This article is called "Children" and is included in Random Thoughts.

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Women who have no children are especially blessed. Raising villains is no problem. For this love, I can't bear the heart of my life. When you encounter something that can't be solved, ask your child. The opinions blurted out by children are often the most accurate and practical answers. The most naive idea of adults is what do children know? In fact, most children don't really like being a child. This situation is quite common in China. A moderate scolding of a child may make the child's mind feel more secure. Mr. and Mrs. Hua, most of them accept incomplete marriages in their entirety. The reason is ━ ━ for children. Parents in Europe and America often prefer to die when dealing with unhappy marriages. The reason is also ━ ━ for children. Children don't feel small. It is adults who repeatedly instill the concept of size that causes children to "admit the facts." Childhood, only when it appears in memory, can achieve that perfection. The view of a happy life is that when you get up, you don't have that deep calculation about the coming day. There is no shortage of people at all, and there can be no more happiness. Happiness is a waiting process. The sudden so-called "surprise" is actually overwhelming. Universal happiness can often be expressed in words. True and profound happiness is impossible for others to understand. Happiness and sadness are loneliness. Happiness is a terrible thing. If you don't believe me, ask yourself three times-am I happy? Happiness is another king's new dress. This time, if the king comes out to parade, everyone will laugh to death ━ ━ Why doesn't a king come out and run around in clothes! Are you happy? Are you happy? Are you happy? Try it, eat a candy every day, and then tell yourself that today is really sweet. Last month, when we were thirty, we were very sad. At the age of twenty, we never came back. How wonderful it is that we missed our thirtieth birthday at the age of fifty. When we are ninety-nine, we may be as happy as a thief who hasn't been caught, thinking that the years of our lives have passed safely. Believe in life and time. Time dilutes all pain. Life does not necessarily create the joy of renewal. Children just want to grow up, young people want to grow beards, middle-aged people dye their hair, and old people forget their age the most. Birth is the most certain travel. Isn't death just another kind of parting? Growth is a kind of transformation. The loss of the old must be due to the arrival of the new, which is fairness. Children and the elderly, in the spiritual field, are much more free than people at other stages. Because they are similar. The beauty of time lies in its inevitable passage. Flowers in spring, moon in autumn, snow in summer and winter. Sadness is the most chewy taste. Without experiencing this kind of pain, it is impossible to ponder the happiness of other lives. Grief cannot be repaid in one lump sum, but it is forced to be repaid in installments. Even if people are rich. There is no way to settle the bill quickly. Sometimes, we have to be hard on ourselves and don't have to indulge our pity too much. It is better to be sad before living than to bargain with people who are sad day after day. Some people's complaints are just habits, so don't help them solve them seriously. This unhappiness is the enjoyment of those people in their daily lives. Sometimes we are sad because we have been wronged, but we refuse to understand. This kind of mood is really asking for it. Frustration is painful, but few people use the experience of frustration to repair their lives. This kind of pain is paid in vain. Smart people are often unhappy. Smart people always smile. The most constructive thing about sadness is to know that the heart is still in its place. Nature makes people. Man created heaven according to his own nature. I am the protagonist in my life. For other people's lives, we are at best just a hint, an encouragement, an encouragement and a sincere concern. These attitudes may enrich other people's lives, but they can't develop into-we can't afford to live on behalf of other people's lives solely for another life-even if others give us this right. It is a kind of courage to insist on what you should do. It is another kind of courage never to do what conscience forbids. Don't be afraid to refuse others, if your reasons are justified. When a person opens his mouth to make a request, he has two answers in mind. Therefore, it is expected to give him any answer. Forgiving others' mistakes is not always a virtue. Ignoring your own mistakes is the most irresponsible release. Too much for yourself is for selfishness. Give up completely. I'm also abusing a creature-myself. Self-pity, narcissism, self-suffering, conceit, inferiority, self-abandonment, self-injury, self-blame, self-interest, selfishness, self-care, introspection, self-deception