It is inevitable to visit relatives and friends on holidays and choose gifts. Although giving money is the simplest, emotionally speaking, it is not as intimate as a carefully selected gift. However, what is better to send? Every year, every family sends it; Sending old people, children, relatives, friends, leaders, colleagues ... Everyone has different hobbies, which is really a headache. Today, Xue Xin commented on the gift choices she can think of, which is considered to attract jade.
Traditional selection
Sending cigarettes-unhealthy and not fashionable. Unless the recipient is a heavy smoker, you are familiar with his taste, and you give him high-grade cigarettes that he can't smoke normally, he will be interested.
Sending wine is a common practice, and there are many varieties to choose from. The choice of specific varieties depends on the characteristics and atmosphere of each family. If you are fashionable young people, you can choose high-grade red wine or foreign wine such as brandy and whisky; If you are an elderly person who likes to drink two cups, you will generally choose high-quality liquor; If you know the other person's special health condition, you can send tonic wine; If you don't like drinking on weekdays, you must send high-grade yellow rice wine-not only can everyone drink it, it's good for your health, at least it can be used to cook well, hehe.
Give candy and snacks-these things have low nutritional value and are not good for your health. There is an oversupply of holiday food, and there is usually no appetite for sweets. But if you have children at home, you can consider sending high-end candy, chocolate and exquisite cakes. But the staple food does not have to be considered. Only high-grade products that ordinary people don't usually eat, or rare varieties with distinctive local characteristics can be sold.
Send fruit-this kind of thing can be eaten by everyone, which is both beautiful and decent. However, high-grade gift fruit baskets are usually of poor quality, beautiful appearance and average taste. Besides, who is short of fruit on holidays? It often becomes a decoration, or a gift, and finally becomes an inedible chicken rib. If you give it to your family and friends, you don't have to buy a flashy gift fruit basket. It's better to choose high-quality and high-grade fruits and send one or two cartons for everyone to have a good time.
Send tea-in line with the traditional saying that gift is light and affection is heavy, the package looks elegant, the weight is lightest when carrying, it does not occupy storage space, and the shelf life is long, so you can enjoy it slowly. But let's see if the giver often drinks tea and needs it. If you like tea, you must send real high-end products to make the experts happy; If you don't like drinking tea, you should think carefully, especially for young families, the annual consumption of tea is very limited. It should also be taken into account that tea is a common gift, and many people have accumulated a lot (Xue Xin's tea can't be finished in three years ... My husband likes new products, and he has opened all the tea, or he doesn't like it, or he can't give it away after drinking it, which is a sin), and it won't leave any deep impression if he gives it again.
Gift package for shopping malls-without personality and chaotic content, it is most suitable for condolences to poor households or laid-off workers, or for children of relatives in their hometown. If you give something as a good gift, it seems that your taste is too low.
Send clothes-unless you know the color, style and figure characteristics of the other person. Women are very particular about what they wear. If they don't buy it properly, they can't throw it away and don't want to wear it. On the contrary, the other party will be unhappy, but will waste them privately, and the old man will even complain that you are not alive. If a young man buys clothes that don't fit, it will also cause bad psychological feelings-if she buys fat clothes, she thinks you have a bad impression on her figure, and if she buys thin clothes, it may lead her to lose weight ... I can tell you responsibly that besides loving relatives, sending clothes is a high-risk choice, and the consequences may be very serious!
Give them accessories-such as scarves, shawls, scarves, ties, gloves, handbags, wallets, craft necklaces, etc., which are suitable for most people. For white-collar families, these accessories will not be wasted, the collection will not take up space, and it is also very convenient to give away. The premise is that you know the tastes and preferences of the recipient, and the texture of the gift is equivalent to the living conditions of the recipient. If you send an elegant lady a low-grade chemical fiber scarf, I'm afraid she will be very unhappy; If you give a luxurious fur scarf to your mother who works all the year round, she doesn't know where to use it or how to maintain it.
Send chicken, duck and fish-if it is a high-quality product that the recipient can't eat on weekdays, it can be considered as a gift. For example, excellent cod salmon, organically certified meat, green certified free-range eggs, fresh shrimp scallops and so on. During the Chinese New Year, every household's refrigerator is full. Such products should be delivered as soon as possible, occupying people's freezers and saving recipients' lucky money and shopping time. And we must ensure that the quality is excellent, otherwise the rotten fish and shrimp lament that the New Year is unlucky.
