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10 reading essays on human weakness
After reading a famous book carefully, I believe everyone will gain a lot. You can't just watch. Write a review. Is it impossible to write without a clue? The following is the reading model essay of "The Weakness of Human Nature" that I carefully arranged for you. I hope you like it!

Model essay after reading the weakness of human nature 1

Dale Carnegie wrote at the beginning of the book: "Master the weakness of human nature and master your own destiny." To tell the truth, a year ago, I wouldn't be bored to read such a book at all. I believe this. However, people are always growing, and subtle changes will occur in their growth. When I was a child, I spoke casually, and others called it innocent and lovely, and children's words were unscrupulous. When we grow up, we call this frankness, honesty and frankness. It is true that "frankness" and "honesty and frankness" sound as if others are praising you, but you may not be able to hear the indirect scolding from others. People really need to be honest with others, but they can't make things too white. Everyone likes to hear others praise themselves. Therefore, to better deal with interpersonal relationships, we must first understand people's psychological characteristics, that is, human nature!

I believe everyone who has fished knows that if you want to catch a big fish, you must put the right bait. If you want to convince others, my suggestion is to arouse an urgent need in the minds of businesses, families, schools, society and others. If you can do this successfully, then the whole world belongs to you, and you will never hit a nail again. In the morning, you will be at the end of the road. This shows that you need to consider the different perspectives of yourself and the other person. There is only one way to influence others, that is, to put forward their needs and let them know how to get them. People who can put themselves in others' shoes and understand what others want will never have to worry about the future.

There is a short story: a salesman wears iron shoes every day, tired and depressed, but what he gets is not as good as those old-timers who don't have to run several times a day. Customers will take the initiative to come to the door and the salary is still high. Why? Because he hasn't mastered the customer's needs yet, he only thinks about what he needs and has never thought about the customer's needs. They don't know what you and I want to buy and don't want to buy anything. If necessary, they can go out and buy it themselves. Customers always like to buy actively, not passively. Paying attention to other people's opinions and arousing their desires cannot be understood as manipulating others to do things that are good for you and harmful to them. It should be said that both sides can gain each other's interests and thus win-win.

In education, when children do things that their parents don't agree or impose on them, they will resist. But these parents will only scold and will not think about their children's psychology from their children's point of view. Although they also want their children to become excellent and then sign up for many remedial classes, those parents did not make their children interested in those remedial classes, so the expected result is the opposite. We can't educate our children to be ignorant. In fact, they do, but they just can't express it, because everyone wants to express themselves. Self-expression is the most important demand in human nature.

In school, it is biased to have a good student in every class, and then, it will attract many people's dissatisfaction. In fact, I personally think that they can become good students favored by teachers, not only because of their outstanding achievements, but also because they have better personalities than others. If you observe carefully, you can also find that those students who are relatively better handle interpersonal relationships well and will not quarrel easily. So there is a reason why teachers are partial to students.

Human nature is a particularly wonderful and indescribable thing. It exists in the universe in a subtle form that is unpredictable. Sometimes it makes people kind, sometimes it makes people terrible. Therefore, if we can see through its existence, I believe it can bring unexpected good luck in interpersonal, career and family!

Reading the model essay on human weakness II

The weakness of human nature-this is the book that has influenced me the most so far. In high school, a classmate introduced it to me. When I first came into contact, I was deeply attracted by the magical content in the book. I reread this book when Tunxi Branch held a reading activity of "reading to nourish vitality and practice to create an atmosphere", which caused many different feelings.

First, how to make others like you

The book "The Weakness of Human Nature" is the most famous successful tutor in the 20th century, and is known as the "father of adult education": the work of Dale Carnegie! This book brings together Carnegie's ideological essence and the most exciting content, and is the author's most successful inspirational classic. Countless readers have not only walked out of the predicament by reading and practicing various methods introduced in the book, but also become outstanding people admired by the world! After reading it, I know more about how to treat people in society. Second, six ways to make others like you have benefited me a lot. Its content is closely related to the real society and truly reflects the dribs and drabs in life.

These six methods are: learn to care about others sincerely, don't forget to smile, don't forget other people's names, learn to listen to others, cater to their interests, and make others feel important. As Mr. Wang Dingguo said in a marketing training recently, "For an account manager, the most important thing is personality charm." In the process of our contact with customers, how to make customers like us and trust us is a problem that we should seriously consider. Perhaps a small detail can determine the success of our customer's visit. Therefore, we should apply the methods learned from books to practice. For example, I will input the name and phone number of each customer into my mobile phone. As soon as the phone rings, I can know who the other party is at the first time, let the customers know that I am highly valued and make them feel important.

