We all know that most college romances are short-lived and can't stand any changes in time and conditions. Many couples broke up after graduation, and even many college students claimed that they didn't want to last forever, just wanted to have it once. Because forever, both sides need to enter the marriage life, and then start a dull daily life.

In fact, love in college may be the purest emotion, because there are almost no other objective conditions. You have a good impression on him, perhaps because he is handsome in playing ball, or just because he was wearing a clean white jersey when you first met him, or maybe you met him when you saw the same book in the library. Anyway, it was a small part of your college life that attracted your attention and yearning, so you got in touch and had love.

College love is not like our love after work. For example, if you look at a boy, you should first look at his job, income, family, house and car, which have formed an invisible standard to consider each other. This is for boys. Relatively speaking, boys must have a set of standards for girls, such as height, appearance, personality and so on. It's really not as pure as college.

In fact, if we manage college love well and get married, it will be a very happy thing. I also talked about a boyfriend in college, but in the end we didn't go on.

I think a long-term love in college should first be that both sides have the same values and ideas. For example, if both of them have passed the postgraduate exam, the possibility of breaking up is relatively small, because both of them are still at school and the surrounding environment is very different, and it is as easy to have the same topic as Gengen University. Another situation is that boys go out to work and girls are in graduate school, which is not bad. The worst thing is that girls are working while boys are still in graduate school. At this time, girls' values have changed a lot, but boys still live in ivory towers and can't give girls the marriage and stability they want.

I broke up because I was in the worst case. I think the best situation is that both sides have participated in the work, and after working for 2-3 years, they can basically talk about marriage. This kind of feeling and relationship is more logical, and each can understand the other's needs and psychological feelings. In fact, no matter what the situation is, whether it is a college romance or a post-work romance, if two people want to be long-lasting, both sides should learn to tolerate each other's shortcomings, each other's small temper and each other's hobbies, and then with the running-in of time, everything will come naturally and it will be easy to last forever.