Give good food-few young and middle-aged people are willing to teach themselves to cook, so giving good food is the most human and personalized. Because of the short shelf life and small transportation radius, delicious food is most suitable for giving to neighbors, colleagues, relatives and friends nearby. In short, it must be someone you know very well. For example, homemade special buns, jiaozi, stews, snacks, sausages and so on. Usually very popular. It should be noted that the safety and quality of food must be guaranteed, otherwise joy will bring sorrow, and you can understand without telling me!
Give each other special daily necessities-this is the best traditional choice, but it needs sincere consideration and care. Not everyone has this heart or is good at understanding what friends and relatives really need. If your gift meets the special needs of the recipients, even their unexpected needs, it will have excellent emotional communication effect and make people feel the warmth of the family for a long time. For example, when I saw my mother's hands become rough because of years of hard work, I gave her a special hand cream and a pair of soft and convenient gloves I heard that she often complained that her shoes were too hard, so I gave her a pair of high-grade soft leather shoes specially designed for the elderly. Seeing that the quilt at home was old, I gave a soft and warm silk quilt ... For my relatives, the price of the gift is the second, and this considerate mind is the first.
Fashion gift
Send flowers-Generally speaking, flowers are suitable for every family and everyone likes them, but they are not necessarily popular. If every visitor sent a handful of fresh cut flowers, wouldn't the home become a flower shop? Where are so many vases to hold? If the place at home is cramped, where to put it? It is troublesome to throw away the withered flowers, and it also makes people feel sorry. Therefore, the first guest to send flowers is the most popular, and the third one is overwhelming.
Send plants-in order to solve the fashion and preservation problems of gifts, it is suggested to send live potted plants, which can add joy to the budding flowers, and foliage plants will look more spring at home. If the recipient wants to keep it, he can give it to others if he doesn't like it. This is a decent gift. Of course, don't forget to choose a beautiful flowerpot to match.
Send vegetables, miscellaneous grains and other healthy natural foods-now urbanites are tired of eating big fish and meat, but there is a serious shortage of miscellaneous grains and potatoes. Such as various fine vegetables and mushrooms. It is novel and healthy to collect and combine together, put it in a gift box and add cooking instructions. In recent years, some vegetable enterprises have introduced this kind of gift packaging, which has been warmly welcomed by the market. Germinated brown rice and vegetable soup are ideal companions!
Send CDs-If the recipient is a CD fan, music lover, or has children who love scientific exploration at home, it is a good idea to send a set of beautiful CDs.
Send books or buy books cards-adapt to people who love reading, or families whose children are growing up and are keen on extracurricular books. Book delivery has elegant taste and is usually suitable for families with higher education.
Give beauty products-For women, high-grade skin care products and beauty products will never be wasted, so this kind of gift usually wins the happy smile of the recipient. Considering that everyone has different skin types, it is best to find an opportunity to know each other's skin types in advance. Suitable for female colleagues and friends, but also suitable for elegant female elders.
Send perfume cosmetics-always a fashion choice, easy to carry and long shelf life. Even if she is not used to the smell of perfume or the color of lipstick, she will happily accept it, or at least give it away. The scope of adaptation is the same as above.
Send fitness cards, massage cards, etc. There are many things that money can buy now, but not many people exercise regularly and pay attention to health care. Giving such products can not only highlight your quality of life, but also improve the health awareness of the recipients. This gift is more suitable for young and middle-aged families who pursue quality of life. If it is not far from the recipient's residence, it is also suitable for elderly families who pay attention to health.
Send tickets for concerts or performances-for friends who love music or like drama performances, this is an elegant and novel gift, which can bring unexpected surprises.
Of course, there are many holiday gifts to choose from, so it is difficult to list them all at once, and the comments are not necessarily accurate, waiting for friends to supplement and correct them.
As the saying goes, a basket of rotten apricots is better than a fresh peach. Gifts are not suitable for this occasion. Let the recipient feel your heart, at least feel warm when receiving the gift, and it is best to have a sense of surprise. For this reason ... it depends on your emotional intelligence geometry and how deeply you feel for the recipient.