Ye Haiyang, 28, can't fall in love or get married without meeting the right lover. One day, she suddenly got tired of the rich life and felt very empty. It's terrible to stay alone in the villa at night.
So she wants to have a baby with her husband and give herself a home. However, how can you have children without falling in love and getting married? So Ye Haiyang made a big decision: go to America to buy sperm.
Ye Haiyang, a native of Changchun, Jilin, now lives in Guangzhou and is the founder of a cosmetics company.
After several years of hard work, she has realized all her material dreams, buying villas, luxury cars and whatever she wants. It can be said that she is very successful in her career.
At the age of 28, one day, she looked at the empty villa and suddenly felt very empty. A person's life seems to lack a lot of things. At this time, she didn't fall in love or find a suitable marriage partner. All my wishes have come true, but there is no love in this room, she thought. I am at the best reproductive age, so I should have a child and form a small family.
So, she thought of buying sperm, and because there was no formal institution in China to buy sperm, she went to the United States.
In a sperm institution in the United States, she carefully selected three tubes of high-quality sperm, and selected them according to each other's age, appearance, occupation and other aspects. Even the hair color, skin color, eyes and personality characteristics of future children can be chosen according to their own requirements.
She chose white skin, yellow hair and brown eyes for her children. As for the child's personality, she chose a cheerful personality. She said: since all the money has been spent, of course, in the future, products with good appearance will look good after the baby is born!
After selecting sperm, the next step is to implant it into the body. Through medical equipment, she saw the doctor implant leukoplakia into her uterus.
The whole process was very successful. "This little white dot will be my lifelong concern!" Ye Haiyang said happily.
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Ye Haiyang paid great attention to nutritional balance throughout pregnancy, and specially invited nutritionists to match the diet of three meals a day. He thought there would be a pregnancy reaction during pregnancy, but there was no pregnancy reaction at all. Even the common stretch marks of pregnant women don't grow on her stomach.
Seeing that the expected date of delivery is coming, although I am a little worried, I am still full of expectations for my child.
The baby was born smoothly. This five-nation mixed-race baby is really beautiful: brown eyes, yellow hair, and a pair of big eyes are amazing, and people can't help but look more.
After the child was born, Ye Haiyang spent all his time on his daughter except the necessary work. She said: The best love for children is companionship. Children only have one childhood, and if they miss it, they will be gone.
The daughter's name is Doris, which means a gift from the sea. Obviously, Ye Haiyang thinks that her daughter's arrival is the best gift from God.
Ye Haiyang dotes on his daughter. At home, I never blame my daughter for throwing things or painting walls, but love her and love her.
On the premise of ensuring safety, Doris can touch anywhere and anything in the house at will, and it won't be damaged harshly; Doris can eat all the food she wants; Cry if you want, smile happily. Make trouble if you want. ...
My daughter is very clever. She learned to walk when she was less than one year old, and she was able to run when she was just one year old, and she stuck to Ye Haiyang every day.
In order to give children a better education, she not only takes them to experience various interesting activities and let them feel the nature, but also gives them early education classes to fully develop their talents.
However, when my daughter Doris is playing outside, someone will ask: Who is your father? Such a question.
Ye Haiyang originally wanted to find a father for her child, but if the father can't stay with her for a long time, it will hurt her even more. She doesn't want to lie to her children that your father has gone to the army or gone abroad. After much consideration, Ye Haiyang took a group of such photos for her daughter and told her children: You jumped out of a watermelon!
Ye Haiyang loves his daughter very much. For her, she even gave up her favorite extreme sports. She feels that she is the pillar of the family and can't have any accidents. She must give her daughter a happy childhood!
She once wrote in a letter to her daughter: "I won't teach you that flowers are red, pens are used for writing, and I won't teach you anything in books." I don't want to limit your imagination, because a person's imagination will make her have a different life. ...
Daughter, as long as you don't disturb others, I will fully satisfy your curiosity, make your childhood feel safe enough, and make your happiness infinitely magnified.
This is the childhood I gave you. "
In order to encourage the majority of female friends to bravely pursue the life they want, Ye Haiyang can give birth to children like men, speak for independent women, and become the first person in China to interview with full real-name video. She is sincere and frank under the camera.
After being exposed by reporters, she bought a sperm child, which caused a heated discussion for a time and was criticized and accused by netizens:
Netizen 1: "There is no male participation in your family. Your family is missing. For children, children are unfortunate! "
Netizen 2: "Can't you find a suitable partner to have another child?" People have different ideas, so they don't support or oppose it. "
Netizen 3: "Children know that they are special when they go to primary school! Have you ever thought about the life after all your children are born? Feeling great? Don't need a man "
Facing everyone's criticism, Ye Haiyang is very calm. She said, "I gave birth to a child of my own. We live our own lives behind closed doors and don't disturb other people in society. I am trying to give love to her mother and father. "
She even replied to netizens who questioned her: "What if I am a man? What would you think? You will say, dude, you are so cool! "
As a representative of independent women, Ye Haiyang can be said to be the first in a generation. It is not uncommon to buy sperm, but she bravely stood under the reporter's lens and accepted questions and pressure from all directions.
She is raising her children by herself, being both a father and a mother, making them healthy, lively and happy. Shouldn't we applaud her efforts?
Is it necessary to have a nominal father to be complete for a child? In the marriage and family in real life, which woman is not a "widowed child-rearing" and takes care of and educates her children alone?
How many families are not women who are both fathers and mothers? In addition, it depends on the faces of men and mothers-in-law. Marriage is entirely for yourself!
If economic conditions permit, any woman who doesn't want to be like Ye Haiyang can spend money and time to show her baby the world all day, giving her the best growing environment and education!
If I can choose, I will bring up my children like Ye Haiyang and make my life complete!
Ye Haiyang once said a sentence that touched me particularly: "The length of life really doesn't matter. What matters is whether you are yourself in this life. "
Don't limit your life, let life have countless possibilities, live high completely. Independent Ye Haiyang plans to wait for the Year of the Ox to give birth to twins and accompany her daughter!
I fully believe that she has financial strength and the ability to educate children! Pay tribute to this great female friend! You set an example for women all over the world!