Miniskirts are probably a symbol after bikinis, a symbol of women's liberation. After the appearance of mini-skirts, women can finally choose skirts of various lengths without etiquette and constraints.
Therefore, from this perspective, the miniskirt has gone beyond the simple fashion category, but is a cultural label. This is the embodiment of equality of rights between men and women. In the history of the world, there are strict requirements and even laws for women's clothing. And all the constraints and restrictions are almost * * *-try to expose your body as little as possible.
Therefore, from the western feminist movement, the first liberation is the display of the body. Women should have the same rights as men to show their bodies.
So the significance of miniskirts is that I can either not wear them or I don't like them. But you can't live without this option.
According to media reports, a university library in Hunan received a complaint that girls wearing short skirts and shorts with bare shoulders and backs were "sexual harassment" for men, which affected their study. Later, the library stipulated that girls were not allowed to wear shorts and skirts shorter than 50 cm into the library, but it caused some controversy. Finally, the library revoked this rule.
As far as things are concerned, the library is rather embarrassed in such an "excessive rights protection" incident. Whether it is biased towards men, it seems to be "sexual harassment" for girls to wear short skirts and shorts with bare shoulders and bare backs, or it is biased towards women. It seems that men's "sensitive rights protection" belongs to the normal range, and it seems that both sides are not pleasing.
From the perspective of rights protection, men have the right to complain, but the reasons and demands of complaints seem a bit "melodramatic". On the surface, this kind of "sitcom" is the bud of "equal rights trend of thought" in modern society, but the identification of "sexual harassment" is relatively decadent. Even, judging from real life, the logic shown by the complainant is the same as that of talking about "openness" with those street aunts.
In their cognition, "openness" is only "chest openness" and "crotch openness" in a narrow sense, not "openness" at the level of "sexual cognition", which is called "sexual liberation". We have to admit that in our society, "sexual morality" requires women more than men, especially in expressing "sexual consciousness".
Of course, if this kind of "appeal" was put in twenty or thirty years ago, it seems that men would stand on the moral high ground and win this argument. But now the "gender cognition" we are facing is beginning to be liberated. Schools no longer avoid physiology classes, and boys and girls can attend classes together; Even if there is prejudice in "sexual cognition" in life, it can be properly accepted.
As far as dress is concerned, as women fight for gender rights, there are fewer and fewer taboos. As long as the dress meets the general requirements of "situational intervention", there are basically no special taboos. Just as men complain that girls are too exposed, in fact, it is obvious that there are psychosexuality elements in them. Sexual harassment itself, whether verbal or physical, mainly refers to the situation that the other party takes the initiative to attack, rather than a girl sitting opposite in suspenders and stockings and feeling harassed.
We can be sure that as long as girls with normal behavior ability, they will not expose too much in the library, such as wearing bikinis, pajamas and sexy underwear. Because even if these are not stipulated by the library, the basic knowledge in our big society has been required by the subconscious mind. Therefore, no matter how rigid the requirements are, in fact, there is a bit of excessive rights protection. It's like telling a man, "Please don't go to the ladies' room".
Generally speaking, it is normal to wear swimsuits in the swimming pool, even if men and women share a swimming pool. However, if you wear a swimsuit in the library, it's probably not just a question of sexual harassment. It is generally believed that there is something wrong with the behavior ability of the parties, that is, mental abnormality. In this sense, whether the involvement of the situation is reasonable can directly judge whether a person's behavioral ability is normal.
However, in real life, some women do dress boldly, but they can still maintain the basic requirements of situational intervention and will not affect his or her normal behavior too much. The person who affects his or her behavior can be characterized as abnormal behavior or disturbing social order, and such a situation, I believe, will not be normal.
In this case, the library imposes a dress code on girls, even if it has no effect on the actual situation. However, from the perspective of "gender rights", it will make girls feel a kind of contempt and disrespect, which will naturally lead to corresponding debates. As a result, a "two-way excessive rights protection" has been launched in this way, and it is a "top cow model" in which no one will let anyone.
Frankly speaking, the controversy about women's "revealing" clothes has been criticized. Even, in some sexual assault incidents, the act of "thin dew" dressing is often recognized as the original sin. But in most discussions, there is an obvious misunderstanding, that is, conditional oneness determinism.
In fact, we all know that the sexual assault and harassment of others caused by women's "dressing sexy" is not a sufficient condition. In a sense, it is related to the feelings of the men present. The same woman wears sexy clothes. Some men have evil thoughts in their hearts, which will give birth to the idea of aggression. Some men always feel that wearing sexy clothes affects their normal work because of obscenity. Therefore, what kind of results a woman can wear is sexy, mostly determined by men's cognition. From this perspective, the regulations of the library are naturally not very appropriate.
Of course, in terms of specific life, there are indeed some situations in which girls dress too inappropriately. However, as long as this kind of inappropriateness does not undermine public order (legal level), even if it has a bad influence (moral level), it can only criticize personal conduct and should not be rigidly demanded. Especially the kind of contempt that requires the above-mentioned online.
