Be reasonable and respect the Lord of the harem. The upstart is a low-key and gentle young master. "Empress in the Palace" begins by saying that she is the emperor's favorite woman and nursed back to health after abortion. Even if I get up early after childbirth and feel a little unwell, I pay tribute to the queen on time. Compared with Hua Fei's health, it is late, and it is more favored by the queen. Hua Fei hated the love of the noble Xin, and sarcastically said, "Xin often comes so early?" Xin Chang didn't offend Hua Fei and said seriously, "It's a little uncomfortable to get up early, but you can't delay greeting the empress." This statement won the queen's favor, which shows that she respects the queen very much. The harem is the only one, so she doesn't go against the queen. The queen won't embarrass her except that she won't have children.
Adhere to neutrality and never take sides. Xin Guiren doesn't have a strong family background, good looks, ambition to climb up, and no iron fist skill to harm people, but she knows the rules of the harem workplace very well, that is: never take sides! She didn't bring a side princess, didn't bring a side princess, and didn't curry favor with the queen mother. Even Zhen Xuan didn't take the initiative to be nice to her in the early days. Maybe that's why the emperor really likes her. She is gentle and virtuous, and her mind is delicate and not bad. The most important thing is not to cause trouble to the emperor. This simple woman reassured the emperor, so she won the emperor's favor.
Don't take sides at will, or you won't know how you died. Xia Dongchun is a typical example.
I am well aware of the way to survive in the harem and how to protect myself properly.
Xin Guiren was the first person to have an abortion, but why she had an abortion must be clear to everyone. It is definitely the masterpiece of the queen, the captain of the harem abortion. Because Xin Guiren is not Hua Fei's person, Hua Fei will not protect her, and Hua Fei will generally not hurt her heirs; She is not a queen, and the queen will never let her have a prince to threaten her position. Even if noble Xin knew that the queen had harmed her children, she knew very well that the queen was the head of the family in the harem, and she did not pursue the queen, which led to her miscarriage. Even if you can't beat the queen, you will eventually be shattered and become a victim of the harem survival. It is better to stop asking questions, pay tribute to the queen on time every day, as if nothing had happened, and then live a safe life. This is why Xin Chang has never been pregnant again. She knew that even the pregnant queen would not let her children go. It's better to abandon the child and save her life than to push yourself to the forefront.
Find the right time, follow the right people, and stay away from those who hurt themselves. Yun Qi used the convenience of being the palace master to make things difficult for Xin Guiren for many times, and even insulted and humiliated Xin Guiren's maid-in-waiting at will, which made Xin Guiren suffer from cowardice. However, chess belongs to the queen, so I'm glad you have no right and no right to dare to do anything to her, but you and Qi Yi have been at odds for a long time. When she flies back to the palace, she will know that the opportunity has come. See the fee together, show kindness directly, and slander. People who are not good to themselves don't have to be sincere. On the contrary, Xi Fei can take it out on her. If you help punish, you will end up with a body and a mass grave. Xin Guiren became the main theme of a palace and lived happily.
In the workplace, the upstarts teach us: Don't take sides, don't make enemies, you will suffer, keep a low profile, build a good relationship, find the right time to make the right decision, don't make public, don't be presumptuous, just be a quiet and happy person!