"I was standing on the first floor and someone scolded me. I am very angry;

I was standing on the tenth floor and someone scolded me. I couldn't hear clearly, so I thought he was greeting me.

I was standing on the hundredth floor and someone scolded me. I can't hear you clearly. I only see the mountains and rivers in Wan Li. "

The reason why a person suffers is because he is not tall enough and the pattern is too small.

Writer Mr. Xu said:

"The so-called pattern is actually the breadth of your vision, the depth of your thinking, the height of your pursuit of goals, and the calmness and generosity reflected in you."

Only by improving your four "degrees" and enlarging the pattern of life can you feel at ease and achieve something.

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Breadth: The boundary of vision determines the upper limit of life.

I read a story about Qi Baishi.

One day, Qi Baishi was painting in the studio, and someone was selling Chinese cabbage outside.

He thought that in ancient times, Wang Xizhi had exchanged his calligraphy "Huang Ting Jing" for a white goose, which was a much-told story. Why can't he exchange his painting for cabbage?

So he drew a picture and went out to find a cabbage seller.

When the stall owner saw Qi Baishi, he quickly greeted him.

Qi Baishi took out a roll of paper from his pocket and said, "How about I exchange this picture of cabbage for a car full of cabbage?"

When the stall owner heard this, he flew into a rage: "Take a photo of fake cabbage and give me a car full of real cabbage. Good try! " ! If it weren't for your age, I would beat you up. "

Qi Baishi had to leave despondently.

Later, the stall owner learned that the old man was Qi Baishi, and this painting could probably buy hundreds of thousands of cabbages.

His intestines are green with regret, but there is no such opportunity anymore.

The breadth of vision determines a person's fate.

Those who are too narrow-minded, even if they put the pie to their mouths, will not help.

A man found a bottle in his old house with some copper coins in it.

In order to take out the copper coins, the man smashed the bottle.

Later, he learned that the bottle belonged to the Southern Song Dynasty and was worth more than 20 million yuan, while the copper coins in it were only worth several hundred yuan.

Some things, you don't know your achievements without hard work, and you don't know your potential without hard work. Flowers are light and elegant, water is light and true, and people are light and pure. It takes a long time to be light, light and fragrant. Don't argue, don't flatter, don't be gorgeous, be good. The true taste in the faint, the true fragrance in the faint. What can I do if my heart is innocent? People who don't love each other won't hurt you. Pain comes from comparison, and trouble comes from the heart. Calm, so it does not hurt; Indifferent, so don't be upset. Desire is boiling water in a pot, and human heart is tea in a cup. Water boils because of the heat of fire, but the heart is not surprised because of the cold cup. When the desire is cold and settled in the heart, it is not annoying. Don't laugh at others' efforts, and don't despise others' achievements. Everyone's value is different, so there is no need to despise anyone. The useless value in your eyes may not be really useless. No one, no one thing. Life is not a battlefield, there is no need to compete. Between people, more understanding will lead to less misunderstanding; There will be less disputes if there is more tolerance between hearts. Don't judge a person with your own eyes and cognition, but judge the right or wrong of a thing. Don't expect others to agree with you. Don't expect others to fully understand you. Everyone has his own personality and opinions. People tend to take themselves too seriously, be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and feel that others must understand themselves. In fact, people should look down on themselves, be less self-centered and be more empathetic, so that they can be happy. The so-called heart is big, and happiness is big; The more you tolerate, the more you get. Just like this, when studying the program of matrix simulation system, Dr. Mexes accidentally discovered the particularity of psionic spar, which is different from any substance and energy such as photoelectricity. The essence of energy contained in psionic spar is similar to the ethereal thing of spirit.

Life, happiness or sadness, is a baptism and an experience; Whether it is thick or light, it is a faint bloom and a faint beauty. When the spring breeze is proud, don't be proud, be calm, no one can always be smooth sailing. Everything has gains and losses, hidden and obvious, nothing more than scenic customs. Look down on the world, wait and see, even if you are not optimistic and are run by others, you don't have to excuse yourself, just smile and prove yourself with time. Why are you chasing the car feast? I just need a simple meal, Edgar, it's true. What should come will come naturally, and what should go will not stay. Don't go against your heart, don't deliberately, don't care too much, let go of your obsession, and follow the fate is the best life. No matter how cold the world is, there will still be different fireworks. Crossing the mountain in the rain, holding an umbrella, crossing the bridge, not crossing the bridge, walking with a smile, as light as the breeze. Things are noisy, fame and fortune come and go, let go of impetuousness and feel at ease. The years are light and the heart is light. The taste of life, after a long time, is as light as chrysanthemum. A light life, a light life, and a light fragrance every day. To some extent, the mecha is the driver, and the driver is the mecha. And it is this kind of computing power that is enough to undertake all the operations required by the mecha runtime.

