That's who you are. You don't like walking in crowded places, don't dare to say hello to people, often live in your own world, and like to escape from some worldly things. Not to mention being embarrassed to sit in the corner when taking part in group activities. Isn't this social fear? It is true that many people don't know the difference between introversion and social phobia. It's simple. For them, it is ok to face social and introverted people, but it is not necessary. People who are afraid of society are very necessary, but I can't. Most people think that introverts are timid, withdrawn and talkative, but introversion is not a defect. They are more delicate, pay more attention to their inner world and want to be outgoing. Please read on.

First, set a small goal. Wang Jianlin once said, set a small goal first and earn it 100 million yuan. Then everyone has a goal, so do you. You should not only have it, but also be specific. For example, at the beginning, you talk to your good friends on the phone for half an hour every day, then slowly transition to chatting with ordinary friends 15 minutes, and then gradually transition to chatting with the boss in the supermarket.

Second, learn a trade. Most introverts, more or less, have a vague sense of inferiority. Learning a trade, surviving, reaching a high point and breaking through the top is beyond people's reach. Excellent people have their own aura. Reading, introversion is not terrible, extroversion without connotation is terrible, and what is even more terrible is that extroversion with connotation is too slow. There are many things that can change introversion, such as college speech, her human strength, and the potential advantages of introverted children. Watching them, learning is endless.

Third, don't go against nature. I have an introverted college roommate. She once, for a time, desperately wanted to change her introverted personality, so she forced herself to talk to strangers, and she accosted her classmates. In the end, although she said that she had made many friends, she was still unhappy and wronged. But like her, you are still very wronged and unhappy in the process of this change. Essentially, you just tried. Why do you have to force yourself to live like this?