If you don't want to approach casually, you have to find some common methods. First of all, find a topic, preferably a topic for help, such as? Excuse me, where are some books? Can you take me there and then take the opportunity to ask for further help, such as? Time is tight, ask for help to find an author's book or a certain kind of book? Finally, use the topic and leave your contact information, such as? To thank him, would you like to invite him to dinner another day? Gradually close the distance and get to know each other in communication.

1, find something suitable? Help? .

Generally speaking, it is incumbent on boys to ask girls for help, so it will not be purposeful to find some suitable and less abrupt help. Then in the library, of course, there is a greater demand for books and it is easy for people to accept them. Like what? It's my first time here. I don't know which section a certain kind of book is in. You can ask for such help, and such a question seems reasonable and normal. It is also easier for people to have no doubts and concerns.

2. Seek further help.

After the first search, it can be explained that you are in a hurry to use these books for some reason, so it may take time to find them alone, and see if boys have time to help them find them, thus creating further time for getting along and talking. Looking for books is definitely a time-consuming thing, which is more conducive to finding suitable topics and further understanding.

3. Find an excuse to leave your contact information.

After you find the book, thank him very much for his help, leave your contact information and attach an excuse, such as? You've helped me a lot. Can I invite you to dinner another day? In this way, take the opportunity to leave your contact information. If the other party doesn't want to stay, it means that you don't return the favor, and you will feel guilty and dispel some doubts of the other party. You can see your own play in the later things.

Chatting up is also a very skillful thing. Do you have any better ways to strike up a conversation?