Children don't like reading and studying, which often bothers parents. We adults all understand the significance and value of reading, but now the living environment of children can't be compared with the age when we were born. When we were children playing with mud, now children are watching TV. When we were bungee jumping as children, today's children are playing with mobile phones; When we were young, we cheered for a jiaozi meal. Nowadays, children are very picky about four dishes and one soup every day. With the progress of society, the material is extremely rich, and children will never feel anything precious, because they never lack material. But as promoters of future social development, they should have a sense of urgency. When children can't control their interest in games, parents should guide and change the environment. Growth needs environment. If children stay at home every day, parents watch TV, watch mobile phones and play computer, of course, children can't study with peace of mind. If you want to take him out to play, you'd better take him to the big library for a dip. Often take him to the library, let him find his favorite content, read more relevant books, and slowly the child will develop into his own interests. As long as you find that your child is particularly interested in one aspect, support and praise him more. This interest in the future is likely to be his foundation. Especially after primary school, we should pay more attention to cultivating children's interests. Going to the library is the most useful way to help children find their interests. ? The library has several advantages: the atmosphere is different. All the people in the library read and study quietly. In such a big atmosphere, he can't make noise and no one can play with him. Not only himself, but also many children younger than him, older than him and as old as him are reading carefully and quietly. He will also look for what he likes in the sea of books. No matter what kind of book he is reading now, as long as it can promote his intelligence and thought. The books in the library are all selected, and there are no bad books. Parents can rest assured that he can choose his favorite books. What questions does he like to ask at ordinary times? You can guide him to find relevant books to study. After he is interested in reading, guiding him to read some books such as history and literature is very useful for his future writing, communication and expression. In the future, all children's language ability must be strong, whether in liberal arts or science, they must pass the exam and learn literature well, which has a very positive effect on communication and coping with others' behavior consciousness, so let him read more books and all kinds of books. As long as he likes reading, he will be guided to the right path, and he will gradually get rid of many of his faults. As long as you praise him in time and keep praising him, he will like it more and more and make continuous progress. What are the advantages of borrowing books? You can get a library card when you go to the library, take him to the library to read books on weekends, and borrow some books he likes when you go home. After reading the book, go back to borrow it, because the borrowed book has a deadline, and he will refrain from reading it within a week, and he will have a sense of urgency in his heart. There is a saying that "books are not borrowed or read." I bought the book myself, and the children thought I already knew the contents of the book. In fact, the book has always been there, and it has nothing to do with him. These are two different things. If a child doesn't know what others are doing, he will have nothing to do, no goal and no direction; But when he sees others studying hard, do you think he can play by himself? It's important to go to primary school. Bookstores and libraries must visit more. Only by reading more books can children have a clear understanding of their future development direction. Once a child's consciousness and goals are cultivated, it will be easy and self-disciplined. Parents don't have to worry so much. It's only a matter of time after finding the direction and road. The child will become a talent sooner or later. Of course, more importantly, parents should set an example when going to places like libraries and bookstores. You should read more books about education and parent-child relationship. You have to read this kind of book to know that there is something wrong with your education. Children's problems are actually parents' problems. Because parents are originals and children are copies, this sentence is correct. Parents should strive to improve themselves and control their temper. Don't always think about controlling the child, respect him and praise him. As long as the parents do it, the children will definitely change. We shouldn't always pick on children. Children are just a blank sheet of paper that we use to draw. His eyes are a camera, and our every move is recorded in his mind. Can it have no effect on his growth? This is how words and deeds are handed down. Generally speaking, children's problems lie with their parents. If parents can change, children will be better than we thought. First, control our tone, intonation and expression, and change our speaking attitude. To make children change, change yourself first. We can't think we are superior to our parents. This is not the right way of education. This is a feudal paternalistic education. Besides going to bookstores and libraries, you should also attend some art exhibitions, visit history museums and science and technology museums, and cultivate a variety of interests. Different environments make him feel different, and children of the same age are studying hard, which will give him a sense of urgency and self-discipline. In our family, creating a gentle and friendly atmosphere of studying and studying, controlling external interference and maintaining a quiet scholarly environment will certainly bring up real talents.