Have you ever experienced some of the biggest headaches for your parents on the road to parenting? 1, poor consciousness There was a child in my class who started crying after taking a nap in the morning: "Where are my shoes?" Where are my shoes? "You can't eat by yourself when you eat. You have to wait for the teacher to feed him! In fact, parents at home are obedient to their children and do everything instead. This kind of child is not only a problem of poor consciousness, but also a habit of relying on others!

Children depend on their parents until they are 2 years old. At this stage, parents must cultivate their children's independence and consciousness! First of all, parents can't make their children understand many things. If they want to achieve their goals, they need to try bravely. Second, cultivate children's self-confidence and encourage them to do their own things.

2. Children who don't want to go to kindergarten and just enter kindergarten will definitely have anxiety about entering the park. At this time, the guidance of parents is very important. Some parents asked, "Which teacher do you like?" "Did the teacher criticize you today?" "What did you learn today? ... parents' various problems will make the baby feel pressure and even more resistant to kindergarten.

Why don't parents change their ways? You can ask him, "What is the happiest thing for your child at school today?" And "Are so many children having fun together?" The guidance of social positive energy level! Another is to communicate with teachers more, keep abreast of children's situation in the park, and praise children more! Then he wants to go to kindergarten!

3. When is the best time to develop and design your baby's IQ? Many parents are worried. Some parents let their children write and read books too early, various training institutions and interest training classes. Some parents worry that this will put too much pressure on their children's childhood!

In fact, the stage of developing and designing a baby's IQ is at 0-3 years old. At this time, you can refer to early education training institutions. His course content is usually songs, colors and patterns, which can't cause work pressure to children, but children will still be interested!

4. Before the child is three years old, there will be various critical periods, during which there will be resistance, pouting with parents, and hitting parents when angry. How should parents communicate with their children at this time?

When educating children first, don't use negative examples, don't always threaten children to "don't want you" and "let wolves take you away", but guide her positively, such as telling her what kind of behavior is right.

Secondly, parents must not reprimand their children when they curse. The best way is to use cold violence and ignore him! Or distract it. Scolding children can only aggravate their memory. In his view, it will also attract the attention of parents and make the baby love swearing more!