In the wine field, it is inevitable that someone will advise you to drink more. The leader may ask you to drink more, but you don't want to drink. At this time, if you want to show that you don't drink, you should be tactful and learn to pretend to be a weak person, not a tough one. The wine field was originally cheerful. If the atmosphere is awkward because of your tough refusal, I am afraid that your image in the eyes of leaders will be difficult to change in the future, and it will be difficult to get a promotion and a raise.
Two: don't think about telling the truth after drinking. You should have enough respect and avoid boasting.
Many people may think that drinking with leaders will enhance their feelings, and it is not bad to drink more wine and say something from the heart. In fact, this idea is very wrong. The status of leaders and employees is inherently unequal. He wants to be arrogant in front of you all the time. If you look down on the leadership position because of drinking, you will become disrespectful and your tone will be exaggerated. Then I think this is really impulsive. Smart people drink.
Three: Don't doubt the leader's words, question his behavior, and ask him questions in a questioning tone.
Drinking can make people brave. Some people take this opportunity to communicate with leaders, such as questioning a decision made by the leader during the day or questioning his behavior. Some people even began to directly question the leadership. Although there may be colleagues around you, you can't stop yourself from leaving a bad impression on the leader.
Do you think you are qualified to talk to the leader if you can have a drink together in the wine field? No matter when, what kind of psychology, leaders should listen to everything they say, and it is better to talk privately when they are awake.