Complaining is a common behavior in our daily work and life. By reading Will? Bowen's book "A World without regrets" has benefited me a lot. I realize that? No complaints? The connotation of. Reverend Bowen said in the book:? The reason why we complain is the same as the reason why we do anything: we perceive that complaining will bring benefits. Excellent people don't complain. ?
Looking through the world without complaint is a great spiritual inspirational book. After reading this book, I was deeply touched. When I was slowly immersed in the world of books, I found that it was actually a mirror in my heart. There is no great truth in this, just a very common way, a very common example, telling us a life attitude and letting us know ourselves better. In the mirror, we can see whether our appearance is neat or not, what expression is on our face, anger or joy, and this book is a mirror that reflects our inner world, allowing us to see our inner world, whether it is optimistic or negative. These may not be revealed in our expressions, but there are more or less complaints in our words. Of course, some people think that complaining is a kind of catharsis and a way to adjust emotions. I thought this before reading this book: shall we call it a complaint? Complain I think complaining occasionally helps to adjust my inner balance and get rid of the shadow of my heart, but after reading this book, I realized that complaining is an epidemic. Your complaint will arouse other people's voices and make it a contagious mental illness. Not only can you not find a solution, but you may also complain more because of the pleasure of complaining, which may eventually lead to uncontrollable results. After the hero's dog was hit by a car, he almost made himself a slave to anger and complaint. It was reason that stopped the hero from complaining and didn't make things worse. Reason is the rational analysis and understanding of one's behavior in the inner world, and what is all this? No complaints? Give us what we can do.
In the book, I saw that many people, like me, suddenly found themselves a person with so many complaints and felt a little uneasy, but a sentence in the book made me suddenly wake up: be honest with my emotions, be satisfied with my uneasiness, and don't panic when I find my own shortcomings. Now that they have appeared, you should face them honestly and bravely. You should find a way to end it, and then you can finally be satisfied with your uneasiness? . The book requires us to have the courage to analyze ourselves, find out our shortcomings and change ourselves. From speaking less and learning to be silent, to being content and not being silent, to being content and not saying anything, can you really have it in the end? A world without complaints? . When we don't complain, our mind is only happy. When everyone abandons complaining, the world will be more harmonious.
Finally, quote Bill? A word from Gates? Life is not equal, accept it. Remember, never complain. ?
Thoughts on reading Fan Lizhi's book
Rick. Hu Zhe's book Life Without Limits gives people enthusiasm, courage, faith and persistence through the author's narration of his unique life experience. You can't help but be deeply moved by this guy who was born without hands and feet. He has nothing, cringes and feels inferior. Generate shows infinite self-energy, lives its own value and creates an infinitely wonderful life.
Rick, the author of this book? Hu Zhetian was born with seal limb disease. Besides the trunk, the only tool is a small left foot with only two toes. You can imagine how unfair life is to him! At birth, Rick's parents couldn't accept this cruel reality, and his mother even refused to hug her children. This is a huge blow to anyone, and it is a wound that is difficult to heal. Fortunately, they did not give up, and slowly began to accept and face the reality.
Rick in childhood can be said to be carefree. As he grew older, he began to face many challenges, and he tried to overcome them. When Rick reached school age, he got into trouble. Because of physical defects and despair of life, he once thought about suicide. But in the end, he gave up this stupid and irresponsible idea. He thought of his parents who gave him comfort and help, encouraged and supported his family and felt sorry for them. So Rick decided to live well. He began to look for something to be proud of in himself to enhance his self-confidence. He tried to make some friends and blend in with the crowd. Although often rejected, ridiculed or called by classmates? Aliens? But he talked with his classmates actively and sincerely, and the classmates gradually got to know him and became friends with him. He has also been affirmed and inspired by many friends. In the end, Rick overcame difficulties and became a great man. Where's Rick? Hu Zhe kept visiting schools, churches, slums, prisons and even garbage cities to share his life experiences and spread hope and love with people there. Tell people about his experience, remind them of the importance of faith and action, and encourage them to have confidence. Up to now, 600 million people have learned about his courageous life through various channels. His deeds have deeply inspired many people.
Rick. Hu Zhe's success lies in his attitude towards life? No restrictions? Normal people may not have such an experience. Because they have healthy bodies and no worries, people only pay attention to what they have lost or what they have been injured, without real goals. Because of this, many normal people live an ordinary life. What they are wrong about is that they have a wrong view of life? Set limits? Let's go Rick. Hu Zhe was not defeated because of his disability. He thinks this is God's special test and plan. He works with those people. Limited? Life is different, he thinks: as long as you have a dream, you can do anything. ?
What impressed me most about Rick was his optimism and self-confidence. It is easy for people to be defeated in adversity and then give up their goals. Rick is just the opposite. The ancients said:? If you don't advance, you will retreat. ?
Rick has always been a ship full of happiness and optimism, sailing against the current. Rick tells people that the saddest thing in life is not the loss of limbs, but the loss of hope and goal for survival! Yeah, how to move without a goal? Lectra itself is a lamp, illuminating people's goals. Let thousands of Qian Qian people regain their dreams and move towards success.
This book not only conveys our optimistic spirit and belief in success, but also injects great strength into our hearts. When encountering difficulties, think about how Rick overcame his physical disability; When you want to give up, think about how much sweat Rick has paid to succeed; When you are pessimistic, think about Rick's bright smile and optimistic spirit; When you find yourself complaining about the unfairness of the world, be as grateful as Rick and cherish everything we have!
In fact, we often lose ourselves in various psychological misunderstandings. This book is a navigation light to guide you out of the fog. In the final analysis, what Rick wants to tell you is: be the best of yourself, I can!