How to chase a boy
Pay attention to the ways and means of chasing boys. The most important thing is to make sure in your mind that this boy is the type you want. Moreover, the most effective way to pursue a boy is to communicate with him. For boys with good feelings, as long as you can think of anything, just say it. Finally, girls should find their own characteristics and strengths and boldly show their charm.
1. Before pursuing a boy, Bai's most important thing is to make sure that this boy is the type of knife you want. You can get to know him silently from various angles, understand his personality and see if his three views are in line with you.
Make sure he doesn't dislike you, and we don't ask the other party to have a good impression on you. If he has a crush on you, you don't have to chase him, just show your mind a little. Make sure he doesn't dislike you, then try to contact him, chat with him, get in touch with him deeply, and see if you are suitable and there will be friction in living together.
If there are no problems in the first two steps, then your chances will increase. Then you can try to understand his attitude towards feelings and what kind of girls he likes. In fact, boys all have their own hobbies. If you are his type, things will be much easier. Bian Xiao has a friend who is sought after by men because of her good personality, but she is not the type that men like. Later, the man's ex-girlfriend turned around and they broke up. So if you are his type, it is very important.
If you are not his type, there are only two ways. First, try to change him and let him know that your type is also very good. Second, change yourself, but I think the premise of changing yourself is that the type he likes is also the type you want to be. He didn't change because he liked you. For example, I like to wear skirts and high heels. If the boy I like likes T-shirts, jeans and canvas shoes, I won't change, because the difference between the two girls is too big, and I obviously can't meet his expectations, and I don't want to be that kind of girl. So it's up to you here.
If all this is ok, ask him to go to the movies, read books in the library and go out for a walk on weekends. Then, at an appropriate time, express your feelings. Its success rate must be very high. If there are some unpleasant questions in the middle, then I believe you will know in your heart whether you love him so much or not.
Skills and methods of chasing boys
Skill 1: Proactive.
Many people may feel reserved as girls. But if you want to pursue an introverted boy, if you take the initiative, then you two will not communicate. In this case, you will find it difficult to catch up with him. So we must express ourselves to different people in different ways. But our pursuers are all active boys, who can attract his ideas with reservations. If the boy we want to pursue is an introverted boy, then we have to take the initiative. Only in this way can you find the right direction for your relationship. Because many relationships start with friends, if you two are not even friends, it will be difficult for you to be together. Therefore, for introverted boys, girls must take the initiative.
Second, language humor.
We should all know that introverted boys are generally boring and have little interest in many things in their world. So if we want to catch up with him, we need him to be interested in us, which requires us to be humorous when chatting with boys, so that boys think you are particularly interesting. Only in this way will he think that you are special and different from other girls. If you are both bored, the atmosphere between you will not be very good. So I need you to be lively and humorous, so that he will be more open and less introverted in front of you. But at the same time, let's not go too far. Humor, if not grasped well, will make people look impolite. Therefore, when communicating with boys, we must master the scale.
Third, find the same topic.
Many boys just look more introverted in the eyes of others, but they are actually more open-minded. I don't want to associate with others, probably because I think those people are different from him. So if a girl wants to get close to this boy, she has to talk to someone. Need girl affairs, prepare some homework. First of all, we must understand boys' hobbies. Then, when you chat with him, talk about these topics more. So he will find it interesting to chat with you. After a long time, he will find it particularly interesting to chat with you. And you can learn more about him and what this person is like in these topics. First of all, smart girls will think of how to talk to men. The reason why men are attracted by the conversations of many girls is that these girls can flirt with men. A girl who can communicate with men usually regards dating as a positive and happy experience, so it is easy to mix with men. Girls usually don't refuse courtship "games" On the contrary, they enjoy it. Smart girls will take the initiative to create opportunities instead of waiting for them. They enjoyed the whole courtship process and soaked her patience and skills.
How can I catch up with the boy I like?
① Repeated exposure: refers to repeated exposure in front of him, in social circles, anywhere he can see, hear and feel. It's that simple and rude!
2 induce investment: think that he loves you not to be good to him, but to guide him to be good to you and make him pay more! (Note that it is guidance, not coercion)
3 emotional * * * Ming: Men always find another woman who knows him, and use skills to make him feel that you know him.
Matters needing attention
1. The key is whether boys are suitable for you. If two people are not suitable, they will not continue to be good because they live together temporarily.
2. Pay attention to the method. The reason why girls are beautiful is that every girl has a gentle and implicit beauty more or less. If a girl is too unrestrained, she will lose this beauty. Generally speaking, boys are hard to like. Of course, the pursuit of her beloved boy will encounter obstacles. Therefore, it is a very high level for women to openly pursue men. What's the secret of chatting with women? Why do some men always talk and laugh with women, but some men can't arouse each other's interest and don't even know what to say? Yes, the "talking" part of many men really needs to be strengthened. It has been observed that some people can capture women's hearts through superb language skills, although their innate conditions are not optimal. I believe you have witnessed a similar situation.