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Library for 30 seconds. What happened? Power failure in the library, make a wish for 30 seconds.
The power failure of the library for 30 seconds is a real case of the recent fires in Zhihu and Weibo. It's about a woman who has been dating her boyfriend for eight years and is ready to get married, but finally finds out that her boyfriend has given up the desire to share with another girl and chose to break up. After reading it, I was very sad, moved and admired.

Library for 30 seconds. What happened?

This stalk probably means that a girl's boyfriend has no sense of boundaries with other girls. When a girl closed her eyes and made a wish on her birthday, she received a message from another girl saying that the library was out of power, and she was afraid. Finally, the girl said, I don't know if you were planning your future with me or worrying about her in the library during the 30 seconds when I closed my eyes and made a wish.

After reading these, the boy realized where he was wrong. Until the last meal, the girl asked him, "During the 30 seconds I made a wish, were you worried that she was afraid because of the power failure in the library, or did you want to spend my birthday with me every year?" The boy is fully aware of what he has done in the past year. Maybe some girls think it's wrong, but she didn't mention breaking up. Maybe the boys mentioned it first.

Power failure in the library, make a wish for 30 seconds.

Looking at four time points, what makes me feel that my feelings can't be redeemed is the 30 seconds I made a wish. In just 30 seconds, I sat in front of you and made a wish for our future, but you robbed your mobile phone for 30 seconds when I was not looking, comforting another girl. In fact, at that moment, I was not sure if your future still existed.

30-second reflection on the library's desire for power outage

Every time I see this story, I feel so sad. The happiness you can get when you reach out, suddenly collapses like a building.

It's not the 30 seconds that ordinary people sing, but when you treat a relationship with great care, you plan your future in your mind, but then the other party suddenly defected and broke your expectations for this relationship without warning.

Why are you sorry? Do you regret that they suddenly broke up from high school and got married right away? I don't think so, but regret "why did he do it?" Clearly love each other, clearly close to happiness, clearly shared so many memories, but why do you want to do this, why can't you have a sense of boundaries?

Just like building a house, it's exactly the same as on the drawing, except that you have an extra brick. At this time, you have two choices. One is to tear it down and start over, which means that your previous efforts will be in vain; One is to muddle along, but you will always remember that this house is missing a piece in a place you don't know. You will never sleep well, and even one day you will collapse because you are missing a piece.

After writing the above passage, I suddenly understand that their relationship is sad because no matter what choice she makes, the final result will only be collapse.