and suicide are all due to oneself. Self-use, freedom, self-help, self-sufficiency, self-confidence, self-discipline, self-love, self-satisfaction, self-consciousness, self-recovery, self-defense, freedom and nature all come from oneself. What are you? Who are you? Are you your own? Live a happy life today, do it wholeheartedly, wholeheartedly, and try your best. No matter what the result is, you should go to bed happily. There are many great difficulties in life. As long as you live, nothing can't be solved. Just time and wisdom. Don't hate anyone and anything for a long time. This kind of mentality burns like the pain of purgatory, and only oneself is really injured. What we are now is mostly what our subconscious wants. We are nothing now, and we are definitely not taken away by the subconscious. Don't complain, treat others, and enjoy yourself is the best life. Those who pursue their own perfection, the eager demand is the imperfection of personality. Ordinary and simple. It is not easy to be content with the ordinary. It's good to let go of a worry. When I was in a hurry, I couldn't get over it, so I threw it away. Wouldn't it be better to have nowhere to think? Optimism is naive, so why be pessimistic? Facing the reality, it is called philosophy-the one that has arrived. It is impossible to disobey orders. Obeying orders is too easy. Obeying orders is serious. Only having a happy life is the freest. Being a man and doing things can only be peaceful if you keep your eyes low and your hands high. Look at things with superior eyes and superior eyes. There are no restrictions except complaining and sighing. Men and women-80% of men have only two things subconsciously-self-esteem and vanity. It is easy to master this kind of psychology and ask a proud big man to stand up and sit down. The two things that women love most are probably love and money. Women are more realistic than men mentally and materially. No matter how stupid a woman is, she has her shrewdness when choosing a husband. No matter how clever a man is, once he falls in love, he will become stupid! Women's intuitive response is often better than men's repeated judgments. Women are illogical, and men can't tell whether they are reasonable or not. At first glance, it seems that women always like to walk in the rain before and after flowers. In fact, behind these warmth, women's inner plans can definitely be more than these. Men in the world, in their family life, are often just an extension of their children. If women treat their fathers, husbands and brothers with love for their children, most of them will give them warm feelings in return. In case, women stubbornly regard this "sub-delay" as an opponent at home, forcing men to confront, and the consequences are often unimaginable. Men are mud and women are water. No more, no less, pinch two clay figurines-what a fairy couple. This kind, because it is rare, God always wants to take one back first and get it in his palm to see what the immortal looks like. A man who is afraid of his wife, where is he really afraid of?? Cherishing is the reason, and saving Ma Yan is the secret. Bullying husband and wife, that domineering, is really anodyne, not afraid of trouble. The husband hurts the society and bullies the weak and kind people outside, and the wife knows nothing about it. Once the husband has a world-famous confidant outside, the wife must fight for her life-either you die or I die. The so-called righteousness above family loyalty is also. A patient woman is rarely seen by men and may be despised. Men's patience, women say soldiers are useless and look down on them. Treating a woman-a married wife, sweet words certainly contribute to a happy marriage, but not as good as a monthly salary bag. For a husband who marries a man and a woman, laundry and cooking are certainly helpful to the happiness of marriage, but it is best to always whisper and be polite. Women can't stand men nagging at home. Once a woman goes back to her mother's house, a man will know that without that tendon, she will neither sit nor sleep. More and more women are unmarried. What does this mean? Men who have lost their wives and married have always been there. What does this mean? The war between women and men began in the wild. Life is really boring when women and men don't fight. Women and men-it's hard. Qian Qian Money is a profound thing, and there are more stories behind it than love. Money can kill heroes. Money can buy all the beautiful women. Love is a great ability. People in the world love money so much, so the ability of money covers everything. Money, money, money, money is always the most talked about topic in society. There is no money in the world to produce comedies. Most tragedies in the world have nothing to do with money. After paying the money, the things you buy are not worth the money. Pay the spirit, and the money you earn is