As the saying goes, money is not everything, but it is absolutely impossible without money.
Some time ago, on my way back from work, I saw a stray cat mother giving birth to a litter of kittens in the yard of the community. The weather turned cold and the rainstorm hit, and they shivered with cold. I like it very much, and I am very poor, but I dare not adopt it.
There is a simple reason. Guangpiao people all rent houses. The rent does not allow tenants to keep pets. And working overtime every day, I don't have time to take care of so many kittens.
After watching it silently for a while, I went to the nearby supermarket to buy some cat food and made a carton to help make a cat nest. This is what an individual can do. Mother cat has been chasing me, meowing while walking.
I squatted down and explained my predicament and helplessness to her. It seems to understand and obediently walked back to the nest.
I also walked step by step. I feel a little puzzled and uncomfortable.
I used to think that it doesn't matter if I earn more or less, and there is nothing terrible about being poor.
But when I turned away from the litter of kittens, I felt,
Some beautiful things may not be available when you are rich, but you will lose them when you are poor.
The most terrible thing is that poverty has lost confidence in kindness.
I got up and left, so I had peace.
dugout canoe
Canoe is my favorite writer, probably because I think she is similar to me in essence. I remember the first time I read her short stories, when I was in junior high school, I was waiting for someone at the station with a magazine. The first article I turned to was her article. After reading, I closed the magazine with a heavy heart. More because stories are not people who didn't wait. Later, I read her short stories and columns, and I found that no matter which one of her short stories or columns would make me have a certain singing ability.
Even though my life or living environment is very different from hers.
But if I am a loyal reader of canoes, I am a bit insincere. Because I have only read one of her books from beginning to end, and I have been wandering for a long time. I don't know how many times I have read this book. At that time, in high school, I would secretly read when I was doing my homework, and I would quickly throw it aside when I heard my parents' footsteps. But no matter how many times I watch it, I always feel that I want to live like a canoe in the future, which is why I say that I am like a canoe in my bones.
This belief made me put this book on my pillow during my four years in college.
How old was I when I first read this book? It hasn't arrived yet 18. How big was the canoe then? This is her birth year of 24 years old.
Less than 18 years old, I decided to live like a canoe at the age of 24, but I didn't live like a canoe at the age of 24.
A few years ago, when I was less than 18 years old, I watched "I drifted for a long time" repeatedly. At that time, I was 24 years old and still far away. When I do my math and physics homework, I think, I want to live in a canoe. I want to run around the road like her and meet many interesting people. I will take pictures of people I meet with a SLR, and I will write down all their stories. I want to meet Mr. S, who is knowledgeable and versatile, graduated from a world famous school, has a wide range of knowledge, a successful career and a decent life. No words can describe how dazzling his light is. With him, I was a kind Mr. S, but I finally missed him.
The canoe said in the book that the animal year is either bad or good. I'm sure. However, at the age of 24, I can't be as comfortable as her. Especially at the age of 23, I feel that I have experienced a great decline in my life. At the age of 24, I changed from head to toe.
In the new year, I seem to be like a thriving lantern, wrapping myself red inside and out, hoping that everything will go well in my 24-year-old animal year.
So this year, when I opened "I walked for a long time" again, I saw a 24-year-old canoe eating a bowl of instant noodles in a foreign country and gave it to a teenager who played the guitar and sang "Midian". I found that at the age of 24, I didn't live the poem and the distance I wanted.
Canoe.
My 24-year-old finally didn't live like you, didn't have an unknown return journey, didn't see many scenery, didn't know many people, didn't hear many stories, didn't play the guitar and sang "Midian", and probably didn't eat a bowl of instant noodles on my birthday in a foreign country. I have met many people, and their attraction to me has formed a Mr. S bit by bit, so the regret of missing everyone is not so profound.
But I always believe that all lost things will come to me in another form.
I have always been, and I hope you are, too.
Your problem is that you don't read much and think too much.
When I first saw this sentence, I was shocked. This sentence comes from Jiang Yang. A young man wrote a letter to Jiang Yang, telling about the perplexity of life. This sentence is included in Jiang Yang's reply.
From then on, I will think of this sentence every time I encounter some emotional troubles or boredom in my life. So, hurry up and study. As a result, the effect is really good. Because of reading, I forgot a lot of troubles and saw through a lot of truth. I am no longer stubborn, I am no longer confused by myself, and I am no longer bound by existing thinking.
If you have any questions, read a book.
I used to be depressed because I didn't have shoes.
But in the street, I met a man with no feet.
Seeing this, I want to cry and burst into tears. Although I am still young, except for gray and black, I have lost all my colorful ideas about the future, leaving only a large blank and unknown. I only like reading. I don't think I really have any other so-called hobbies except reading. This year's spring is a bit changeable, the temperature has been unstable, cold and hot, windy and rainy, and I am in a bad mood. At this age, I feel that I have missed the prosperity and beauty that life should have.