However, due to the characteristics of psionics, the mecha has higher requirements for the driver's mental strength. At the same time, the psychological strength and quality of driving mecha have also appeared. Psychological fit is innate and almost constant. The higher the fit, the higher the coordination between the driver and the mecha. The action of the mecha is also faster and more accurate, which is closer to the level of the driver using his own body. The sourest feeling in the world is not jealousy, but the right to envy. Say your name if you are jealous. Is another person who loves him, so it's not your turn to be jealous of him. There is another person who is jealous aboveboard. The vinegar that can't be eaten is the most sour. The saddest thing is that when I meet a special person, I realize that I can never be together and I have to give up sooner or later. I used to think that sadness would cause a lot of tears, but it turns out that real sadness won't cause a tear. Everything will pass. That's how we live.

Everything looked like I had just woken up, and I opened my eyes with joy. The mountains moistened, the water rose and the sun blushed. The grass crawled out of the soil, tender and green. In the garden and in the field, look, there are many such trees. Sit, lie down, roll twice, kick a few balls, run a few laps, grab a few laps. The wind is quiet and the grass is soft. Peach trees, apricot trees and pear trees are all in full bloom, and you won't let me or I won't let you. Red is like fire, pink is like chardonnay and white is like snow. Flowers are sweet; When I closed my eyes, the tree seemed to be covered with peaches, Xinger and pears. Hundreds of bees are buzzing under the flowers, and butterflies of different sizes are flying around. Wildflowers are everywhere: miscellaneous, named and unnamed, scattered in the grass, like eyes, like stars, still flashing. "Blowing your face is not cold, willow trees become a shade", yes, like a mother's hand touching you. The wind brought the smell of new ploughing, mixed with the smell of grass, and the fragrance of various flowers, all brewing in the slightly humid air. Birds nest in flowers and leaves. They are very happy. Calling friends proudly showed off his crisp voice and sang melodious songs, which set each other off in harmony with the light wind and flowing water. The piccolo of the shepherd boy on the cow's back rang all day at this time. Rain is the most common and lasts for three or two days. Don't be upset. You see, like cow hair, like a flower needle, like a filament, densely woven diagonally, and there is a thin layer of smoke on the roof. The leaves are bright green, and the grass is green to the eyes. At night, the lights turned on, and a little dim light set off a quiet and peaceful night. In the countryside, on the path and by the stone bridge, some people are walking slowly with umbrellas, and some farmers are working in the fields, wearing wrinkled hats. Their houses are scattered and silent in the rain. There are more kites in the sky and more children on the ground. Every family in urban and rural areas, old and young, came out one by one. Relax, be full of energy and do your own thing. "A year's plan lies in spring" has just begun, and there is plenty of time and hope. Spring is like a newborn doll. It's new from head to toe and still growing. Spring is like a little girl, dressed up and walking with a smile. Spring is like a strong young man with iron arms and legs, leading us forward. When the mental intensity reaches a certain level, the fit between the driver and the mecha can be improved by 1%-5%, but that's all. I used to have such a complex, and it is difficult to untie it after many years. There is such a thing that I want to do but don't have the courage to do it. There was once such a person who didn't have a firm idea to follow. These have become the source of today's sighs. However, when the opportunity is in front of us, there will still be many concerns. When the beloved meets again, he has no courage to do anything! Vicissitudes are not a word: things are different and can be explained! The helplessness over time is not a word: it is a moment that should last forever, a state of mind that can be interpreted! Perhaps, what stays in the depths of time is always the most precious, and what never forgets is always the best! We often look back on our former state of mind over and over again in other people's stories, and all the memories of youth are charming and slightly drunk. The shadow of the vast earth, like the sigh of time, the dying affection on the roadside, shed tears as a sacrifice. Too many things I want to do and people I want to see are not stubborn until the end, and they are all lost in the wind of the old year; Write down the person as he is and stick to his true self. Without saying a word, he gently closed the door in the past. Everyone who passes by in life, whether warm or cool thin, is grateful for an intersecting fate. Leave a touch of green in my heart. Looking back, a pure smile is a grand spring. Being a person who is not confused, knowing some kind euphemisms, will also find the beauty of flowing scenery. Time is the theorem of all philosophy of life, and fetters and regrets will raise dust. Never make an appointment for the future, and always have hope and light in your heart. In my lifetime, I don't want everything to be satisfactory. I don't want everything to be perfect. I just hope that every minute of my life will not be wasted. Wake up every day, do what you should do, do what you like, and spend every spare time with the people you should accompany and cherish; In the mood of philandering, serve some hobbies, enjoy the elegance of drinking tea and holding books, support the soul and mind, and live up to the quiet and beautiful time of being kind to each other. Time is old, running water under the bridge, turn back, propose a toast to the past, say yes, and never look back. Go forward, through the fog for a while, and walk to the beautiful scenery. ...

