The five-year-old son is a critical period of thinking growth, and the companionship and guidance of parents is particularly important during this period. I used to be the father of a five-year-old child, and your question brought me back to the past. Then I will tell the story of my son when he was five years old, hoping it will help you.

1. My son is five years old.

My son and I had a happy fifth birthday. Almost every father has a complex of wanting his son to succeed, so I can't avoid it.

With the current social attention to science and engineering, I am also eager for my son to become a scientist in the future and make great contributions to the scientific cause of the motherland. For this reason, I told him many stories about scientists since I was a child, and gradually guided him to like science and engineering.

Found a serious problem.

I don't know when my son fell in love with books on logical thinking and also liked to do something related to logical thinking. I was secretly glad that my son finally fell in love with science and engineering. But soon we found another problem. My son doesn't like reading. He doesn't like reading. How can this happen? You know, writing is the basic course of all disciplines, and any science can't go far without this foundation. Recognizing the seriousness of the problem, I really want to pull him back from his interest in logical thinking and reprimand him for studying written knowledge seriously. But I'm afraid it will ruin my son's scientific and technological talent. It's sad where to go.

3. Teaching students in accordance with their aptitude

I have communicated with my son many times, but it still has no effect. He continues to prefer his logical thinking to reading and literacy. There's nothing I can do about him. Looking at my son, I am full of sadness. I have no choice but to consult my former teacher. But I did get the Bible from him. He told me that the child doesn't like reading, and he doesn't like reading, but he doesn't like the textbook you provided him. Just change it.

After understanding this truth, I stopped forcing him to read it. After reading it, all his favorite books on logical thinking were marked in Pinyin. I no longer help him explain the meaning of the book logical thinking, and let him read everything according to pinyin. Don't say this method really works. Soon, my son knew a lot of words, and he no longer had to worry about his son's partiality. Now my son has grown into my ideal son, so I am even more grateful to the teachers who have guided me. ...

Let me share the story of my friend's second mother. His eldest son, K 10, has read more than 600 books now, and his youngest son, K4, has read more than 200 painting books. Moreover, he is now very good at reading and writing, and even began to try to write his own novels. I read the first chapter of 10, and it's well written, which is completely different from that written by children aged 10. Mother K said it was mainly reading, and both children developed the habit of reading. And this habit was formed with the help of mother K.

Both children are over/kloc-0 years old before they become small members of the library. They go to the library to read and borrow books every week. This habit has been maintained for ten years. She always lets children choose their favorite books, and adults don't interfere. When children are young, mothers always accompany their children to study together, and pay attention to vivid reading, like telling stories, cadence and arouse their interest.

She bought a picture book "The Origin of Life" for 4-year-old K, which is very thick. From the birth of the earth to biological evolution, it is obscure and complicated, and she is worried that little K will not like it. Who knows, little K is particularly interested. Let mom say it over and over again, sometimes several times a day. Now this book is almost rotten, children can basically speak for themselves, and naturally they know a lot of words from it. Mother specially asked Xiao K to take a photo with this book as a souvenir.

She said that children of this age like reading books about dinosaurs, plants and zombies. At first, she was afraid that such books would have a bad influence on her children, so she borrowed some books that adults wanted her children to read and put them on the table, but the children couldn't turn them over. She followed the child's interest and bought a dinosaur book about historical knowledge, which the child liked very much. Therefore, it is still necessary to start with children's interests and guide them, which will have unexpected effects.

Share the process of your daughter's literacy. It's simple. My daughter likes watching cartoons and plays two episodes of Tom and Jerry English in Chinese on the computer every day. She looks happy every day, but she can't understand what she says. You will ask me what the subtitles below say. Over time, when she went to kindergarten at the age of 6, I was surprised to find that she knew most street vendors' plaques.

Parents are the best teachers for children, and hobbies are the first motivation for children to learn.

It's good to spend more time with children during the epidemic and discover their hobbies. You should spend more time with your children in the future. The healthy growth of children can not be separated from the careful teaching of parents. Children's correct hobbies should be strongly supported and should not dampen their enthusiasm. In the future, you can buy books on thinking and observation for your children, and you can choose the kind with more words. In this way, if a child wants to engage in his hobbies, he must learn to read, and gradually he will find that reading is also very important.

