1. It is not necessary to harm people, but it is indispensable to prevent people /3

2. Don't be too smart /6

You can't just tell others what you think /8

4. Hide your spirit/10

5. Be able to "play dumb" at critical moments/12

6. Don't show off yourself/14

7. Watch out for little people/17

8. Expose some shortcomings moderately, so as not to make people think you are perfect/19.

9. Emotion is intangible /2 1

Chapter II Assess the Situation and Seize the Opportunity

1. As long as you make up your mind, opportunities will always come to you.

2. Adjust yourself to opportunities /28

3. Looking at the world through a telescope /30

4. Be flexible and sail with the current /32

5. Good eyesight and quick action /34

6. It is better to follow the trend than to wait. Only by following the trend can we win /37

7. Look up at the road and seize the opportunity /40

Chapter III Hello, I am good, everyone is good, and we should leave a retreat for ourselves.

1. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you /45

2. Self-control /48

3. Eat small losses to take advantage of big ones /50

4. Sacrifice a little reputation when necessary to avoid going too far.

Admitting that you are wrong can get you what you want.

6. Don't hit people in the face, but expose them /57

7. Retreat is retreat, concession is concession /59

8. Be wary of people's hearts /6 1

9. Turn your enemy into your friend /63

The fourth chapter needs to use "scheming" more

1. Be careful what you say /67

2. Misfortune comes from the mouth /70

3. Play dumb and win without fighting /7 1

4. No gossip /73

5. It's better to laugh than hurt when joking /75

6. Good eloquence can also ruin good things /77

7. A wise man never takes part in an argument /79

8. Unintentional losses should be remedied in time /8 1

9. Clever use of "fuzziness" /84

10. Don't believe in "scene talk" /85

Chapter V Techniques of Euphemistic Rejection and Saying "No"

1. Clever refusal won understanding without hurting feelings /89

2. Reject nature and pave the way /92

3. The key to refusal is attitude, and it doesn't hurt to be euphemistic /94.

4. Dare to say "no" and be good at saying "no" /96

5. Reach out and don't smile, and refuse to be euphemistic /99.

6. politely refuse and give the other person a step down/102

7. Hard to hard, soft to soft/104

8. Rejection skills/108

9. Reject other people's taboos/1 13

Chapter VI I am for everyone and everyone is for me

1. Not counting people: count yourself/1 17.

2. "Sophistication" is not the performance of scheming/1 19

3. Stand by for virtue and think for yourself and others/122

4. Loyalty should have a bottom line/125

Thinking of others is actually thinking of yourself/127.

6. Generosity is great wisdom/130

7. I do it for everyone, and everyone can do it for me/132

8. Friends should make up, but don't get married/134

9. The beauty of a gentleman as an adult does not take advantage of the danger of others/137

Chapter VII There is a victory called "retreat"

1. Pursuing indifference-the high realm of life/14 1

2. Never shut yourself off/143

3. Blow your own horn is the most annoying thing/146

4. Face unpleasant words peacefully/148

5. Give up rather than force/150

6. Difficult to confuse/152

7. Don't stop until you reach your goal/155

8. Happiness lies in contentment/157

9. There is a victory called "retreat"/159.

10. Stay away from pessimists/16 1

1 1. Cultivate kindness/163

Chapter 8 There is a circle in a square, and the inside of the circle is the inside.

Chapter 9 Gifts and Etiquette-Lubricants for Interpersonal Communication

Chapter 10 People wander in Jianghu to avoid being stabbed by friends.

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