Childishness mostly means that this person is not broad-minded, immature in thinking, superficial in seeing problems, always unable to grasp the key points, always likes subjective imagination, and is generally used in adults. So when a woman thinks this man is naive, at best, she thinks he is simple, at worst, she thinks he is retarded. It's just that she is already very sad and disappointed, and she hates iron and wants to break up with this man.

1, easy to get emotional

In the process of getting along with girls, it is particularly easy to get emotional and become angry from embarrassment. For example, when girls don't reply to messages, they keep asking what girls are doing. When girls don't reply to themselves, they start asking girls. As a result, girls will never return messages and will be labeled as "straight men" and "naive".

2. Negative emotions are bursting.

When chatting with girls, whenever something happens, it means that life is loveless, boring and unworthy. Complaining about this and that, negative emotions broke out: "I'm really tired and annoyed these days. Can you talk with me?" "I'm in a bad mood recently, so I won't talk to you." "What are you doing? I am in a bad mood recently, can you talk with me? " In the face of such a reply, the girl will feel that this boy is too fragile to give the girl the "sense of security" she wants, and naturally she will not be attracted.

Every man has been said to be naive by a woman, but he often doesn't know what is naive.

Obviously, it is sincere, why is it so degenerate!

Men are always indignant about this and always don't understand why women always like to say that men are naive.

Maybe some men think it's unreasonable for women, but it's not. Women say you are naive for a reason!

Reason one: women are precocious.

A man over the age of 30 will hardly be called naive by a woman because he has matured. Naivety corresponds to immaturity, which refers to men under the age of 25.

Women are more precocious than men, both physically and psychologically. In the eyes of mature women, some behaviors of men are naturally naive.

In this case, your solution is to catch up with the maturity of women. In fact, a person matures quickly. Reduce more entertainment items, concentrate on work and study, and think more when encountering problems. After a while, you will find that you are much more mature than before.

Reason 2: Women don't love you.

For women, saying that a man is naive is a very effective reason to shut him out.

Because men, whether mature or not, have strong self-esteem that cannot be trampled on. Being called childish is a great harm to men.

In fact, this is a problem that women give men. The solution is not to prove your maturity, but your attitude. You don't care about her problems at all. Treat her like a child and the problem will be solved.

For example, you can say to her when chatting with her: Be good.

Or touch her head when touching her.

Reason 3: You didn't pay enough.

She may not refuse you, but what you give her may not be what she wants.

At this time, it is harmless to say a joke in a coquetry tone, and you can express your inner thoughts through subtext.

Smart men will not be angry at this time, but will seize the opportunity and continue to pursue.

In fact, this situation is more of a coquetry, especially in the relationship between men and women who have just determined the relationship. At this time, you can hug her, kiss her, take her to play and eat.