To set an example, parents should show interest in learning. If children ask parents to read a story, parents are not interested in the book at all, and even say, "I don't have time to read these useless things!" " "This is a heavy blow to children's enthusiasm for learning. Parents who love reading and ask why can often drive their children to learn. As the saying goes, it is never too old to learn, and you should learn at any time.
Get in touch with nature and broaden your horizons. Parents can often take their children to nature to observe the sun, moon, stars, mountains and rivers. By being curious about nature, we can apply these curiousness to learning and actively improve children's interest in learning.
Develop children's interests. Children's interests should be cultivated in many ways, including sports, singing, calligraphy, piano and painting.
Guide children to learn. Parents should guide their children to improve their interest in learning through words, and guide them to learn actively through comparison and encouragement. Tell your child more inspirational stories to explain the importance of learning, but don't impose them on his mind.
Deliberately change children's learning environment. It is particularly important to provide a comfortable and quiet environment for children to study quietly. For some active learning projects, it is necessary to provide places suitable for activities, which can mobilize children's initiative and enthusiasm.
Other ways to improve children's interest. For example, use stimulation to promote children's learning, use crisis awareness to promote learning efficiency, keep learning content fresh, and adjust reading atmosphere with different subjects.
Second, how to cultivate children's concentration
From daily life-playing with toys, cultivate children's concentration. For example, if children play with building blocks, parents should let them enjoy the whole process and don't disturb their thoughts. If the child's spelling is different from that of adults or instructions, parents should not correct the child, not to mention that he is misspelled, because there is no right or wrong way to play with building blocks, and different people spell different results.
Cultivate children's concentration from daily painting. For example, parents should not disturb a child when he is absorbed in painting. Some parents always like to point fingers when they see that their children's paintings don't match the reality. For example, the sun is not green, the stars are not round, and the fish has no feet. Parents don't know that these behaviors will slowly kill their children's imagination and seriously undermine their concentration.
Cultivate children's concentration from daily travel-play. When parents take their children out to play, they must let them have fun and enjoy themselves, and don't over-urge or constrain them. These daily details can cultivate children's concentration and should not be underestimated.
Cultivating children's concentration from daily life-parent-child reading. For example, some parents always play mobile phones or make phone calls from time to time while accompanying their children to study. I don't know that these behaviors of parents have influenced children invisibly. Because children like to imitate adults when they are young, adults should set a good example for their children. When reading with children, adults should put their mobile phones aside and concentrate on reading with children.
From daily life-solve problems and cultivate children's concentration. For example, when children are playing puzzles, parents watch their children play puzzles too slowly and say, let me help you. I don't know that parents' behavior is not helpful, because children may be seriously thinking about where to put their own puzzles, and parents' behavior destroys their thinking ability. Parents should not disturb their children unless they ask them to answer.
Third, how to cultivate children's independence
When children come into this world, everything is new to them. Children have a cognitive desire to treat new things. They will use their own ways, such as touching with their hands, licking with their tongues and even biting with their mouths, to understand the things around them. Big curious eyes. Although they can't speak, they will cry to express their dissatisfaction and laugh to express their happiness.
Many parents are nervous when their children touch things. "This is dirty, baby, don't touch it." "Don't touch it!" Wait a minute. . . . I am also a parent, so I understand what parents do to protect children from germs, but such behavior will make children don't want to know things over time, and he will remember that this mother won't let them touch it, and that mother won't let them touch it.
It is best to choose pollution-free products for toys around children. Be sure to wipe and disinfect before playing with children. Children may be curious about things around them (in this case, safe things) when playing. At this time, parents should encourage their children to touch them with their hands, slowly tell them how they feel after touching them, and tell them what they are. If they are not at ease, they can wash their hands immediately after touching.
Children can run and jump independently after two or three years old. Some parents feel that the air outside is not fresh and safe, and they are afraid that their children will fall out and rarely take them out to play. Children are not allowed to go out to play by themselves. I don't know that this kind of love will hurt children, and children will be autistic if they don't contact people often. You will also feel lonely because you have no playmates. Let children have more contact with children of the same age and find fun and friends from it. Lay a good foundation for children's future kindergarten life. ? Two or three-year-old children can think independently and start to have their own ideas. Sometimes he will ask to wash socks and also want to wash chopsticks. At this time, what parents have to do is to let him do it (provided that the child is safe), instead of rejecting the child on the grounds that the child is too young. If children want to wash socks, they can prepare a small basin filled with water in the bathroom and tell them to use soap. Parents just need to be prepared. Don't blame the children even if they make water everywhere. You can slowly induce children. If the child feels unclean after washing, parents can wash it again, but be careful not to wash it in front of the child. Lighters, matches, blades and other dangerous things should be kept out of children's reach, and children should not be allowed to play in the kitchen as far as possible.
