Including clothes, manners, etc. To infer what kind of person he is, even the family situation, you can guess a rough idea, which is actually a different performance of the family environment, leading to differences in various aspects of children.
Li Meijin, a professor of psychology, said: What are the three characteristics of children from poor families that can't be hidden, thus revealing the fact of family poverty? Lack of foresight and knowledge
Due to the limited family conditions, it is often difficult for children from poor families to travel and attend parties. They go to school at home all the year round and have little contact with the outside world. There are fewer places for children to go, and naturally they can't let go of their horizons. Lack of knowledge will affect their overall pattern, so that their ideological height will not be improved. This will be gradually reflected in their growth, and even affect their future development.
Natural inferiority complex
If the family conditions are poor, it is inevitable that children will not be satisfied materially. When children look at the children around them with everything, they will have an inferiority complex. Externally, they often lower their heads and dare not look directly into other people's eyes. They are often alone in the corner, their voices are very low and they are not good at communicating with others. A child's inferiority complex will not only affect his integration into the collective, but also hinder the improvement of his abilities in all aspects. Children's heartfelt inferiority and poor sense of self-identity will make inferiority more serious.
Clothes are worn out and there is no pocket money.
This should be the most direct manifestation of family poverty. If the family's economic situation is not good, the children's food and clothing will be affected. Some children will wear clothes for a long time, especially when it is cold, a cotton-padded jacket will be worn all winter, and even some children's clothes will have traces of seams. As for pocket money, it is even less. Some parents don't even give their children a penny, for fear that their children will develop the habit of spending money indiscriminately.
No matter how poor the family is, these basic conditions must be met! The minimum standards of material conditions should be met.
When children grow up to a certain stage, they need to enter parks and schools and enter a circle full of peers. If you are very different from others because of your poor family, it will inevitably cause psychological burden to your child and aggravate your child's sense of inferiority. Therefore, parents should remember that the basic material conditions must be given, which can be poor, but not without it.
Create opportunities to broaden your horizons.
Whether children's ideological height can be improved has a lot to do with parents' efforts. Even if there is no money at home, parents can take their children on a poor trip and visit the library. At the same time, they can help their children to increase their knowledge and improve their ideological level without spending much money.
Correct guidance and education are indispensable.
Parents should understand that children will encounter many problems when they grow up. If they can't develop on the right path, the future will inevitably be more bumpy. It is suggested that parents should not neglect the guidance and education in daily life, and help their children to establish correct concepts and healthy attitudes, which is more conducive to growth.
Therefore, the child's poverty is clear at a glance, which is determined by many factors. Parents attach importance to education, education is correct, even if the conditions are average, children will have better development.
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