In kindergarten, teachers pay attention to cultivating children to learn to do what they can, and form the habit of doing all kinds of things they can from an early age. But at home, parents, especially grandparents, often spoil their children. Because children eat too slowly or their clothes are dirty, they are too eager to breastfeed their children, which will make their lives miserable.

Adults are taking care of them, forming the bad habit that children depend on adults for everything.

2. Children haven't mastered the methods and skills of self-care.

Because children are young, they often don't understand the procedures and methods when they take care of themselves, and they encounter practical difficulties. Instead of teaching children, parents do it instead of children, which makes children unable to take care of themselves.

3. Lack of necessary opportunities for repeated practice.

When children just learn to dress up, they are in high spirits and often get encouragement and praise from their parents. But after learning, the child lost interest and didn't want to do it again, so the parents changed it, which made the child lose the opportunity to practice again and again.

So how to cultivate children's self-care ability from an early age and develop good work habits and independence?

1, according to the characteristics of children's physiological development, gradually put forward requirements, from easy to difficult, from simple to complex.

Children aged 2-3 can be trained in various self-help skills, such as eating, washing hands and brushing teeth, including going to the toilet by themselves.

2. Create necessary and reasonable conditions for children to take care of themselves.

For example, it is best to have your own cot and quilt; Clothes should be put in a low cabinet for children to take and put; The washbasin should be small and light, and the washcloth should be short and thin.

3. Teach children basic self-care methods and skills.

For example, the order of teaching children to wipe their faces is: wipe their eyes, face, nose, child tracking and forehead with a towel, then wipe their ears and ears, and finally wipe their necks.

4. Persistence and repeated training.

Children's self-care ability is constantly consolidated in practice, thus forming the habit of consciously loving labor. Children who have done well should be praised by adults in time, and parents should set an example by example. The formation of children's self-care ability is helpful to cultivate children's sense of responsibility, self-confidence and ability to deal with problems, which will have a far-reaching impact on their future life. Nowadays, most children are dependent and have poor self-care ability, so that they can't adapt to the new environment well. Therefore, it is very important to cultivate children's self-care ability, which should be regarded as one of the important contents of educational activities. Some experts pointed out that the cultivation of children's abilities and habits is in preschool period. As a kindergarten, it is the key to children's self-care ability to grasp this critical stage and educate children according to their age characteristics and self-care status.

Self-care ability mainly includes putting on and taking off clothes, shoes and socks, sorting clothes, eating independently, washing face and so on. Mr. Chen Heqin, a famous educator, put forward that "children should be allowed to do what they can". The outline also clearly pointed out that it is necessary to cultivate children's basic self-care ability. Let me talk about the reasons for the poor self-care ability of children:

1, spoiled by the family. Now the only child in the family, because parents do all the housework, only pays attention to the child's intellectual input, but ignores the cultivation of the child's self-care ability. In kindergarten, teachers pay attention to cultivating children to learn to do what they can, and form the habit of doing all kinds of things they can from an early age. But at home, parents, especially grandparents, often spoil their children for fear that they will not have enough to eat or feed them too slowly. Children's lives are taken care of by adults, thus forming the bad habit of children relying on adults for everything.

2. Children haven't mastered the methods and skills of self-care. Because children are young, they often don't understand the procedures and methods when they take care of themselves, and they encounter practical difficulties. Instead of teaching children, parents do it instead of children, which makes children unable to take care of themselves.

3. Lack of necessary opportunities for repeated practice. When children just learn to dress up, they are in high spirits and often get encouragement and praise from their parents. However, after learning, the child lost interest and didn't want to do it again, so the parents changed it, which made the child lose the opportunity to practice the novel repeatedly.

So how to cultivate children's self-care ability from an early age and develop good work habits and independence?

First, enhance children's self-care awareness.

Parents' unconditional arrangement makes children form a wrong understanding: parents will help them do things they don't want to do (if they want to drink water, parents will bring water; When getting up, parents will get dressed ...), let the children know that they have grown up through various forms, don't be afraid of being tired, and "do your own thing."