share. Thank you for all the experiences. Good relationship between husband and wife, good family atmosphere and good environment for children to grow up. This is an inheritance process!