1. Speak slowly when you are in a hurry, because it is easy to make mistakes, and it can slow down the pace, give yourself time to think and adapt, and at the same time give people a sense of stability and sureness.

2. For major events, make it clear, and for important things, so as to avoid making mistakes in the future.

For trivial matters, it can be said humorously that it can often achieve good results. Trivia solved, the relationship is closer, giving people a sense of approachability and easy contact. In life, there is often a kind of person. When a trivial matter is said, it becomes a big deal. It should have been easy, but the situation is serious. This is the wrong way to communicate.

If you are not sure, say it seriously, or don't say it. Remember that disaster comes from your mouth.

Don't talk nonsense about what you can't do. After talking nonsense, it is your own credit that overdraws. The story of the wolf is still remembered by people. The lesson of blood can be described as painful.

6. Don't talk about things that harm others and benefit themselves, let alone things that harm others and benefit themselves. Don't talk to anyone, no matter how good friends, because it's about character.

7. When you encounter annoying things, you should treat them correctly, not people. At the same time, you should remember to distinguish the relationship between the two at any time. You can have different views on things, but don't cross that vague boundary. Once you pass, you will be a sinner.

8. When you are sad, don't say it. After all, everyone likes to get along with people with sunshine and positive energy. No one wants to be a trash can except relatives.

9. Live in the present and talk less about the future. There is a saying that it is not practical to say that young people are always bragging. The actual things should be done first, and it is well known at this time, if not said.