not equal. When you borrow money, you always expect the other party to give generously. Paying off debts is mostly heartache. Your own money is called hard-earned money. Other people's money looks like an extra windfall. Between friends, there is indeed a sense of wealth-people who open their mouths and think. Between friends, it is rare to have the pleasure of making money-the one who gives money sighs. A rich man can also care about the poor in trouble. Really rich. Money is a virtue, which is manifested when it is acquired and dominated. Money is the devil, and when it is earned, it will show itself. Money is the fairest. The rich are unhappy, the poor are unhappy, and neither are the people who are not rich or poor. There is no eternal love in the world of love, and there is absolutely eternal affection in the world. Once love is integrated into feelings, the foundation is not built on sand. I'm just talking about family. Some people's love is just a kind of "emotion at that time". If the other person mistakenly regards this feeling as a long-term love, it is naive. Don't worry about forgetting. Forgetting is better than remembering everything. On the road of love, the most calm people are full of potholes. A moment's truth cannot be said to be false. Love is so different, you can't say that there are brakes. Love will not last long if it is not implemented in real life, such as dressing, eating, counting money and sleeping. Sometimes, we mistakenly think that a habit of life is a love for a man or a woman. Love is not necessary, but my heart is desolate without love. Desolate days are sad, and it's not just love that's sad? Love is as fast as rain. Without it, no matter how many seeds a broken heart has, it is impossible to sprout vitality. True love is absolutely the incarnation of an angel. A doomed love is just a devil's joke. For a loved one, no matter what kind of blind, dumb, deaf, burned face or broken limbs the other person encounters, he can face it calmly and continue to be more cautious. However, once I think of the familiar "voice" of my beloved and completely change it into the voice of another stranger, I may hope that I will be deaf from now on. Otherwise, love is hard to protect. I'm not talking about vocal cord injury, I'm talking about that completely changed, smooth voice. Oh, it's difficult. Love is not necessarily person to person. When people fall in love with workaholics, it is possible to move on. The attraction of the so-called animism does not necessarily happen only to the same kind. Love is a mystery. When there is an excuse in love, an excuse is an excuse. Obviously, there is no excuse for enthusiasm. It came and went without a trace. If love dies, it is equally unreasonable for one party to force it back for any reason. Love can't be seen or touched-it's unreasonable in the eyes of science nerds who demand truth. However, people who study science can't do without this kind of so-called emptiness that is unscientific and illogical. The taste of love is very complicated, and it is definitely worth a try to get drunk. After three times, few people dared to drink any more. Take part in casual entertainment, even as a child's game. Only the most boring people in the world can play this kind of love game. If you really have temperament and a serious family-run drinking capacity, you can also be a brave man and a brave woman. Love is a colorful balloon, and no matter how gorgeous the color is, it can't stand the sting of the needle tip. The clouds are light and the wind is light, and the water is flowing, which is more than a friend of a gentleman. Isn't love the same, called the bottom, heaven and earth? I like people treating me like a fool best. It's much more convenient to get along with people. I don't advise anyone or anything. In fact, everyone is just confused about what they have done. Giving in to a bad guy made him push his luck. Praise a fool and he will get carried away. The fairest beauty in the world is the complacency of smart people. Fools don't think they are worse. The most unfair view in society is that there is a selfish villain who has no moral conscience, always giving trouble to others and taking advantage of everything. Generally, only such people are called ━ ━ "Not sensible". And treat a generous, kind to people, give in to everything, compassionate and helpful sincere gentleman, the average person can only say ━ ━ this person! I'm just one person. "Ordinary people" and "boring people" are definitely two kinds of people. Most boring people boast that they are ordinary. The most terrible kind of people lies in their inconspicuous personality. What is the inner personality hidden under this vague coat? Good neighbors are very important. Good relatives are also important. Invite relatives to be neighbors, and relatives and neighbors often become enemies. Makeup helps to look and feel helpless. Whether you have property