But this passage made me learn more than in previous years in just a few seconds-because I learned how to live. We are always counting what we have lost and nothing, but we seldom think about what we have. There is no gratitude, no treasure, only inferiority, complaint, depression and anxiety. The trend of this era is pushing people to stride forward every day, and they dare not stop at all, fearing backwardness and being abandoned, so we have become a gyro in this high-speed whirlpool, a machine with no thinking ability and no ability to perceive happiness. But what is the meaning of living, the pursuit of endless wealth and status, or inner peace and tranquility …
Scholars are the heart of heaven and earth, the life of the people, the future career and the security of all generations.
This is the most domineering thing I have ever seen, far beyond my understanding of reading. For ordinary people, it is parents' expectation to study after finishing school, finding a job and living a stable life.
Let's talk about the origin of this sentence:
This passage is from the mouth of Zhang Hengqu, a great scholar in the Northern Song Dynasty. Zhang Zai (1020—107765438+February 6th), born in Hengqu Town, Fengxiang County (now Meixian County, Shaanxi Province), was a thinker and educator in the Northern Song Dynasty and one of the founders of Neo-Confucianism. The world is known as Mr. Yokogawa.
The scholar has the heart of heaven and earth: it shows that he knows everything and how heaven and earth work, so he doesn't doubt this practice.
Serving the people's lives: it means serving the people.
Make the past serve the present: it means to study hard and at the same time take pains to inherit the theories of ancient saints.
Creating peace in all ages: refers to waving flags and shouting for peace in all ages and preventing unstable and chaotic behaviors.
Combined with our own reading, most people don't know any of them, which puts high demands on readers, similar to what we know as "self-cultivation", relative to the operability of this foundation.
And Zhang Zai's starting point is very high. Heaven and earth are determined to inherit Juexue for saints. How many people can be familiar with the knowledge of removing saints? If you can't even do this foundation, how can you succeed in Juexue?
With the progress of the times, more and more people play mobile phones and have fun. In retrospect, I haven't finished reading a few books in a year, let alone neglected my studies. The progress of the times has brought convenience, that is, the transition from traditional dependent memory to methods requires the construction of a knowledge system and corresponding methods, and specific knowledge can be solved through search engines or question-and-answer topics. In the new era, the emphasis is on the effectiveness of knowledge, that is, whether it can be used to solve problems, and more emphasis is placed on timeliness. However, all scholars should have the courage to study, be flexible with the current elements, and truly keep pace with the times.
The last two sentences of Cao Cao's short song: "The mountain will never be too high, and the sea will never be too deep. Duke Zhou vomited, and the world returned to the heart. "
The mountains do not hesitate to be majestic, and the sea does not abandon the beauty of a trickle. We can see his broad vision and profound thoughts. Domineering side leakage!
As the most controversial historical figure in later generations, Cao Cao, a master in troubled times, has different opinions and can't agree, but he can't shake the historical position of one of the most awesome figures in his history. Ambition, ambition, arbitrariness, attaching importance to talents and cherishing feelings. The complicated and changeable personality has created a ups and downs life.
I would rather lose this world than lose this world. It explains the final position, who has to go upstream and stand up alone to turn the tide under the pressure of the times. Why did later generations evaluate him so cold and vicious? No, he didn't even have a chance to get by under the historical trend at that time.
Therefore, for domineering, Cao Cao deserved it.
"I want a lot of love. If there is no love, there will be a lot of money. " This is my favorite and most domineering sentence. From Yi Shu's "Xibao".
Everyone wants to meet someone who loves himself and loves himself.
Before, I wanted a lot of love. At that time, I believed in fate and that time would bring me a good lover.
But time has taught me to grow,
Later, I want to ask for more money, because money can give me enough sense of security. I can have no date, but I can do whatever I want as long as I have money.
Nowadays, girls have become very independent and thoughtful.
Because we understand that only by ourselves can life live up to you.
Think for yourself! What do you want? What is the truth? How to act?
I think this is the most domineering sentence in all the books I have read, which is closely related to work and life. I read it several times from the beginning, and only this sentence is memorable.
2065438+resigned in May 2007. People who have worked for five years should not feel confused. But I really don't know what to choose and what to do next. A close friend recommended me to read Principles, and after reading it, I began to reflect on myself:
1. What do I want? For Beipiao, I hope that the life of myself and my family can be upgraded to a higher level. I hope to have a good job, good income, good promotion space and channels in Beijing. This is the foundation, so what about returning to the essence? What is my own future plan? After thinking for a long time, I finally decided to choose an Internet startup. Apart from money, what may make people happier is this company, a rare positive working atmosphere and a group of colleagues who work hard to achieve their goals. At this moment, I understand what I want, a persistence, a unity, a struggle and a happiness.
2. What are the facts? After leaving my job, my friend is working on an entrepreneurial project. After many exchanges and communication, I finally decided to participate in the project. Every day is very busy and stressful, but in the past few hundred days and nights, we have achieved the landing of our business and model. Although the process is hard, the final result proves to us that our approach is correct.
3. How to act? In the process of starting a business, we need to learn, consult and study different contents every day, learn to plan, draw product background, learn to handle ICP, trademark registration, technical points and product job interview, financial knowledge, supply chain, marketing and other knowledge, and just one word "dry" in our minds.
