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Dear child: Be careful when getting married, and make full preparations before giving birth. What do you think of this?
I am married. After marriage, many people will advise you to have children quickly, saying that it is good to have children early, and young parents can help with the birth. But is this really the case? Yes, I am a woman, but I'm not ready. So I refused to have children after I got married. What worries me most is whether my husband is qualified to be a father.

Dear Children is a remake.

Dear children, at first glance, the title of the play is full of a heavy feeling, and a familiar and heavy melody suddenly emerges unconsciously in the sea of ears. The atmosphere of the play is naturally not too relaxed, and it is, but I didn't expect it to be a film adaptation, adapted from the film Left and Right. This seemingly simple title is also not easy, and the audience who have seen the movie should naturally feel the sense of powerlessness in the title.

In fact, even if you haven't seen the original film, you can simply see the main core of the play from the title, and then connect the titles together. A simple understanding is the story of "being in a dilemma" because of children. This big guy may easily think of things that divorced couples earn custody, but it is really a story of divorced couples, but the moral level is higher.

Be careful when getting married and be fully prepared before giving birth.

In the TV series Dear Children, Hefang began to fall in love during college. They experienced the campus to the wedding dress, which can be described as very deep feelings. Enoch is an envied Chinese teacher. Xiao Lu and his boss can make a lot of money by starting a business together. They have a warm little room. There was a promise of love before marriage, including pregnancy, and Xiao Lu took good care of it. It's all love. If there were no children, they wouldn't quarrel so much.

Before having children, have we considered that we are really capable of having children? After giving birth to a child, do you have enough money to see a doctor for your child, please have a new moon, please teach early; Are you willing to sacrifice your time, energy, sleep and even youth to take care of her? If you are an old man, you only need to have a baby, and we will take good care of it. Will the elderly really take care of the baby? I promised to have a baby, and Yueyue was invited. Mother-in-law and mother came to take care of it. Why did it make such a mess?

His wife promised to have a baby, but he looked disgusted and didn't help with the baby. Every night, his wife promised to breast-feed, and Xiao Lu said I have to work tomorrow, so let me have a rest. After giving birth, Enoch also became extremely angry, with fierce words and mild postpartum depression. And after giving birth to the baby, all my thoughts are on the baby, and I am too lazy to communicate when there are emotional problems.

Mother-in-law and mother may not meet the requirements.

If you are sure that you can devote your career and all your patience to children, and that your husband will be involved in the process of raising children, then you can consider having children. The only reason to have children is that I am willing to have children. I like children. Nothing else is the reason for you to have a baby, is it?

Are we here to understand why we have children, or are we here for the crystallization of love? Or carry on the family line? Have you ever thought about what your life will be like after giving birth? Can you be responsible for this change?

Really don't give birth to a baby for the sake of carrying on the family line, but consider whether your husband can support you and the children, whether he can take good care of the children, and whether you are ready to be a mother. Really don't expect the elderly to help you too much, because the physical strength and energy of the elderly are limited, and the concept of raising a baby is different from before. Nowadays, the standards and requirements for raising babies are very high.