This is done to prevent him from cheating.

Ambiguity is the beginning of cheating.

We often see such help posts on social platforms:

Is it cheating for a husband/boyfriend to chat with the opposite sex like this? When it comes to getting advice from strangers, the answer is ready. I just know the truth, but I still have some expectations in my heart.

Before, "30 seconds in the library" once rushed to the hot search, the reason why it attracted so many people was because we always had pure expectations for our feelings. The so-called temporary separation is an unforgivable crime for those of us who yearn for feelings.

The ambiguity between feelings and a third party is often the beginning of derailment, so how to cut off the source before the problem intensifies?

Killing is crucial. Most infidelities generally go through three stages: from the state before ignorance-the state of ignorance.

As we all know, ignorance is a vague and ambiguous relationship between men and women, a very special relationship between men and women, which exists between friendships, but transcends them. What was the state before the temperature rise?

Marriage suppresses human nature.

That is, two people have established a "habitual connection." In life, they will habitually chat with each other, share each other's feelings and life, accompany each other habitually, and even care about and worry about each other's diet and daily life.

But there is no cross-border in language, and they are all normal and ordinary friends. There are many such relationships in real life, but not all the pre-warm-smelling States can develop into warm smells and then derail.

If left unchecked, the above relationship is likely to derail. Too early intervention can easily make your partner feel out of thin air, and too late intervention is too late. Therefore, for extramarital affairs, the timing of the wife's intervention is very important, which determines whether the derailed flame can be killed in the cradle.

Maybe some friends will wonder, why not call it ignorance? Because at this time, each other is bound by secular vision and their own internal morality, and both sides are very restrained in their language expression. After all, extramarital affairs are sneered at by everyone.

What should we do?

The kind of communication that seems to be between friends is actually not ambiguous. However, after a long and stable communication, one or two people on both sides will test each other's thoughts and slowly reveal their feelings beyond their friends, thus causing real ambiguity.

So, what should I do if I find that the other party has signs of cheating?

First: first, stabilize the situation and avoid further intensification of the problem.

If you cry and make noise and express too many negative emotions to your husband, he will definitely resent it. If he doesn't have deep feelings with a third party at this time, but his wife is abusing him and his husband doesn't want to go home, then the third party will gently accompany and comfort him. In contrast, it is hard for a man not to have feelings for men and women who have a third party.

So at this time, we must control our emotions and never let a third party take advantage of it.

Although it is said that men's cheating is not reliable, sometimes the irrationality and unreasonable troubles of many wives are also the catalyst for actual cheating.

Second: keep a normal life. hold steady

Maintaining emotional stability can ensure that the internal marriage will not break down at least, and the town can hold its own position against foreign invasion.

These behaviors will make the husband feel guilty and condemn his conscience. At least for a while, she won't cheat soon and is in a hesitant stage. This is the "golden recovery" period before the derailment. We must nip it in the bud before the husband has a strong feeling for the third party.

In fact, most men in real life will still be bound by ethics. Not all of them can cheat without any burden or scruples. The reason why most men continue to cheat under the premise of constraints. Many times, it is the original match that creates reasons and excuses for the other party's derailment.

So in this case, if your idea is to maintain marriage, then don't let your emotions vent at will, which will not only prevent the other party's ambiguous behavior, but even cause his inner emotional vacancy because of the quarrel, which is of great significance to the ambiguous object.

Instead of losing your temper, be nice to your husband and say it inadvertently! "Husband, it's so happy to marry you. Many students are envious of our feelings. I hope our family of three will be happy forever. My eyes are really good "and so on praise her husband and marriage.

In fact, men and women are the same. On the contrary, they prefer to be praised and recognized by their partners.

You can also often take photos of a family of three in a circle of friends and praise your husband's language: and it is also very good for your parents-in-law. In fact, the purpose of doing this is to let the husband stop at the moral level and restrain his behavior.

Husbands always feel guilty and are on the verge of cheating. Children and parents are the biggest goals of their conscience discovery. And this step can actually prevent the gentleman from preventing the villain.

For women who are not used to it and still have a sense of morality, they are now in harmony with their ignorant male lovers. If the family is stable. Then it will also have a certain degree of deterrent effect on them.