Therefore, in the development of the incident of "girls being complained about wearing short skirts", the library can only act as a punching bag after all. Because such moral questions should not be asked at all. Men who think that it is sexual harassment for girls to wear short skirts and shorts with bare shoulders and bare backs can only say, "You'd better study elsewhere." After all, it is unreasonable to use a few appeals to restrain the behavior of a large number, and it is also against common sense itself.
I'm not feudal. I never liked girls. The fashion of wearing miniskirts. Think about it, a girl is well dressed. There's really no need to dress so coquettish. There are many bad guys in this society now, and your clothes are exposed and fashionable. There will always be some greedy eyes watching you behind your back. Therefore, girls wearing short skirts are more likely to be invaded and harassed by bad guys. So, why dress so naked and let the bad guys take advantage of it? It is best to wear simple and generous clothes, which is the best beauty. Girls should wear heavy makeup and expose themselves like girls. This is not the performance of a serious child. I wish those children wouldn't dress themselves up like that. In fact, some plain things are the most beautiful.
I don't support or oppose women wearing miniskirts or short skirts. Make them like it. From the perspective of appreciating artistic beauty, I prefer to see beautiful and moving scenery! However, it is too short, which is somewhat unsightly and is not conducive to the formation of a good and healthy social atmosphere. I don't understand, technology is more and more developed, but women have to cross less? In order to fully show your physical beauty, do you have to wear tight clothes? Is this a sign of civilized society? This is obviously an indirect criminal temptation. The main purpose of dressing is to hide shame and keep out the cold, and now it is developing in the direction of nude beauty.
This issue is a matter of "different people have different opinions". What people like to wear is their freedom. I have no right to interfere, but I also have my own opinions.
"Food, clothing, housing and transportation", wearing ranks first, which shows that wearing is very important. My understanding of dress is: first, keep out the cold and cover up your shame. Second, be generous and decent. Meet the above conditions, and finally it is a good enjoyment. Then the question is, can girls wear short skirts or miniskirts to keep out the cold? Yes At least in summer. Can you hide your shame? Yes At least there are some in it. . . Decent? At least it's not very convenient, but it's ok to pay attention. Appreciation depends on a person's figure and temperament. Those with figure and temperament must look good! Who doesn't like beautiful things?
So I don't mind girls wearing short skirts or miniskirts.
First of all, it is summer. If you don't wear a short skirt, it's not refreshing and boring. Skirts can effectively improve the mood and have always been beautiful.
Secondly, it is convenient to wear a skirt, just put it on, the skirt has been fluttering, and the focus has been on the skirt. Don't worry about the coat or the lack of effective decoration, it is very versatile.
Third, obese people, such as those with fat thighs and waist and abdomen, can effectively cover up their shortcomings by wearing skirts, and will not be so bloated. If they wear stilettos, their calves and fair skin will show more confidently.
There are all kinds of short skirts, relatively single pants. Skirts are blooming flowers and colorful skirts. Let the flowers move with you and be a confident woman in every corner.
Some people may say that wearing short skirts is unsafe and easy to be naked. Take protective measures. Wear safety pants and stockings indoors.
I prefer to wear a little black dress.
In autumn, it's windy to walk in a windbreaker! If the skirt fabric is knitted, it will show your figure! The version is very thin, which can well modify the figure curve ~ tall and small people don't have to worry about being too long to run out. Hee hee male ticket especially likes me to wear short skirts.
The little black dress will perfectly show the figure curve. On the whole, I think the little black dress is quite cost-effective! ! I really like all kinds of little black dresses, because black is slim! ! Xiubai!
But when it is cold in autumn and winter, you should pay attention to keep warm when wearing short skirts. You can't put on thick stockings for grace, and then put on a wool skirt, which is warm, comfortable and beautiful.
Today's world may be the opposite of the past. On campus and in the street, people often see boys dressed neatly, while many girls wear miniskirts, shorts and even go shirtless. Of course, this is a personal hobby, and others have no right to interfere. Of course, there are also some girls who dress simply and neatly, but they leave a good impression of being super elegant and refined. People's understanding and understanding of beauty is different, and it is not suitable for any occasion. In addition, girls with scanty clothes should warn the opposite sex around them that I can be coquettish, but you can't make trouble.
What kind of clothes girls wear is the freedom of others. In fact, we have no right to interfere. But now some girls wear skirts that can't even cover their bottoms, which is not good and hurts the social atmosphere. It is actually quite good for girls to wear skirts that are not too short, so that they can dress beautifully and show off their good figure as much as possible. I finally don't wear skirts in winter. If you still wear skirts in winter, it will be easy to be said that it is for beauty, and there is no regret for freezing to death. Therefore, clothes cannot be divorced from the essence. Just keep warm and look good.
Short skirt stockings are standard in summer.
Nobody cares about this, right? Dress beautifully, feel comfortable, and others look beautiful, no problem.