or not has little to do with whether you have a tutor. A leisurely manner is more heartbreaking than an aggressive attitude. Human feelings are warm and cold, just like flowers bloom and fall. It is better to regard this phenomenon as an inevitable season. If we can treat our husbands as good friends, our friends as brothers and sisters, our brothers and sisters as our real hands and feet, our children as parents, and our parents as our beloved children, it may not be the present situation. The question is: who would be such a jerk to be a fool? After doing thousands of experiments on human nature, I have a belief that any failure will be repeated-at least this experiment has been done again. When the baby was born, most people didn't know the baby's future, but they all said ━ ━ Congratulations! Congratulations! When people die, most people don't understand the world after death, but say ━ ━ What a pity! What a pity! I don't eat heartless greasy food. I'm not full, which makes my body clean. I don't have unattainable dreams, which makes me sleep soundly. I don't live in a luxurious house, which makes me worry about food and clothing. I don't wear high heels, which makes my steps more leisurely. I don't follow the fashion, let my clothes grow new forever. I try to walk as much as possible when I am not in a hurry, which makes me very practical. Don't be lazy to think, let knowledge come alive. I don't want to force my heart to become clear. I avoided unnecessary socializing, which made the promise disappear. I care about others carefully and don't let my feelings overflow. I treat the past severely so that people don't have to have too many memories of the past. I ignore unnecessary gossip and make my heart worry-free. I will never be too enthusiastic about others, which makes me know my limits. I seldom ask for help, which makes me very free. I don't owe money, I feel at ease. I made people owe me money, and I was a fool. I read books and let me live a few more lives. I write, so I don't talk. I speak, which makes it unnecessary for me to write. I make money, which makes me prove my ability. I spend money to make it noble. I was sick, which made me realize the necessity of health. I am healthy, which makes me very alert. I travel, which leaves me with nothing to bind. I live in peace, which makes me know how to be happy. I wear clothes, which makes me live the language of clothes. I eat, which keeps me alive. I cry because I love. I laugh, because I can't help laughing! If human hair is a garden, and flowers are everywhere in spring, summer, autumn and winter, what will the scenery be like? If a person's body is a fruit tree, it seems that different fruit shapes can be found anywhere. If people can fly, maybe only thin people want to fly. If you don't make money, you will have food. People in the world must be bored. If mother cooks a bowl of dark blue thick soup, will she eat it? If the baby is rolled out of cabbage, dare to sprinkle pesticides? If people and animals can talk, they must be talking about animals. If people's legs take root and plants run around, the sounds they hear are probably help, help, help. Once a person speaks, every word sounds like a flower jumping out of his mouth. What kind of flower stand do you put? If my eyes can see the past and the future, I think I can only watch the Trojan Massacre. If the dream can come true, there must be many people who dare not sleep. If all the people in the world look exactly the same, then fashion designers are the most important people. If time starts to go back, the old people will be nervous and the children will be more nervous. If people can go to any planet, I must be polite and invite others to visit first. If Baiyun can be used as a quilt, the sales of dehumidifiers will be more prosperous. If people can go through walls, that kind of thick, I'd better not go in. If it rains, it can quickly freeze into vermicelli. Please take a plane to moisten the fields with vermicelli soup in the summer drought. If people's thoughts are like communication waves, and everyone can't hide secrets, then I must be completely unwilling. If the whole world agrees to stop all activities for three months. See what great things will happen. I won't! Standing in front of the machine, all mental bodies can be decomposed. Put another "receiver" in many other places, and it's the same person again. I think the travel agency welcomes this idea most. Do you think your doll doesn't go out dancing at night? Do not believe, check their soles. Do you think your dolls don't come out to steal food at night? If you don't believe me, peel their bellies and see. If all the newborn babies in the nursery croak in the hoarse voice of the old man, how much should this room give you for the bottle? Everyone is afraid of death. Are you afraid if people are never allowed to die? Do you think you are the only one who likes to watch puppet shows? What