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How dare you say you love her when you can't even afford to go to prison?
Today, when I was brushing Zhihu, I saw such an answer under the question "What do you hate most?". .

"If you love her, just touch her. Rape if you like. What's the use of confession being rejected? Do it if you can't catch it. Take medicine if you can't do it. Turn your face and send nude photos. If you can't afford to go to prison, how dare you say you love her? "

As a girl, after reading this sentence, I feel cold all over and my back is cold for a while.

I really thought about what I like. How is it different from love? What is unrequited love and what is the difference between it and love?

Finally, I came to the conclusion that it's all about relationships.

It's just that love is the joy of falling in love at first sight, and love is long and not greasy.

Secret love is a one-man show, and love is a running-in period for two people.

But in any case, when people discuss the words about love, they always think of the hand held in the sun, the bicycle on the tree-lined road, the rose downstairs in the dormitory, and the smile on their faces when they think of him.

And those words completely shattered the imagination and yearning for love. Darkness, lewdness and depression followed.

People who say these words should take it for granted that liking is possession. Once she is possessed, her name will be branded on the ownership label. You don't have to worry about chasing her, waiting for her, or buying her anything. How nice! Kill two birds with one stone

I really like seniors. During that time, she inquired about the whereabouts of her senior and tried to "bump into" him in the study room, library and canteen, but it didn't take long for her to study and was no longer keen on this activity.

"Why haven't I seen my senior recently?"

"Scum, this is wrong."

I saw my senior in the supermarket that day. I'm so happy that I'm ready to say hello. Approached, I heard that senior said to another senior who bought bananas, "Buy a boyfriend?"

She turned around.

"No matter whether he is familiar with his senior or not, it is disrespectful to speak dirty words in public."

Yes, but some people just think ignorance is humor and yellow accent is interesting. Once you turn your back on him and say you don't like it, he says you are too narrow-minded to joke about it.

But were they really joking when they said this? You really haven't moved at all? Well, even if it is really a joke, there is a saying that the speaker is unintentional and the listener is intentional. Whoever listens will ruin a girl's life.

I've met it, too. When chatting with a male classmate, he sent a message: Xiao Sheng is willing to exchange three years' imprisonment for a girl's life.

I can't say anything because of my classmates' face, so I can only skip this topic. He may think his joke is just right, but he has already been blacklisted in my heart.

I really want to advise the male compatriots not to think that you told a dirty joke loudly in front of a girl. If a girl looks at you one more time and doesn't talk, she just likes you. Chances are that she understands you, but she doesn't want to talk to you at all.

Come on, who taught you this routine?

Don't be complacent. In the eyes of many girls, simply speaking, this kind of behavior is an emergency response that relies on the words and conclusions drawn by your lower body without deep thinking of the cerebral cortex. To put it more complicated, this is sexual harassment.

Baidu Encyclopedia defines sexual harassment like this:

Sexual harassment refers to harassment based on sexual desire, that is, words or actions with sexual hints are directed at the harassed object to cause the other person's unhappiness. As long as words or actions make others feel unhappy or have the intention of being offended, they are considered sexual harassment.

I know that in the history of China, the custom that men are superior to women has been passed down for thousands of years. It seems that a woman should follow her father to marry her husband at home, and she can't be opinionated, otherwise it is a big violation. So I give some people the illusion that I can dominate everything, thinking that women are destined to bow to men's knees and look up to men.

Wake up!

This is disrespect for women, discrimination against gender, degradation of male personality and blasphemy against love.

If you really like it, go after her bravely and tell her that you are serious and have perseverance, which is different from other big pig's hooves.

Otherwise, don't use the lame excuse of "straight to the point, anyway, confession will be rejected" to prove that dirty and cowardly heart.

Above.