Second, criticism can't change reality.

We have always been used to classifying criticism and praise as equivalents. Praise should be sincere, and criticism can also show sincerity, but we have overlooked one point-can the object of our criticism really accept our sincere criticism?

Criticizing others will only make our hearts happy for a while, but it can't fundamentally change events. So, after General Meade disobeyed orders, deliberately delayed time, refused to attack the defeated army, and the opportunity for war was gone forever, he flew into a rage, roared at his son, and wrote a letter to General Meade to express his extreme dissatisfaction-but General Meade never read the letter because Lincoln didn't.

Only people who are not smart enough will criticize, blame and complain about others, because understanding and forgiving others really need enough cultivation and self-control, which requires us to try to put ourselves in their shoes and think about why they do it. Teachers should consider from the students' point of view to make education more influential; Only by thinking from the perspective of prisoners can the police fundamentally curb criminal behavior. Similarly, we need to think about the problems encountered by customers from the perspective of retailers in order to formulate more effective business guidance.

These are my two deepest feelings. Everyone has his own weaknesses, so do I. I think I have many weaknesses. But reading "The Weakness of Human Nature" benefited me a lot. It is like a mirror, which helps me to know myself, understand myself, so as to improve myself, control myself and become a person who is good at managing my life. It makes me know more clearly what kind of future I am facing, and at the same time I can clearly see where I come from.

Comment on The Weakness of Human Nature 3

Carnegie is called "the father of adult education" by many people. He used the stories of a large number of ordinary people's continuous efforts to succeed, and through his own speeches and works, he aroused the fighting spirit of countless lost people and inspired them to achieve brilliant success. When I first came into contact with this book, I felt that it was the kind of "chicken soup" book, nothing special. But the more I read it, the more fascinated I became. It was not until I used it many times in reality that I felt that this book really helped me too much.

The tips and suggestions in The Weaknesses of Human Nature are highly operable and can be summarized in one sentence: If we recognize the weaknesses in human nature, we will get twice the result with half the effort and succeed smoothly. If you think deeply, you will find this weakness, which can be your own or someone else's. Knowing other people's weaknesses can make each of us make smooth progress in our daily communication. Knowing our weaknesses can help us develop our strengths and avoid our weaknesses, highlight our strengths and build a better life. In Carnegie's view, a person's success depends largely on his interpersonal relationship and way of doing things. We should pay more attention to etiquette and interpersonal communication in details. At the same time, he taught us that the most important principle is two words: treat others sincerely, and you will have the most friends and the best interpersonal relationship.

Carnegie said: "People are like this. When they do something wrong, they only blame others, not themselves. " Maybe this sentence is not strange to us, and it may be used frequently, but we have made some changes to it. "He is like this. When he does something wrong, he will only blame others, not himself. " Although only one word has changed, its meaning is quite different. When you point one finger at others and say this sentence, maybe the other four fingers are pointing at yourself. Carnegie hit the nail on the head. We always like to talk about other people's right and wrong. Why can't we compare ourselves with them and look at ourselves? When others do badly, is what they do perfect? When you realize that you will make mistakes, you will rise to a higher level and form an eternal truth: "To err is human?" The root cause is the lack of understanding and tolerance between people.

People are always used to thinking from their own point of view, so everything others do is wrong when it is different from themselves, and it is different for others. But if both sides can look at themselves from the perspective of others, the result will be completely different. Only people who are not smart enough will criticize and complain about others. Indeed, many stupid people do this. Only when we learn to care about our friends sincerely can we win their greatest trust.

I think "The Weakness of Human Nature" is a very practical reference book, covering work, social interaction, marriage, self and other fields, telling us how to make others happy while making ourselves happy, how to get along with friends, how to become more mature, how to solve problems and how to keep an optimistic attitude. I have read this book several times, and I will read it every time I feel uneasy. The content in it always calms me down quickly and gives me a good attitude to face daily problems. I also hope that if I have time, I can see it, which will definitely benefit a lot. There is always a famous saying that can change your present situation, or help you solve problems, or make you full of confidence in life!

Comment on "The Weakness of Human Nature" 4

After reading Dale Carnegie's "The Weakness of Human Nature", I deeply feel that Carnegie's thinking is too broad. He is so kind that he seems to be sitting in front of you, taking pains to tell you stories that happened around him. In the interpersonal relationship he described, everything that can happen between people, whether it is ordinary greetings, direct conflicts or business negotiations, is simple and ingenious, and can be solved under the condition of per capita income without being bound by hard and fast rules. I think it would be perfect if you could handle your life as Carnegie said. But after reading it, there is indeed a lot of inspiration. Personality is just some small examples and stories, which make people benefit a lot.