game do you think God is playing? If the ocean is like blood, the blood is black juice, the nose is green, the tears are bright yellow and the sky is dark brown. And Mr. Yuan, if all Mr. Yuan come forward and move the snake hair-live snake roots shake you and go to another planet? If you feel scared after reading this chapter, please read the next chapter, I won't scare you. Friends and friends are a kind of interpersonal relationship outside the five ethics. It is because people have not clearly defined the meaning of this word that they must ask their friends to live and die. The advantage of friends is that they can choose freely. Have a plenty of fate, have a plenty of fate. What's more interesting is that friends can kill time when they come, and they may never get together again when they leave. If not, who dares to make friends? Don't think that many friends are blessings. If you get the blessing of your friends, what are you? A moment's intimate friend, the most expensive is short-term and long-term, and there are always complications in that kind of fit. Friends should be classified-for example, books should not be mixed together. It's so confusing, I'm in a hurry to find it, and I often find the wrong category. It is also a mysterious feeling. Come and go without a trace, friendship is deep, fate is exhausted, so I became a stranger. You really don't have to be too cautious about people you know-so-called friends. If you don't agree with your heart and your feelings are not deep, it's probably a good time to meet. No matter how close a friend is, he should be measured and think he knows him well. As a result, they were isolated. The meaning of friends lies in ever-changing words. Friends are definitely lost in time and space. Once childhood playmates leave each other and meet again, emotion is just a promise in memory. It's hard to say anything except in those days. It is safest for friends to have no interests. Once interests are involved, the possibility of complementarity is extremely small, and there are many examples of enemies. Between friends, ask for small things, accommodate people's feelings, and convince people. Asking too much and pushing your luck is the fastest shortcut to deliberately losing friends. Giving charcoal in the snow is more important than just comforting words. Charcoal is not expensive, but it is not given to many people. Your mind is also expensive, and this feeling is the most understandable. That's when friends need charcoal badly. Make friends, don't come in a hurry, friends who are in a hurry will leave quickly. Screen friends, slow down, there is no turning back. For friends, think twice before you do anything. Make friends, your eyes are kind, when you look at the mountain, you will become a mountain peak. ━━ Always a good man. Everyone has shortcomings, this and that. Don't you have one yourself? Even if you make friends, you should always make use of them. Do it once in a while unless you have to. It's tiring to form an alliance with anyone. You'd better not tie this knot. Good friends are sincere, but they are always too hasty. Friendship can't be run as easy as blowing off dust. At that point, it becomes a business. Business risk is very difficult, why use such a small thing as friends? Don't care too much about your friends, that's mother's full-time job. Don't be a "friend's mother" and confuse the boundaries. Criticize your friends, unless you are sensible, you might as well not say it. It is unwise to seize friendship. Snow mud claws, touching it for fun. Once you lose a friend, the most open-minded idea is that you are nobody. Calling a friend depends on your own capital. To attract butterflies, the sweetness is inevitably insufficient. Re-commitment, focusing on measuring your own ability. Refuse to plead, refuse to be fair in the eyes. Be loyal to others and ask for nothing in return. When it comes to amorous feelings, it's best to keep three points. Knowing each other and implementing them is the normal state of life. If you can talk occasionally, but your hearts are still gentle, you are good friends. Once the relationship between men and women is transformed into love, it is the best of both worlds. It is absolutely possible to have a lifelong pure friendship between the two sexes. I'm afraid the reason for the deterioration and disappearance is not the two sides themselves, but the spouses are difficult to understand. It is impossible to make friends without conditions. An unconditional friend is not a friend, but a brother. Love is deep as the sea. It's not difficult for friends. It's not difficult, because there is no * * * to dress, eat and count money to sleep together. It is most reliable to be friends with yourself, and pestering and beating will always be one of our own. A drop in the ocean dares to be friends with heaven and earth, which is ━ ━ Who will die with me, who will be with me, boundless and wild.