Children have different ideas. There are some things he has his own way. Parents can judge whether the child's method is feasible in advance. If possible, they should help their children finish it, instead of asking them to do it according to their own opinions. Over time, the child will become a very obedient child and have no ideas of his own.
Because of the national conditions in China, many children are still in the same room with their parents when they are very old. The longer time goes by, the more inseparable children will be. Let me share my method with you. I packed the children's house in advance, which was very cartoon. Put some cashmere toys he likes on his bed. Before he was three years old, I began to discuss with him to let him live in his own room and told him the benefits of one room. The child is very eager, but he has made some conditions and won't allow us to turn off the lights and close the door. After he fell asleep, we had to go to bed. I agreed to his terms, and he lived happily in his room. Of course, now he can turn off the lights and close the door by himself and get up at night. When my child learns to dress himself, he asks to do so. I agreed happily. The first time I put on my pants backwards, I told him, "The baby is great. He can dress himself." He was very happy to hear my praise. I pointed to his trouser pocket and continued to tell him, "This pocket is better in front. Do you know why? He thought about it and said to me, "Mom, it's like this. It's convenient for me to put things in front. "Since then, the child has never crossed backwards. Parents should be persuasive and don't rush to correct them. Hit children's self-confidence.
After children go to kindergarten, some parents start daily education before their children go to kindergarten. It's no use doing this or that. One compulsory course every day. Actually, I don't think it's necessary at all. Parents can tell their children what to do and what not to do through their daily life. It is enough for children to know and understand, and they can achieve their goals once. Too much trouble will backfire.
In the early stage of kindergarten, children should be trained to wear clothes and shoes independently, wash and eat independently, sleep independently and go to the toilet independently. Adults can only make children too dependent. Poor hands-on ability. After children go to kindergarten, they should be trained to do what they can, such as washing handkerchiefs and socks themselves. Help mom get a glass of water or something. Don't use money to induce children, let them know that this is what they should do. Children should be trained to do some housework and cook some simple meals after primary school. I told my children that you should learn to cook this holiday. If mom and dad can't come back one day, you can cook by yourself and not be hungry. Children should master some basic skills at every stage. At present, some children study very well, but their self-care situation is very poor. In order to study, parents arrange everything for their children and can only cultivate nerds. He will not be able to adapt to this life category and will be gradually eliminated. Living away from home will also affect your study, because many difficulties make you feel at a loss.
The child came into this world from a cry, opened his eyes and looked at this strange world. They all have the desire to explore. Who killed their right to knowledge? When parents criticize their children, can they ask themselves, how did their children become today, and are they responsible for doting on their children? The cultivation of independence is very important for children's present and future.
Fourth, how to cultivate children's reading interest
Help children make sure to read books. First, discover children's interests, collect books from children's interests, guide reading, and gradually expand the breadth of reading. Secondly, you can take your children to the library and let them choose their favorite books. Generally speaking, children aged 0-3 like color pictorial, children aged 3-6 like fairy tales and story pictorial with plots, and children aged 7- 10 like story books with rich plots. 10- 13 years old likes fantasy, adventure, fairy tales, etc. 14- 16 years old likes reasoning and biography.
Create a good reading environment for children. Nowadays, in many families, parents rarely read books and newspapers, and they can't find a book ticket at home. It is unrealistic to simply ask their children to read more. How to create a good learning environment for children? You can put some children's books in children's bedrooms, living rooms and other places where children often play, so that children can read at will.
The teacher instructs reading. Children usually listen to their teachers, so they can discuss with them and ask them to give them some reading suggestions, such as making a list of books and stipulating that children should read at home for half an hour every day. For children's performance at home, parents can give timely feedback to teachers, praise children who perform well, and encourage children to have greater interest in reading.
Teachers can also set up children's story-telling sessions in the classroom to praise and reward children who dare to tell stories. In order to get praise and reward, children will take the initiative to find books to read, thus accumulating stories to perform in class. This not only exercises children's reading ability, but also exercises children's language expression ability.
Parents lead by example. Parents are the first teachers of the children. Parents should not face the computer all day at home, so that children will learn from their parents' love to play with computers, ipad and so on. Parents should read more books and newspapers at ordinary times. On weekends, they can take their children to the bookstore or library for a day and choose their favorite books to read. After constant contact, children will naturally like reading slowly.
Accompany reading every night, and accompany the children to read story books for a while before going to bed every night. Perseverance can not only help children develop reading habits, but also promote parent-child communication and exchange.
Usually let the children stay with some older children who like reading. Peer influence is very important and can help guide and cultivate interest. However, don't compare, it will cause children's rebellious psychology and inferiority complex. We should encourage them more and criticize them less.
Parents read in advance. Before children read, parents should read first, give them an introduction before reading, and then guide them to find the answers themselves. Cultivate children's thinking ability and stimulate their curiosity.