The fifth book, How to Persuade Others Better, left a deep impression on me, telling us that we should first praise and sincerely appreciate others, point out their mistakes indirectly and tactfully, don't always blame others, think about our own mistakes first, use questions instead of orders, learn to motivate others to succeed, "put on a hat" and encourage others to correct their mistakes. This is what the other party is willing to do.

Mr Carnegie said: "instead of blaming others, we should try to understand them, which will be more effective than criticism." Think about it. I often yell angrily because students often delay or even fail to finish their homework: "If you can't finish your homework normally, can you learn math well?" If you don't study well, what are the prospects? ..... I didn't expect the child's heart might be crying blood? After the children were absent-minded in class and the quality of their homework declined, I didn't really walk into them and seriously understand the reasons ... I read the fashionable words like "teacher's love", "for the development of students" and "walk into children's hearts" more than once, listened to them countless times, said them countless times and tried my best to practice them, but I never really felt them like today. "The weakness of human nature" mentioned: Give you sincere appreciation. Fish needs food, so why not catch someone who appreciates it as well? We should all learn to appreciate and encourage students to make progress.

Carnegie also said, "Even if others make mistakes, we are right. If we don't save face for others, we will ruin a person. Indeed, when students make mistakes in public, if you scold them loudly without face, they will lose face and they will not believe you. Give him face at this time, and his eyes will work later. How important it is to save other people's face, but we seldom think about it. Sometimes we only care about temporary anger, only consider ourselves, without considering the feelings of others, which leads to a lot of unhappiness. If we can think for a few more minutes and put ourselves in others' shoes, there will be no unpleasant scenes and people will be more grateful and trusting.

The vivid and concise examples in the book "The Weakness of Human Nature" have made me realize a lot of truth. With this passion, I will work harder and enrich myself in my future work and life. I think it is precisely because human nature is indeed full of weaknesses that we can look forward to a better and more perfect tomorrow.

Comment on "The Weakness of Human Nature" 5

"The Weakness of Human Nature" I have always liked Dale Carnegie's works. I read his works 10 years ago and benefited a lot. He is the father of modern American growth education, a psychologist and interpersonal relationship scientist, and is regarded as the greatest spiritual mentor in the 20th century. "Besides the Statue of Liberty, Carnegie is a symbol of America" (new york Times). His works are classics of psychology books, which let us know our weaknesses, know how to change ourselves, win friendship in interpersonal relationships and influence others.

This book contains: three skills of interpersonal relationship, six popular methods, the rule of 12 being recognized, nine skills of persuading others better, a miracle letter (so that lovers can help each other at least), seven rules of making your family happy, and an appendix on how couples get along. The author tells these skills, methods, tricks and rules, tells them through real cases, and finally summarizes the experience. It feels like listening to a story, not so boring. I like this way very much. It feels real. It is easier to accept the truth contained in other people's stories. This is the charm of this book, and I feel that I can never get tired of reading it.

The book mentions an American masterpiece, Father's Mistakes, in which the father only severely criticized his son's various performances in life, but did not encourage him. Shortly after my son left, the newspaper slipped from my hand. An indescribable strong sense of guilt filled my mind. My bad habits are really hateful! Picky for no reason, always lecturing people. I can't imagine applying these bad habits to your child. This is not a sign that I love you. This is the mistake I asked you by the standards of people my age. The father felt very sorry for his harsh criticism and scolding of his children. When he began to review, he found that he had done something wrong. His son is still a child and doesn't understand at all. From this case, sum up experience. Don't blame others, try to think, why do others do that? What's the point of doing that? Understanding is more beneficial and meaningful than blaming. Understanding breeds sympathy, tolerance and goodwill. "To be inclusive is to understand everything." As Dr. Johnson said, "God, even God, will not judge the world easily until the end." Why can't we do it? So please remember-avoid criticizing, accusing or complaining.

I like the last part of this book best, about 7 rules to make your family happy. Many people don't know how to manage their families well and make their lovers and themselves happy. Chatter is digging the grave of marriage: the chatter of Mrs. Lincoln, Queen Eugenia and Mrs. Tolstoy finally brought disaster to their most cherished marriage. Besides, what else did you bring? Tragedy. What else? Bessie Hamberg, a family relations court in new york, has 1 1 years of working experience and has tried thousands of family and marriage disputes. She said that women's endless nagging is an important reason why men run away from home. As the Boston Post said, "Many wives are actually slowly becoming grave diggers of marriage." So, if you want a happy family, just remember: never nag!