Everyone's life has several turning points that change their destiny.

Only knowledgeable people can find and seize opportunities and take off from now on.

And ignorant personnel can only sigh.

The greatest pain in life is not that I can't, but that I could have.

It's not that there is no chance, but that the opportunity is right in front of me, but I let it slip away in vain.

Broaden your horizons and don't always confine yourself to Xiaotian.

Usually read more books, travel more, study more, and expand your horizons and patterns.

Only in this way can one seize the opportunity and leave no regrets when necessary.

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Depth: You can go as far as you want.

If life is not profound, it is easy to be superficial.

Your knowledge can only make people seize opportunities, and deep thinking can make you turn opportunities into careers.

Yi Di, the minister of Xia Dynasty, invented the method of brewing wine, and he dedicated the wine to Dayu.

After Dayu and other ministers drank it, they all felt sweet and delicious and intoxicating.

Other ministers were happy about it, but Dayu said with great anxiety, "Someone will die because of it."

Order prohibition of alcohol.

Later generations felt that Dayu made a mountain out of a molehill and began to brew again.

As a result, Shang Zhouwang later built a meat forest in a wine pool, went on a night's party, and finally set himself on fire at the Star Picking Platform.

Today, countless people are still in trouble because of drinking.

A true wise man never looks at problems superficially.

Through the surface, they can see things as they really are and understand the dangers and opportunities.

Compared with ordinary people, they can make correct judgments.

In the late Ming Dynasty, Huang Taiji was ambitious and wanted to enter the Central Plains.

In a battle, Hong Chengchou, an important minister of the Ming Dynasty, was captured.

He hoped that Hong Chengchou would be his own "guide" and the "pioneer" of the Qing army.

Fan Wencheng, a Chinese compatriot, was sent to surrender.

At that time, few Han Chinese were willing to surrender, and Hong Chengchou was the commander-in-chief of the Ming army. Everyone felt that there was little hope.

The Ming Dynasty even stopped for three days and held a funeral for Hong Chengchou.

After Fan Wencheng went, Hong Chengchou said he would rather die than surrender and went on a hunger strike.

While speaking, some dust on the beam fell on the clothes, and Hong Chengchou quickly wiped it clean.

After returning, Fan Wencheng reported to Huang Taiji: "Hong Chengchou doesn't want to die. Even a piece of clothing is so cherished, let alone life? "

So Huang Taiji went to invite Hong Chengchou himself.

Hong Chengchou was deeply moved and finally surrendered to the Qing Dynasty, which made great contributions to the entry of the Qing army.

Fan Wencheng, who knew all this, later became the founder of Zaifu, ranking first among civil servants in the Qing Dynasty.

The ancients said: "See the micro-knowledge, see the beginning and know the end."

You can know its essence by seeing a little detail, and you can know the ending by seeing the beginning.

Such a person is like walking through life with a script, knowing the opportunities and evils of life like the back of his hand.

Just like an open-book answer, even if you don't get full marks, you will never fail.

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Height: The stage is as big as the heart.

There is a well-known story.

On the construction site, three workers were building a wall, and passers-by asked them what they were doing.

