Complaining is a normal phenomenon in children's social development. Children's complaints seem trivial, but if they are not handled properly, they may affect the relationship between children and their peers, and may also have an impact on the formation of children's personality and quality. So, how should parents treat their complaining children? First, guide children to judge right and wrong. In the eyes of parents, children will complain about a very small thing. In this case, many parents will feel annoyed, ignore it, and even respond impatiently: "You'd better mind your own business first." If parents always respond to children's complaints in this way, children will be confused. Obviously, they did something wrong. Why did my parents scold me instead of criticizing them? So parents must distinguish the purpose of their children's complaints and treat them differently. For children who complain about phenotype, parents should affirm their behavior and encourage them to behave correctly. For exploratory complaints, parents should make a clear statement and give a positive or negative answer. For children who ask for help or make a mountain out of a molehill, parents should analyze what happened with their children, so that children can learn to treat other people's behaviors fairly and objectively, and know that peers should understand each other and be modest. Second, guide children to deal with problems independently. If every time a child complains, parents just say, "Well, I criticize him." This is bound to strengthen children's complaining behavior, and children's complaining behavior is becoming more and more serious. Therefore, when children complain, parents can say "solve it yourself!" " "I know you can handle it yourself" to encourage children to handle problems alone and cultivate their ability to solve problems independently. Dear parents and friends, do your children like complaining? How did you handle it?