There are still many contents in the book worth studying and discussing. When you understand these simple truths, I believe you can have a good time and know how to be a happy person.

Comment on "The Weakness of Human Nature" 6

As the old saying goes: Take copper as a mirror, you can dress properly; Take people as a mirror, you can know the gains and losses; Taking history as a mirror, we can know the rise and fall.

Reading the book The Weakness of Human Nature is like a mirror, which helps me to know myself. In every dark night, it taught me the light. The long road of life has made me more aware of what kind of future I am facing while seeing the road clearly.

In the book, Jin Jing uses vivid and interesting stories and philosophical words to organically combine examples with truth and seek the best solution through the weakness of human nature. Although it is a sales book, it is more about telling me the skills of getting along with people.

Carnegie said, "People are like this. They only blame others for doing something wrong, but they don't blame themselves. " When talking about the right and wrong of others, should we examine whether what we do is perfect? When they realize that they will make mistakes, some people will sum up an eternal truth: "To err is human." ? The root of the disease is the lack of understanding and tolerance between people. When we are accidentally stepped on in the bus every day, or when we are accidentally hit on the road every day, do we choose to be full of resentment or forgive others for being good to ourselves? We are always used to thinking from our own standpoint when considering things, so everything others do is wrong when it is different from ourselves, and so is it for others! But if both sides can look at themselves from the perspective of others, the result will be completely different.

Seeing yourself from the perspective of others requires understanding and forgiving others' qualities and achievements. Only when we learn to care about our friends sincerely can we win their greatest trust.

Comment on "The Weakness of Human Nature" 7

I'm reading Carnegie's book "The Weakness of Human Nature" recently. The main contents of this book are: the basic skills of communicating with people, how to persuade others better, how to make others like themselves, how to convince themselves, how to make their families happy, and how to manage their own lives well. What impressed me most was how to make people like themselves.

Carnegie said, "If you want others to like you, then smiling is the best language." Some people in life can only dress themselves up with all kinds of beautiful clothes, but there is not even a smile on their faces. They have a zombie face all day, so no matter how beautiful they are, it is hard for anyone to really like him.

Carnegie added: "If you want to be a good talker, you must first learn to be a dedicated listener." I understand this sentence very well Once, I was chatting with my friends. While her story was being told vigorously, a question suddenly appeared in my mind. I said it without thinking, interrupted her story, and everyone focused on me. My friend yelled at me: "Jiaxin, what do you mean, you left without listening to the story!" " "I had to leave in frustration, and God knows how much I wanted to stay there.

Carnegie also told us in the book: it is very important for you to remember his name while you know this friend! Remember each other's names, so that you will leave a good impression on others and have a chance to make others like you! This reminds me of a new friend I met in Guizhou last year. We met at the breakfast shop the next day. I called out her name first, and she called out my name at once. At that time, we hugged each other and jumped for joy. In this way, we soon became good friends.

After reading the book "The Weakness of Human Nature", I know that smiling makes people kind, listening gives people a sincere feeling, and remembering other people's names is respect for people-this can make me make more friends and make others like me more.

Comment on The Weaknesses of Human Nature 8

The weakness of human nature is written by Carnegie, the father of American adult education. As the author briefly introduced, in the United States in the first half of the 20th century, when economic depression, inequality, war and other demons were killing the human soul in pursuit of a better life, Mr. Carnegie relied on his insight into human nature and used a large number of ordinary people to make continuous efforts to achieve success. His speeches and works, through personal speeches, aroused the fighting spirit of countless lost people and inspired them to achieve brilliant success. It is this brief introduction that interests me to know what is written in it, and it has such great power.

After reading Carnegie's works, I also learned that there is a book here that teaches people how to deal with people. This book is just right for us who are about to enter the society. It teaches us how to deal with others, which is not only conducive to improving our ability, allowing us to better integrate into society and achieve success, but also conducive to integrating ourselves with the people around us, making others happy and making ourselves happy.

In fact, the relationship between people is very subtle. A look and a word will have an impact on the people around you.