When I was a child, I liked listening to stories rather than reading books. But my parents are very busy and only have time to tell me stories in the evening. Fortunately, my mother bought me many story books with words and pictures, such as Aesop's fables and Chinese idiom stories. But I can't read much. I want to read a story book, but I can't understand it. I could only read the pictures in the story book, so I begged my mother to teach me to read. As I know more words, I can read more short stories.

For children's hobbies, parents should guide them correctly and use the right methods.

So is my child. Boy, he is ten years old now. I always like thinking about books and TV. I also like to modify Lego bricks by myself, put them together and then disassemble them, then mix all the parts and put them together again, which is a pleasure.

I just don't like reading. I always read a little under the coercion of his father and me.

Later, I bought him a book to expand his mind. For example, the unsolved mysteries of the earth, suspense stories, mathematical nine squares, and so on.

I think every child has his own specialty. As parents, we should try our best to guide him and broaden his thinking and vision. Five fingers, not even, right!

Simple, the answer is to play dumb.

Ask him, mom and dad don't know that you like this book. Can you explain it to me? He certainly didn't speak comprehensively, and then you told him that I used to like reading this kind of book, but I didn't know something well, and my teachers and classmates didn't like me. Then I went to do basic reading and literacy first, and then I found that I could speak better. Teachers and classmates all praised me as the best!

It is important to teach him in the right way and find the right way. Don't beat and scold him, otherwise he will feel inferior and easily lead to the child's physical and mental health.

Congratulations on discovering your child's interest. Be sure to support him and let him continue to display his talents!

It can be seen from your description that your child should be a logical child. The advantage of strong logic is not to mention other aspects. Learning is an advantage in the future. I should be impressed with reading comprehension after school. As long as the logic is strong enough, you can basically get full marks, not to mention mathematics and physics, which have higher requirements for logic.

After all, the child is still young. As long as he can't finish his homework, there is no need to force him to read and write. You should know that he is unwilling to accept the task imposed on him. Let him study normally like other children.

You may have overlooked a problem. No matter what your child is interested in in in the future, there is a necessary condition, that is, you should understand the rules in this respect, just as he likes to walk around in the maze and find faults with books or games. So why don't we teach him how to read and interpret words when explaining how to play?

He is willing to accept the same way as his interest, and it is quite efficient. Why not?

You are really lucky compared with parents who can't find their children's interest. You should learn to be flexible, which can not only cultivate their interest, but also increase their knowledge.

Now that the epidemic is so serious, I finally have a chance to accompany my child, so I will accompany him to do something I love to do, which will promote the parent-child relationship! Come on ~

First of all, I don't think the two are contradictory. We can take certain measures to let children read books about thinking patterns and complete literacy at the same time.

Next, I will briefly analyze it.

First of all, according to the topic, it is a boy. According to the general statistical law, boys prefer vivid three-dimensional toys, so it is not surprising that little boys like thinking books.

Secondly, this is a child of five or six years old. Playing is a child's nature. In children's minds, these thinking books described in the title are more entertaining than literacy books, and children can find the feeling of games in these books, so they choose thinking books.

Why do I say this, because coincidentally, Chinese characters are hieroglyphics, which are more intuitive than English and other characters; Personally, I think the structure of the Chinese character bookshelf is similar to the maze mentioned in the title. Reasonable use of their similarities can stimulate children's interest.

According to the above analysis, there are the following suggestions:

1. Provide children with a large number of literacy books with pictures, in order to let children understand words more intuitively;

2. Design a reasonable literacy game and reward and punishment system to make children feel that they are playing when they are literate, not studying;

2. Warn that the implementation of this proposal may have adverse effects. Read some simple paragraphs with wonderful space scenes to children first, or show them some thinking books with complex rules (the difficulty is self-determined), and then try to arouse his interest ... gnome male-",let him read it himself (I am good or bad).