In daily life, do parents see that their children have the following bad habits of not reading?

1 graffiti

Cong Cong's mother has a problem. Her son goes to primary school in the second half of the year, so she specially signed up for a young bridging class. However, these days, she found that every day when she went home to read his textbooks, she smeared them. Cong Cong's mother was worried that her children would not care much about textbooks in primary school, so she asked Cong Cong why she scribbled on books.

Cong Cong told his mother that other children at school would do the same. When they see some pictures they don't like, they will delete them. When they see their favorite photos, they will handle them themselves. In his opinion, it is normal to scribble on books.

2. Tear books at will

Doudou is 3 years old, and his parents suddenly started tearing books recently. Now they don't want to read a book after reading it. Every time parents buy a new comic book or story book for Doudou, Doudou starts to tear it up and turn it down at will.

Sometimes his parents stop him from tearing books, which makes him even angrier. He not only cried, but also threw things about. Parents are very upset. Why don't children know how to cherish books?

3, local dislocation

Tribal tiger's mother told us that her son often litters at home. She told him once and he remembered it once, but a few days later, he threw it away again. In particular, books are often misplaced, and it doesn't work to tell my son to put them on the shelf after reading them every time.

The books that Tiger Tiger Tiger likes to read are thrown on the ground after reading, and the books that Tiger Tiger Tiger doesn't like to read are picked up and thrown on the ground after a few pages. The mother of the tribal tiger is understandably worried that her children will leave books they don't like lying around. However, he doesn't even cherish his favorite books, and he may not be interested in reading in the future.

Second, the reason why children don't care about books

After investigation, it is found that children can't understand it because they read it over and over again. The more boring they are, the more they tear up the book. He thinks tearing books is more interesting than reading, and the "swish" sound and the small note with the color and shape are much more interesting than reading inexplicably. This will make children develop the bad habit of not cherishing books and tearing them at will.

In addition, children don't like reading, which is sometimes caused by their parents. Some parents don't set an example. They usually leave newspapers, magazines and books on the table after reading them, or tear them up when they lose their temper, which leads children to follow suit and think that it is a "fun" behavior not to care about familiar behaviors.

Therefore, children don't care about books. Many reasons are that the books they read can't arouse their interest, or that they follow their parents' example and keep them around.

Third, cultivate children's good habit of caring for books.

Many parents have this experience. Although their children go to primary school on time, they don't know how to take care of books. Every time I give him a new book, it becomes an old book in a few days. Because he not only tore books, but also liked to scribble on them, and he made good books unrecognizable. Parents worry that if he doesn't care about books, he won't like studying when he grows up.

So, how can children stop destroying books in this way and form a good habit of caring for books?

1, enhance children's awareness of caring for books.

Sometimes because children are young, they are just curious about some of their behaviors. Maybe they just think it's a game and have no consciousness of protecting books. Therefore, it is necessary to enhance children's awareness of caring for books.

In daily life, parents should instill in their children things that they learn to protect themselves. For example, their books will be read with them, and children should learn to protect their own things. In addition, parents should choose books that are within the scope of their children's life experience and meet their age characteristics, and children will be interested because they can understand them. In this way, he had feelings for books, and also had the consciousness of loving and protecting books.

2. Cultivate children's habit of putting things back.

The requirement of "returning things to their original owners" seems simple, and it is not easy for children to do it without guidance and persistence in place. Therefore, parents want their children to cherish their familiarity and put away the books they have read. Then, parents should learn to guide their children to cultivate the good habit of "returning things to their original owners".

In the family, the requirements of parents and family members are also very important for the development of children's habits. We often hear parents say that toys are littered when children are at home, and even if they are asked to get them, books are torn casually. There are many similar phenomena.

Therefore, parents can't compromise, let alone accommodate, the phenomenon that children misplace things. If they want to teach their children where to put things, they should put them back. Once their children make mistakes, they should receive a strict education.

3, guide children to "like it, we must cherish it" consciousness.

It is that children's things are too easy to get, so they will not cherish their own things, so they will throw them around and tear them casually. Therefore, in order to let children cherish books, parents should choose familiar ones according to their interests. You can take your children with you when you buy books and let them choose for themselves.

Parents can choose some picture books or magazines with beautiful binding and good paper texture; The picture should be big and clear, the color should be bright, and the content should be concise, simple and true; You can also choose a picture book with cars, boats, planes and other means of transportation and various animals. The story is simple and attracts children's attention.

Once children like these books, parents should instill in their children the idea of caring for the things they like and guide them to "cherish them more if they like them". They should not scribble at will, but should know how to keep their favorite books tidy.

In short, in order to cultivate children's good behavior of caring for books at home, we should not only pay attention to cultivating children's thinking habits, but also have adult behavior demonstration, adult's patient companionship and adult's persistence.