When you are confused, everyone can use this dimension to think about the problem, which can help you solve the current problems. I hope I can help you, and of course I hope you will stick to your "principles" in your life and work.
I used to be depressed because I didn't have shoes.
But in the street, I met a man with no feet.
Seeing this, I want to cry and burst into tears. Although I am still young, except for gray and black, I have lost all my colorful ideas about the future, leaving only a large blank and unknown. I only like reading. I don't think I really have any other so-called hobbies except reading. This year's spring is a bit changeable, the temperature has been unstable, cold and hot, windy and rainy, and I am in a bad mood. At this age, I feel that I have missed the prosperity and beauty that life should have.
But this passage made me learn more than in previous years in just a few seconds-because I learned how to live. We are always counting what we have lost and nothing, but we seldom think about what we have. There is no gratitude, no treasure, only inferiority, complaint, depression and anxiety. The trend of this era is pushing people to stride forward every day, and they dare not stop at all, fearing backwardness and being abandoned, so we have become a gyro in this high-speed whirlpool, a machine with no thinking ability and no ability to perceive happiness. But what is the meaning of living? Is it the pursuit of endless wealth and status, or inner peace and tranquility? ...
Chaoyan accompanied me for three years, and finally returned to my hometown with the improvement of the years, without having to travel all the way. I re-entered the temple and became a monk, leading a stable life. But I will never forget those three years of begging, and I will never forget the helplessness and determination to "rush into the smoke." Therefore, after five years of precipitation, I chose to travel far. This time, I will not give alms, but the world.
I like the word "North Korea" so much that when Koreans asked me to give them a vassal state, I chose the name "North Korea" for them. North Korea is the clear meaning of Asahi.
Facing the smoke is the direction of my life, whether in Haozhou City or Poyang Lake, facing 600,000 troops, or driving the Mongolian army back to the vast desert. Do or die, ingenious, do or die, I can't forget the column of "begging" when I was young. Those kind people, they are expecting me to give them "peace" and "learning". Of course, there are those shameful corrupt officials waiting for me to "peel the grass".
Because of survival, but noble. Lose everything, gain everything.
The ancestors came to enjoy it.
From Zhu Chongba, the founding emperor of Daming.
To the world, you may be only one person, but to me, you are the whole world.
When I first read this sentence, I didn't really feel anything, but I thought it was well written and the words were beautiful and rhymed. It was not until I grew up slowly, entered the society and took part in the work that I suddenly discovered that I was just a member of ordinary people, not the unique person I imagined. Iron tents and mobile soldiers, we are just passing by in a hurry. As our Chinese teacher told us in junior high school, we are just leeks, harvesting one crop and continuing next year. Study is yours, not mine. Maybe you don't understand now, but you will understand sooner or later. I hope it's not too late when you find out
As ordinary people, no one cares about our joys and sorrows, and we still don't care about other people's worries. We are in our own little world. However, what we have to face is that we are really insignificant. I remember when I was in high school, my classmates and I went to the lake to play. The classmate said that the water was not very deep because he could swim. I believed it and took off my clothes to play in the water. However, the terrible thing is that the water is deep enough to kill me. Fortunately, my classmates pulled me up and spared me. If I meet my sad parents at that moment, the world will not be moved by me, and even the world will never know that I have been here.
At this moment, I really understood the sentence "You are one person to the world, but you are the world to me", because only those who really care about you regard you as the world. In a sense, for this world, we are not even individuals.
"Don't disappoint people when you are in love, and don't disappoint the scenery when you play; Don't disappoint your bed when you sleep, and don't disappoint yourself when you are alone. "
-Lu Sihao
Looking back suddenly, I don't know how to cherish, and I missed the most beautiful one at the best time.
High school is a pure and friendly age, but he dare not love boldly. She is a beautiful and pure girl with short black hair, big eyes and fair skin. I remember that every time she did her homework, she would pull her hair behind her ear with her right hand and gently shake her bangs. I remember that every time I went to the library with her, she always read literature books. Slowly, under her influence, I got to know Alice and admired her.
Gradually, with her, I read many biographies of celebrities: Zhang Haidi, Helen Keller's physical disability; Chen Jingrun, Hua's hard self-study; Madame Curie devoted herself to her career; Lu Xun used a pen as a weapon to fight against the old society. These examples moved me. Whenever I encounter difficulties in my study and life, I will think of Dickens' famous saying, "Perseverance can conquer any dangerous peak in the world." So I will insist on doing everything well. When I succeeded, I thought of them again, and of Lu Xun's inculcation that "discontent is the upward wheel". Stay awake in the face of victory and continue to work hard. ...
Good times are always short-lived, and it didn't take long for senior two to pass. After the placement, I was assigned to Class C, and she was assigned to Class B. In this way, our contact faded with the polishing of time, the emotional line was shortened by time, and the communication became less. She is still so beautiful. We have the same goal-to get into a good university, and I am alone. She was admitted to her ideal university, and I got my wish to go to my favorite university, so the past became a beautiful memory.