For example, in the face of friends, we should learn to be tolerant, especially in the face of friends' faults. As Carnegie said, "criticism will not change the facts, but will lead to resentment." Handle the so-called "criticism" with caution. This is one of the basic principles of getting along with friends. However, when we face our friends at ordinary times, we should learn to appreciate them sincerely. Everyone is eager to be affirmed and appreciated. When friends succeed, it is very touching to give them the most sincere thanks. "In your daily life journey, don't forget to leave a little praise for the world. This little spark will ignite the flame of friendship. " Carnegie really hit the nail on the head. Friends are a very important part of our lives. We should cherish them and know how to treat this rare friendship.

So how do you treat strangers? When we enter a group and society, we will meet people we don't know. What do we do? In fact, the reason is the same. When dealing with the same thing, we must respect his personal opinions, be kind to others, and don't impose our opinions on others, because everyone is equal, you have your ideas and I have mine. Only by respecting each other and getting along well can we reach an agreement to solve the problem.

Comment on "The Weakness of Human Nature" 9

The weakness of human nature comes from Carnegie, the father of American adult education. As the author briefly introduced, in the first half of the 20th century in the United States, when economic depression, inequality, war and other demons were killing the soul of human beings in pursuit of a better life, Mr. Carnegie relied on his insight into human nature and used a large number of ordinary people to make continuous efforts to achieve success. His speeches and works aroused the fighting spirit of countless lost people and inspired them to achieve brilliant success. It is this brief introduction that interests me to know what is written in it, and it has such great power.

After reading Carnegie's works, I realized that there is a book here that teaches people how to deal with people. This book is just right for us who are about to enter the society. Learning how to deal with others is not only conducive to improving one's ability, making oneself better integrated into society, thus achieving success, but also conducive to integrating oneself with the people around him, making others happy and making oneself happy.

In fact, the relationship between people is very subtle. A look and a word will have an impact on the people around you.

For example, in the face of friends, we should learn to be tolerant, especially in the face of friends' faults. As Carnegie said, "criticism will not change the facts, but will lead to resentment." Handle the so-called "criticism" with caution. This is one of the basic principles of getting along with friends. However, when facing friends at ordinary times, we should learn to appreciate them sincerely. Everyone is eager to be affirmed and appreciated. When friends succeed, it is very touching to give them the most sincere thanks. "In your daily life journey, don't forget to leave a little praise for the world. This little spark will ignite the flame of friendship. "

Carnegie really hit the nail on the head. Friends are a very important part of our lives. We should cherish them and know how to treat this rare friendship.

So how do you treat strangers? When we enter a group and society, we will meet people we don't know. What do we do? In fact, the reason is the same. When dealing with the same thing, we must respect his personal opinions, be kind to others, and don't impose our opinions on others, because everyone is equal, you have your ideas and I have mine. Only by respecting each other and getting along well can we reach an agreement to solve the problem.

Model essay 10 after reading the weakness of human nature

Dale Carnegie is an American writer, but The Weakness of Human Nature is an inspirational classic of his success. In this work, he used social and psychological knowledge to deeply discuss and analyze human nature. This work comes from a short speech. After 15 years of practice and research, it has been continuously developed into such a book that is deeply loved by adults. After reading this book carefully, I feel a lot.

"The Weakness of Human Nature" is like a mirror, which helps me to know myself and know myself, so as to improve myself, control myself and become a successful person who is good at managing my own life. When I saw where I came from, it made me more aware of what kind of future I was buying. "Sincerely appreciate and praise others" is my deepest feeling after reading this book. Only when a person knows himself and constantly remoulds himself can he make continuous progress until he succeeds. This book is easy to understand and easy to understand. After careful reflection, you will find Carnegie's artistic soul embedded in the book. Carnegie, with his insight into human nature and the stories of a large number of ordinary people who have achieved success through continuous efforts, has aroused the fighting spirit of countless lost people and inspired our future generations to achieve brilliant success.

In the book, the author talks about how we should learn to appreciate others sincerely in our life and work. Carnegie said: "There is only one way to get others to do anything-give them what they want. In your daily life journey, don't forget to leave a little praise for the world. This little spark will burn into a flame of friendship. " Carnegie said: "People are like this. When they do something wrong, they only blame others, not themselves. " He revealed the bad roots of people in one sentence. We always like to talk about other people's right and wrong. Why can't we compare ourselves with them and look at ourselves? When others do badly, is what they do perfect? When you realize that you will make mistakes, you will rise to a new height and sum up an eternal truth: "To err is human?"

Now, I still put "The Weakness of Human Nature" on the bedside and study it again and again. You will get different results every time you watch it. It is now a mirror for me to reflect on myself and correct myself. I hereby recommend this book to everyone, hoping that everyone can benefit from it.

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