On Sunday (June 2020 14), I booked a new two-bedroom apartment and started to clean up.
My husband and I are both tired. On Tuesday, I packed 10 boxes. ...
A lot of unnecessary things, I want to throw away.
But I didn't have time to clean up, so I decided to move to a new home and be completely separated.
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The experience of this move:
Why is moving so painful?
The money you spend is really with you in another way! ! You are surrounded.
When I moved this time, I especially regretted buying an electric piano.
When I was 25 years old, I bought an electric steel as a gift for myself.
I don't play much after learning it. I put it in the house.
Electric steel is not heavy, just 20 Jin, but it takes up space!
Regret your heart when you move.
The heaviest thing to move is the book.
A lot of books, I don't want to read them when I buy them.
On the contrary, it was borrowed from the library. If there is a date to return the book, you can read it faster.
Girls have many things. Where are they?
Clothes! Shoes! Bags! skin care product
Why so many?
I can't bear to lose it.
Why don't you want to lose it?
Every dress, every shoe bag, when I bought it at that time, I definitely liked it.
Where can I say throw?
I liked it at that time and paid for it. What happened?
It is not easy to match, it is out of date, and it is not appropriate to be fat again, which leads to some single items becoming chicken ribs.
Throw? I hesitate when I think of the money I spent when I bought it.
Wear? Ugly and rustic. I don't like wearing it
Therefore, the more you save clothes and shoes, the more you save.
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First, think about the collocation you often wear and like, and make an excel list.
Don't list shoes and clothes that you can't remember (you can't remember things, you definitely don't like them enough) or that you feel ugly and don't want to wear.
Excel tables only keep their favorite collocation.
I just simplified my four seasons,
Category:
Underwear and socks are not included. You don't need a sweater in the north, you just need a long-sleeved t+ down jacket to spend the winter ~ ~
Send some other extra clothes back. Donate the rest.
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I swear that after this move, I will travel around the world with three medium-sized boxes:
1 Kitchen supplies, saucers for pots and pans
2 clothes and shoes, a box of clothes all year round.
3 books, bedclothes.
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Feeling:
If you are in a big city, you only need one or two suitcases, and you can move to your new home in an hour.
So, when you change jobs, will it be easier?
If you have a serious conflict with your boyfriend, can you surpass Rachel Momo and stay away from love rat's residence in an hour?
Do you have the heroic spirit of "I can start again at any time, I can start again at any time, and I can change with the environment at any time"?
The city is so big, changing a job means renting a house nearby.
If you change boyfriends, you should live together or live closer, because it is convenient for dating!
After all, in Beijing, one is in Haidian and the other is in Chaoyang, and that is long-distance love.
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If it's hard to move, you won't want to change your job or change your environment.
The thought of moving, packing for three days, unpacking and moving, three days.
If you cater to love rat temporarily, or get stuck in the old company.
Well, don't move, it's wasted again, make do!
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The cost of moving is really high, and everyone is lazy and unwilling to change.
What courage it takes to move to another place to live!
In short, the cost of moving, changing jobs, leaving the old environment and changing jobs must not be too high.
Otherwise, you will become hesitant.
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In fact, when we came to a new city, we all started with one or two suitcases!
But in daily life, pots and pans, clothes and shoes are constantly added.
Consumerism is pervasive, no matter how difficult it is, it is easy to be caught.
Only moving is a loud slap that wakes people up-
You'd better throw away everything you don't need! !
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I have to say that the paradox of marketing now is that it often tells you "what do you need" by itself.
According to the logic of selling goods, everything is meaningful.
If a commodity is to be sold, it will be endowed with various meanings, and the masses will constantly bombard it-"You need it, it is very useful to you, buy it, buy it!"
Now, many demands have been made.
Before I used Apple, I didn't know I needed a smart phone with a big screen and no keyboard!
However, it is too much to deliberately create demand for selling goods.
Any product will give you n usage scenarios to convince you that you need it.
But do you really need it?
Without this product, you have a substitute and live well.
For example, endless breakfast machines, sandwich machines and multifunctional cooking machines, plugged in, look good, all want to challenge the status of wok.
I bought an electric baking pan and found that the wok is the best. If it's not enough, I'll buy two and do both. One hot toast and one fried egg.
I'm going to throw away the electric baking pan this time.
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You can also watch the live broadcast of the anchor. Look at their words.
They recommend something, have a scene, and tell you that you need it.
But in fact, some things are not often used.
Especially for office workers.
Exaggerated and fashionable clothes, T-shirts, jewelry, eye shadow trays, lipstick, 52 weekends a year, how many times can you wear+full makeup?
Finally, I found that Uniqlo smells the best, so you can't make mistakes if you behave yourself.
No makeup, P picture is the easiest to do!
For another example, platform shoes, an ugly cave, is endowed with the scene of littering, walking, taking children for a walk with her husband and going to the supermarket. I didn't know what to wear, so I wore this. It was absolutely comfortable and I wasn't tired after walking all day. It is very useful!
When I bought it back, I found, excuse me, there are shoes with holes in the office?
I work five days a week, and I don't hang out every day on weekends.
Then, this pair of shoes was bought at a high price and left idle.
You will soon fall into the chicken rib situation mentioned above, and you can't bear to lose it, because 1 loved 2 and spent money.
But the truth is, you spent money on inefficient items, and you don't have to.
Breaking up is to throw away these chicken ribs and surround yourself with high-utilization items that you like. This kind of life is happy!
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Breaking up is a skill worth practicing again and again.
We should learn to distinguish which items are "efficient", which can be beaten and which items are chicken ribs.
Throw away all the chicken ribs and don't feel bad about the money you spent at the beginning.
When you are worried about money, just think about how painful it will be if you move tomorrow and pack all the chicken ribs.
Instead of feeling sorry for the money you bought at the beginning, it is better to feel sad for your tears after packing and moving!
The house is too big, so it will be ignored automatically. )
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I have moved several times.
Once you graduate from college, once you study in Britain and return to China.
Moved four times in Beijing.
I'm tired of being apart every time.
I want to slap myself every time and doubt that I am the king of rags.
However, it is really not a long lesson!
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It is not easy for people to change their inertia of hoarding goods, make up their minds, examine the quality of clothes and life from a higher "efficiency" dimension, and fight against our innate aversion to loss!
But it is not easy, so if you do it, congratulations! You have surpassed the majority!
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8 o'clock tonight, move!
(Jun Zi No.2020.6.16)