Before pregnancy, I felt extremely anxious and worried, but after having children, I found that the happiness brought by children far exceeded the troubles. Everything has two sides, complaining will only make us feel worse, but if we think from another angle, it is likely to bring us new discoveries and gains.
The first benefit of having children: the law of life.
I know that after this benefit performance, there will be a treasure mother to vomit me. Indeed, in the first few months of the baby's life, it is difficult for Ma Bao to sleep well. When she is alone with the baby, she can't even eat.
But when the children grow up, you will find that when I am alone, I get up whenever I want, sleep whenever I want, and eat whenever I want. I have a bad stomach when I am alone, because I often go out to eat at midnight 12.
However, since I had a baby, I found that my body is not just my own. I have a child to take care of and need me to set an example. So my life began to be more and more regular. Three meals a day are still nutritious meals instead of junk food. I go to bed early and get up early every day.
Although there is nothing wrong with my physical examination before giving birth, there are always many minor problems. After years of regular life, all my minor problems are gone, so I think this is the first benefit brought to me by giving birth.
The second advantage of having children: it is easy to make friends.
I used to be an older young woman in literature and art. I was usually very cold. What else? Social phobia? Afraid of no topic, afraid of chatting. But since I had children, I have found a topic that will never be cold: talking about children.
Whether friends, girlfriends, relatives or customers, as long as the other person is a woman, intends to be a mother or has become a mother, our topics will be endless, discussing pregnancy reaction, childbirth experience, breastfeeding, mother-in-law relationship in the second month, early education classes, chicken baby experience and so on.
Therefore, after having children, I have endless topics. I'm no longer afraid to associate with people. It's really great for moms to get together and talk for hours about ups and downs. It can also bring people closer together. Of course, it turned out to be the most annoying thing when I was a child. When I was a child, I hated my mother chatting with others. )
The third benefit of having children: it helps to work.
Our company's products used to be mainly young people, but its business has been tepid. It was not until I became a nanny and joined countless nanny groups that I discovered that the nanny is the real master of family wealth. Nannies are in charge of the family's food, clothing, housing and transportation, especially the children's expenses. I don't even blink when I spend it. Bought tens of thousands of baby carriages.
Later, I advised my boss to switch to being a mother, and now the company's business is booming. I used to run a company, and being a mother helped me a lot in my work, which is the third benefit brought to me by having children.
The fourth benefit of having children: cured my princess disease.
As a young woman in literature and art, she was once hurt by that scene. After marriage, because someone loved her, the princess's illness from home was not good at all. On a holiday, she asked her husband to send flowers, and WeChat became angry after three minutes.
After having children, the affair turned into a fart in an instant. I couldn't stand the smell of sweat on my husband before. Every time I change a baby's diaper, I will smell it: Well, today is really good, yellow, tasteless and healthy.
I don't have time to be bored with my husband every day, and I don't care if he loves me or not. As long as I come back to help me with my children, I will be a good husband. I used to hate my husband snoring, so I started snoring myself.
The fifth benefit of having children: life has a direction to work hard.
I used to muddle along, had no goals, and didn't even cherish my health. Now I have to have a physical examination every year, for fear that I will be ill and no one will take care of my baby. I can't fool around at work. After all, which mother doesn't want the best for her children? Working hard to make money, let children eat better milk powder, attend better interest classes and have a good kindergarten has become my greatest ideal.
The sixth benefit of having children: reducing family conflicts.
Before we had children, my husband and I often quarreled over trifles. After having children, both of them focus on the children, and have no energy to do anything except work and children every day. I can't remember the last time I quarreled with my husband.
The seventh benefit of having children: getting better and better temper.
As an only child, I used to be a real little princess, and my temper was spoiled little by little. After having children,
Knocked over 1000 oil, cut thousands of down jackets, grabbed countless locks of hair, and broke thousands of glasses of his father. I don't understand what I can say, and I have to fool myself when I cry, so my temper is getting better little by little.
A while ago, my boss told me that I have changed a lot since I had children. I am more mature and steady. Listen, I think this will get me a promotion.
The eighth benefit of having children: the source of family happiness.
Now, little girls like to keep a kitten or a puppy. They can play during the day and hug and sleep at night, which is very healing. But after having children, I found that my children are a hundred times cuter than cats and dogs.
The baby's chubby little hands, chubby little face, giggling and cheerful appearance, and then the milk cries and his heart softens. Why is online Mengbao so popular now? It depends on other people's children. If it's your own, who really knows? Most of the happiness in my family is given by children.
Finally, how do we treat children's lives and how children will feel the interaction with us. If we love the life with children, then children will bring us endless fun and hope. Let's experience it slowly!