Tell your children that their parents are willing to lend it to you.

Interpretation: This is a property right issue.

When parents buy things for their children, the ownership still belongs to the parents, and the children should be grateful. Otherwise, children will have such a qualitative thinking: parents' property is mine. Therefore, many children will think that parents should meet their own requirements and lack gratitude.

2. I want to know the mobile phone password.

Interpretation: This is a question of the right to know.

With the development of the internet, all kinds of information are muddy, and children lack the ability to distinguish. Therefore, when children don't have enough discriminating ability and safety awareness, parents need to know their mobile phone password, so as to know their movements in time and prevent problems before they happen.

3. Learn to call with the right attitude.

[Interpretation: Politeness and safety issues.

If "Mom" and "Dad" are displayed on the screen, you can always ignore it and remember the mobile phone numbers of Mom and Dad. Sometimes parents worry about the safety of their children when they are away, and they will call to ask. At this time, the child can't deliberately not answer the phone. Others must answer the phone (even if they can't answer it at that time, they should call back afterwards), which is a kind of cultivation.

4. Give your mobile phone to your parents on time.

[Interpretation: Respect others]

Give your mobile phone to your parents at 7: 30 every night (9: 00 on weekends) on time. In addition, when you call your classmates, you must respect other people's lifestyles. Do as you would be done by. Try not to disturb others when they are resting. This is the most basic accomplishment.

5. You can't take your cell phone to school.

Interpretation: Can't affect learning

Children's poor self-control and lack of accurate ability to distinguish all kinds of information in mobile phones may affect their physical and mental health development. Besides, there are classmates at school, so playing with them is better than holding a mobile phone alone. If you have something to discuss with your classmates, face-to-face communication is better than sending messages. Words are better than words.

6. If it is damaged, solve the maintenance problem yourself.

Interpretation: the problem of responsibility consciousness]

If you fall into the toilet, break it, lose it, etc. You will be responsible for replacing or repairing it. Please help mom and dad with housework or use lucky money to solve the maintenance fee. We have known since childhood that we have to pay compensation for damage to public property, but in fact we have to pay compensation for damage to things at home.

7. Don't cheat others with your mobile phone.

[Interpretation: Being honest and kind]

Don't cheat or fool others with your mobile phone, and don't talk that may hurt others.

8. Don't use your mobile phone to solve communication problems.

Interpretation: Face it bravely and don't avoid it.

If you don't want to say it in person, don't say it by text message, email or telephone. Direct communication is the best way to solve problems, after all, sometimes words can't correctly reflect the emotions and facial expressions of the parties, which is easy to cause misunderstanding. Moreover, direct communication is conducive to cultivating children's awareness of daring to face problems.

9. Important occasion: Turn off the phone, at least mute it.

Interpretation: etiquette in public places]

You can't influence others in public places, which is the basic etiquette and cultivation. The use of mobile phones is only one aspect. For example, when you are quietly reading a book you like, when you are thinking about a problem in the library and just find a clue, what is your mood if someone else's mobile phone rings like no one is reading it? Mute the phone if necessary.

10. Don't send personal privacy at will.

Interpretation: Tell him that privacy is important]

Don't send and receive information involving personal privacy at will. Clever as you are, sometimes people will tempt you to do so. I believe you are smart enough to know how to refuse such a person.

1 1. There is no need to record everything with your mobile phone.

[Interpretation: Don't be a mobile phone slave]

Don't take countless photos and videos, and you don't need to record everything with your mobile phone. Feel life wholeheartedly, and these images will be stored in your memory. We always think that the scenery we take is our own, and collecting articles is equivalent to reading, but it is not. Feeling with your heart is more impressive than shooting with your hands.

12. Put down the phone occasionally and go out with confidence.

[Interpretation: Don't be kidnapped by mobile phones.

Leave your mobile phone at home occasionally and go out safely. You will live well without it. In the era of mobile Internet, smart phones have become an indispensable tool in people's lives and work. If you forget to bring your mobile phone when you go out, you will feel a serious sense of insecurity.

13. Play some word games with your mobile phone from time to time.

Interpretation: Entertainment]

Use your mobile phone to play word games, puzzles or brain teasers from time to time. Entertainment is human nature, and mobile phones have entertainment functions. While entertaining, it can help the intelligence, killing two birds with one stone. This idea can also be used in other aspects.

14. Put down your mobile phone and see the world with your eyes.

Interpretation: Don't be a low-headed family]

Observe what is happening in the world around you: look at the scenery outside the window, listen to birds singing, take a walk, chat with people and stare blankly, instead of always searching online. Don't be a low-headed family. God has given us a pair of eyes to discover the beauty of life. When you look up at the sky, you will find that life is so beautiful.

15. The mobile phone doesn't work well, so parents can take it back.

Interpretation: contract, family consciousness]

There may be times when you can't use your mobile phone well, and then I will take it back. Let's start over together, and I will always be on your side, learning and improving from experience together.

This 15 "Family Rules for Mobile Phone Use" is not only a treasure book for parents to restrain their children from using mobile phones, but also reflects their educational philosophy. In fact, not to mention children, many adults now spend their time chatting, brushing videos and playing games on their mobile phones. Finally, I want to say a word to you: put down your mobile phone, spend more time with your relatives and children, and don't let it kidnap our lives!