The first man said, I'm building a wall.

The second man said, I'm building a building.

The third man said: I am building this city.

Ten years later, the first man is still building a wall, the second man is an engineer, and the third man is a builder of many construction sites in this city.

The pattern determines the outcome, and the height of one's goal largely determines one's future.

Writer He Quanfeng said:

What a person thinks at the moment is "what can I do", and such a person can only do what is within the scope.

Some people think of what I will do in the future, and they can often break through the limitations of the present.

Different goals, different models, different possibilities of success.

At the end of Qin Dynasty, Liu Bang and Xiang Yu rebelled and destroyed Qin.

Liu bang's goal is clear, that is, to destroy the state of Qin and become emperor himself.

Xiang Yu's goal is revenge, and Qin Dynasty is to restore Chu State and be its overlord.

Therefore, after Liu Bang invaded Xianyang, he did not take the beauty's goods, but sealed the warehouse, made a covenant with the people in Guanzhong, and won the trust of the people in the world.

After Xiang Yu overthrew the Qin Dynasty, he set fire to the Epang Palace in Xianyang, robbed the treasure of gold and silver, and then moved to Pengcheng, the capital, and returned home dressed in gold.

Liu bang's heart is filled with the world, and Xiang Yu's heart is filled with wealth and hatred.

Different patterns make two people make different choices and have different endings.

Xiang Yu's strength at that time was several times that of Liu Bang, but in the end he was defeated and Wujiang committed suicide.

Liu Bang founded the Han Dynasty, which spread all over the world for 400 years.

Zeng Guofan said: "To achieve great things, the pattern comes first."

Whether a person can succeed depends on his pattern.

Towering trees will not grow in flowerpots, and pies will not be bigger than frying pans.

How high is the goal, and what height can life reach.

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Generosity: Only by tolerating others can you fulfill yourself.

Standing alone downstairs, I saw the garbage all over the floor; Standing upstairs, you can see the beautiful mountains and rivers.

Different models, different horizons, and different things to see.

Pattern is both cognition and cultivation.

People who really have a big pattern suddenly become generous and know how to be lenient.

During the Song Dynasty, when Guo Jin visited Shaanxi, an official framed him for not obeying the law.

The court handed the officer over to Guo Jin for disposal.

At that time, was catching up with the invasion of bing bandits, Guo Jin said to the officer:

"How dare you falsely accuse me, which means a lot of courage. Now I won't kill you. If you can destroy the enemy, I will recommend you to the court. "

Later, the officer fought to the death and won a great victory on the battlefield.

Guo Jin really recommended him for a promotion.

Forgiving each other's mistakes is not only giving others a chance, but also giving yourself a chance.

He who retaliates easily will only accumulate hatred.

After a long time, you will only make enemies everywhere and be unable to move.

Knowing how to forgive others is a kind of accomplishment and a brilliant way to live.

Bingji, the prime minister of the Western Han Dynasty, once went out for dinner.

The driver accidentally drank too much and vomited in his car after getting drunk.

The housekeeper tried to kick him out, but Bingji couldn't bear it and didn't blame him.

Later, there was a rebellion at the border, and the driver of the border guards risked hearing the news and told Bingji.

Bingji could be dealt with in advance, and was more appreciated by the emperor from then on, and finally he could become a very important figure, the descendant of Fukuzawa.

There is a saying in Caigen Tan: "Be tolerant of others, and everything can be accommodated in your heart, so that you can be graceful and generous for a long time."

Know how to tolerate the mistakes of others and those who hurt themselves, so that people can have long-term happiness.

The wise will be modest, and the good will be tolerant.

Tolerance is not cowardice, but kindness, tolerance of others and tolerance of oneself.

When you are alive, relax your mind and look down on things, so as to calm your troubles, tolerate all hardships and help your life go smoothly.

When a grain of salt is put into a glass of water, the water immediately becomes bitter and salty. Put it into the lake, the water quality has no effect.

If the pain of life is salt, its taste depends on the container in which it is placed.

The bigger the pattern, the broader the mind, and the calmer the heart can be.

Yu Dan said: "Today, with the continuous updating of knowledge, we are constantly refreshing our knowledge structure, but the most important thing is to try our best to brew a big pattern."

A person's pattern is big, and the road to life can be broad and smooth.