Jia Baoyu's ignorant attachment to Lin Daiyu is deeply regrettable, but it also means destiny takes a hand. Maybe they were very close in their last life, and they are destined to be tied together in this life. They can devote their whole lives to love and come together just to break through many obstacles. It is this experience that added a lot of sadness and tragedy to their love, which still makes people feel deeply.
Nowadays, love has no distinction between regions and national boundaries, and transnational love has gradually become popular and accepted by people. But as long as the other party can find what they want, and at the same time, it will not bring harm to others, it is naturally blessed.
For example, what I want to mention now is the story of a talented girl's cross-border love. She/Kloc-was admitted to Peking University at the age of 0/3, but she chose to get married at the age of 28 and married an American old man 24 years older than her. This experience also surprised many people around her. So what is the truth behind this?
Behind the success of talented girls is the word juvenile class, which we can't imagine from childhood. I believe many of us will be familiar with it. Such a class means that the students in it are all top talents and excellent competitors. Many talented and intelligent children will get such opportunities for further study, and our hero Tian Xiaofei is no exception. She is also a member of the juvenile class.
Tian Xiaofei was born in Harbin, Heilongjiang on 197 1. His parents both work in the Federation of Literary and Art Circles and are very knowledgeable. Therefore, Tian Xiaofei grew up in a family full of scholarly atmosphere, which also played an indelible role in her growth. Tian Xiaofei was very interested in literature and books when he was very young. Even at that time, when she was young, she grabbed books, which seemed to indicate that she would be a knowledgeable girl in the future.
She was exposed to all kinds of literary works when she was four years old. At that time, her parents didn't have much time to accompany her because of their busy work, so most of the time she was immersed in books and swam freely in the ocean of knowledge. Perhaps frolicking should be the most common feature for a four-year-old child, but Tian Xiaofei is different. Few children can be as quiet as her and not let their parents worry. She spends her time reading books every day, and then she will stand at the door waiting for her parents to come home from work. At that time, Tian Xiaofei was also loved and envied by his neighbors because of his intelligence and talent.
Open life, different transnational love, enviable real highlights, also belong to the later experience. /kloc-at the age of 0/3, Tian Xiaofei was only a junior high school student. However, at this time, her literary accomplishment is very high, which is a very strange thing. At that time, she often did many things that adults could not do, such as publishing her own literary creations, such as poetry and prose collections, which were handy for her and won high honor and distribution.
Soon after, Tian Xiaofei was admitted to Peking University Youth Class. After systematic study, she chose to study English and American literature in Peking University. This achievement is really enviable. You know, many students who enter Peking University are only eighteen or nineteen years old. They have been studying hard for ten years. There are no students like Tian Xiaofei who can enter the juvenile class of Peking University at the age of thirteen.
She is not very surprised by her family and friends who know her well. The most surprising thing is that she has a huge age gap in transnational love.
After graduating from Peking University, Tian Xiaofei went to Harvard University to study for a doctorate. It was during this period that she met her boyfriend Steven Owen. Although he is an American, he has a keen interest in China culture and China literature and has studied it for a long time. Later, he also became the doctoral supervisor and dean of Harvard University. Tian Xiaofei's tutor was Steven Owen during his doctoral studies.
At that time, Steven Owen fell in love with this girl from China and was deeply attracted by her ability and talent. Their likes and interests are so similar that they all like literature, especially language and literature. They discuss it together. During this period, the relationship between the two began to get closer and closer. Both of them fell in love with each other, but the relationship between teachers and students was not clear.
However, time will test everything eventually. When he graduated, Owen boldly confessed to Tian Xiaofei. Tian Xiaofei was shocked and excited by this sudden confession, and finally agreed to his confession request, and the two formally came together.
The best love is to choose the right person and make yourself feel happy. After marriage, both of them taught at Harvard University, enjoying the sweet time without being disturbed by outsiders. Although this relationship was blocked and opposed by Tian Xiaofei's parents from the beginning, after all, the huge age gap between them still made them unacceptable, especially American parents who were far away from home, naturally worried about the safety of their children. However, when they saw the sincerity of the man and the firm attitude of the two, they finally relented and acquiesced in the fact of their love.
Although she chose to give her love to a man older than herself, for Tian Xiaofei, being able to spend good time with people with similar interests is what she wants most, and it is also the truest love.
Isn't this story what each of us has been waiting for for a long time? Whether they are like-minded or complementary, as long as two people can be soul mates and know how to tolerate and understand each other, then such love is worthy of recognition and blessing. It is also very happy to have such a result. I think there is nothing to regret in life.