Speech is an important link in maintaining interpersonal relationships and a key factor in determining your life. Mastering words well will be of great help to family, career and life. Today I recommend ten books to help you get rid of the titles of "Ice King" and "Topic Terminator". The following are recommended books on communication skills. Welcome to reading.
Carnegie's communication art and life wisdom.
Author: (America) Dale Carnegie
Publishing House: China Overseas Chinese Publishing House.
Dale Carnegie is known as a great spiritual mentor and successful master in the 20th century, the father of modern American adult education, the godfather of human nature, the originator of interpersonal relationship, psychologist and interpersonal relationship scientist.
Carnegie has set up "interpersonal training courses" all over the country. With superhuman wisdom and rigorous thinking, he guided thousands of readers in morality, spirit and code of conduct to help people change their lives and create a brand-new life. Once published, his works were loved and sought after by readers and translated into dozens of languages, creating a "miracle in the history of human publishing". Today, Carnegie's works still sell well.
The book gives a detailed explanation of the workplace, social life and personal life, which has valuable enlightenment and reference for broadening horizons, having appropriate conversations in various occasions, winning praise and achieving success.
Speaking like TED: Nine Secrets of Creating the World's Top Speech
Author: (America) Gallo
Publishing House: CITIC Publishing House
Many people watch TED talk, but they know little about how to make a good TED talk. Speaking like TED provides a rare behind-the-scenes opportunity to reveal to readers how emotion, novelty and unforgettable constitute a wonderful speech.
From "unleashing your inner enthusiasm" and "designing the links that will surprise the audience" to "strictly observing the time rule of 18 minutes", the author provides practical methods for creating, designing and presenting TED-style speeches. These nine speaking skills can make the speech full of activities, ignite the passion of the team, give everyone confidence to overcome the fear of public speaking, help us "spread all ideas worth spreading" and achieve success in life and career.
Don't let your inability to speak hurt you.
Author: Chen Wei
Press: China Commercial Press.
Sometimes, we have excellent ideas, but because we can't express them perfectly and accurately, we can't get the appreciation of the leaders; Sometimes, we are full of enthusiasm, but we can't get each other's love because we are too shy and blunt to express ourselves; Sometimes, in social situations, we can't get the attention of customers because we can't flatter ourselves. ...
It's all because we can't talk.
Life is not too bad for people who can talk.
Author: Liang Shiqiu
Publishing House: Jinghua Times Chinese Publishing House
Liang Shiqiu always feels the richness and interest of life with a peaceful and open-minded attitude, savors the endless situation of life and writes happy articles. His humorous, elegant, sharp and tolerant language not only communicates with people's hearts, but also reflects his transcendental ideological sentiment and cultural accomplishment, which makes people feel cordial and interesting.
There are many subtleties in interpersonal communication, and decades of life experience have been given to each other, so many aspects need to be considered slowly. Only by learning to speak fluently can we handle all kinds of interpersonal relationships and add a little comfort to life.
Soft dialogue
Author: (America) george thompson
Jerry Jenkins (United States)
Publishing House: CITIC Publishing House
"Soft Dialogue" includes dialogue classes for millions of students all over the world since the establishment of Soft Dialogue Institute 30 years ago. It is not only a set of courses, but also a "martial arts secret" about communication and a "judo teacher in the language field".
Whether you are arguing with a tough boss about whether you should raise your salary, or you don't know what to do because of your husband's unreasonable attitude, or you can't say no after repeated invitations from friends, soft dialogue will help you successfully win the hearts of the interlocutors, let them think about the overall situation of the dialogue from a brand-new perspective, fully analyze each other's needs, and finally solve all the communication problems you face.
Effective speech: Stanford's most popular communication course
Author: (America) Peter Myers
Shane Nichols (USA)
Publisher: Jilin Publishing Group Co., Ltd
No matter what you do, whether you study or work, you may speak to colleagues and clients in the conference room, or to hundreds of people in the auditorium. On such an occasion, can you seize the opportunity to win support through your speech and realize your dream?
In today's society, speech has become an inevitable course for everyone. Through this book, you will learn about the cutting-edge research results in the field of effective speech. As long as you use it properly, you can also speak efficiently, seize every opportunity to show yourself, and infinitely increase the possibility of success.
The art of communication: look at people and look outside.
Author: (America) Ronald Adler
Russell Proch do
Press: World Book Publishing Company
How to know yourself and the people you associate with? How to balance the breadth and depth of the topic? How to express language information clearly without causing the other party's defense? How to use expressions, gestures and actions to make yourself more convincing?
The Art of Communication is divided into three parts, that is, seeing people inside, seeing people outside and seeing people between, with a total of 7 columns, 100 articles, so that you can easily learn and use the communication skills in the book. More than 50 popular American TV shows, movies and reality shows have been added, so that you can easily confirm the communication principles summarized by the author in each chapter and increase the interest of reading.
Four communication modes: how to say it is more important than what to say.
Author: Xu Lili
Publishing House: Changjiang Literature and Art Publishing House
All communication books tell you that you must understand the implication, the implication-the question is: how to listen?
All communication books tell you that you must put yourself in the other person's shoes-the question is: how to stand?
All eloquence books tell you that only by finding the potential needs of the other person can you put words into his heart-the question is: how to find them?
Humorous communication: the eloquence of winning at zero distance
Author: Chen Hao
Publishing House: China Overseas Chinese Publishing House.
Humor is a language skill, a vivid, interesting and practical art of eloquence, and a philosophy of life that treats people with things. A humorous and eloquent person, whether it is interpersonal communication, business negotiation, workplace speech or romance, will make people sit up and take notice; No matter what occasion, it can become the focus of people's attention.
Mr. Lin Yutang explained: "Anyone who is good at humor will be more reclusive;" And those who are good at appreciating humor, especially the inner silence, have a kind of inhuman taste. Unlike rude jokes, the quieter the humor, the more silent it is. "It can be said that humor is the product of human wisdom, and it is an advanced emotional activity and aesthetic activity. Any dull and mediocre value orientation and stereotyped way of thinking cannot be called humor.
Key Dialogue: How to Communicate Effectively
Author: (America) Patterson
Press: Machinery Industry Press
You must have met the following situations. When you put forward your carefully designed scheme to your boss, you were thrown a pot of cold water. Ask subordinates to work overtime, and subordinates are silent. Talk to your family about "increasing revenue and reducing expenditure" and turn a deaf ear. Ask your partner to be romantic, but the other half is still like a log. Ask friends to pay back the money, and friends always find various excuses to shirk it.
Most people, like you, are facing a "critical moment" that is difficult to solve but will have a great impact on their lives. They were either tongue-tied and didn't know how to deal with it, or they solved it in a tough way, but they left an unpleasant shadow in each other's hearts.
Key dialogue will help you use all kinds of communication skills to solve all kinds of problems in life, achieve invincible career and have a happier life.
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