The ancient hanging beam pricks the strands. Sorry, people in adversity are a good example.
Professor grignard, a famous chemist, has gone through a tortuous road. A young man with a well-to-do family is spoiled by his parents, so he has no ideal or ambition and wanders around all day. But it didn't last long. A few years later, his family was completely bankrupt and penniless. His old friends left him and even his girlfriend humiliated him in public. From then on, he woke up, studied hard and determined to recover the wasted time. Nine years later, he invented Grignard reagent and won the Nobel Prize in chemistry.
In the past, Siberia seized and played Zhouyi. Confucius and Ecuador's Chen Cai were the Spring and Autumn Annals, Qu Yuan was exiled, and Li Sao was blind. Sun Zibin lost his feet in the book Guoyu, which was in Sun Tzu's Art of War. It was not Wei who moved the capital to Shu, but Lu Lan Han Fei who was imprisoned in Qin. "Difficult to see a doctor", "angry" and "three hundred poems", Xi 'an is probably full of energy. Everyone's goal is to stagnate and get through. Sima Qian's disaster in Liling was calm, so the only energy book in Thinking of National Heritage became Historical Records.
Beethoven, the composer, didn't go to college because of poverty. /kloc-at the age of 0/7, he suffered from typhoid fever and smallpox. At the age of 26, he was unfortunately deaf and frustrated. In this case, Beethoven vowed to "seize the throat of life", and in his career of fighting for the survival of music, the fire of his life grew stronger and stronger. Adversity did not frighten him, but became a powerful magnetic field vitality.
None of the works of the young French painter John Fran? ois Sawyer Miller can be sold. He fell into the abyss of poverty and despair. Later, he moved to the countryside. Although he still couldn't get rid of poverty, he didn't stop painting, expressing the beauty of natural and simple farmers from his paintings. Works such as Sowing and Collecting have become immortal. If he doesn't give up that fear, that spirit of going forward will be immortal.
On the political stage of China, they led the people of China to overthrow the three mountains and crush their power. A great man Mao Zedong ruined the systematic development of Mao Zedong. A child bought a book because of lack of funds, and even walked for 20 minutes to borrow a book from relatives and friends. Cattle studied hard under the dim soybean oil lamp during the day and night. This is precisely the pursuit. With the spirit of seeking knowledge and perseverance, he had lofty ideals and ambitions, and he later became an outstanding leader of the people of China.
Gorky, a famous writer, suffered from bitter soil in his childhood. Even if he was too tired to work, he refused to give up reading at that moment, and often secretly wrote it on his boss's whip, eventually becoming a famous writer.
Thomas Edison, an American inventor, couldn't afford books and experimental equipment when he was a child. He collects bottles and cans everywhere. Once, when he was doing an experiment on the train, a coach that accidentally caused an explosion slapped him in the face. He pretended to be deaf and dumb, and his body was defective, so he didn't dissuade him. He studied harder and eventually became a world-famous scientist.
There are many such examples. Learn to grow up and read Helen Keller in adversity. If you want to be a career tumbler, read Powell; Carrying 5,000 Hong Kong dollars, studying in Li Ka-shing and becoming a billionaire; In a world ruled by fantasy violence, you can only refer to Adolf Hitler's The Struggle to Meet People.
As the saying goes, "the children of poor families have long been in charge." "The environment has a certain impact on people's growth. People should be in adversity. In order to face themselves better, explore their courage and great potential, work hard and eventually become useful people.
The finished product, whether in prosperity or adversity, is an external cause, which depends on the internal cause of the work. This can also explain why the hero of "poverty and poverty since ancient times, dude is few and mighty", because in prosperity, people are easily deceived, and they are often hedonistic, ignorant of progress and the sufferings of the masses. How can people who are ambitious and have no ambition be useful? People in adversity are different. Their hardships, fighting against fate and difficulties again and again, and coming out of adversity, mostly set lofty aspirations and firm goals. Don't go up without pressure, don't forge ahead without motivation. Once they all play their amazing potential, this is a good time, which most people don't have.
Of course, due to the external environment, not all prosperity can be useful, and not all adversity can be useful, and there is no necessary connection. In prosperity, people can't be convenient, gather their wishes and let them work. Do you need to worry that it won't work? On the contrary, if people in adversity can't stand suffering, they will be depressed and even swallowed up.
Throughout the ages, many celebrities have succeeded and made progress in the face of adversity. Like Sima Qian, he was severely castrated because of the humiliation suffered by the Li Ling case, but he finally completed his brilliant masterpiece, Historical Records, with hard energy. Another example of modern China is Zhang Shibo. He has undergone great changes, from swimming to paralysis, but he has not recovered. Instead, he has become strength, studied hard and accomplished many things that healthy people can't. Li, Zhang Haidi ... Many famous people become useful in adversity. Beijing Hongzhi students, growing up in difficulties, learned the courage, wisdom and strength to overcome difficulties. They like the grass in the field, and the scarred storm ravaged them. How can the vitality of those greenhouse flowers compare with them?
"It's going to be a big day. For such people, we must first suffer their minds, work their bones and muscles, starve their flesh, and act in an empty body, so patience is beneficial. They can't." After the storm, it doesn't always seem that we can't reach the other side of victory. Without wind and rain, the invisible rainbow can't stand hardships. It can't be an important event. So, young man, if you are in a good time, you will be brave enough to meet difficult challenges. In adversity, don't be discouraged, but bravely overcome difficulties. People say that "suffering is a school" depends on how you learn.
Sima Qianbin's leg became a historical record.
Sun Zibin went into battle with his legs.
Mao Zedong's fine arts were assigned to the director of Peking University Library in Peking University, and he met Li Dazhao, the pioneer of * * * at that time. BR/ It's from grazing goats and monkeys in Su Wu.
The scene of the scattered youth Yue waving the wind wave pavilion.
In the 20th century, representing all talents, on the omnipotent political stage in China, the working people in China overthrew three mountains, shattered their leadership and buried Mao Zedong, a great man of exploitation system. Because children with insufficient funds buy books, even relatives and friends in their twenties borrow books to read cattle, and study hard under the dim soybean oil lamp during the day and night, this is the pursuit. With knowledge and perseverance, he has lofty ideals and ambitions. He later became an outstanding leader, and Gorky, a famous writer of China people, suffered the sufferings of the earth in his childhood. Even if he was too tired to work, he refused to read at that moment, and often stole writing under the whip of his boss, eventually becoming a famous writer. Thomas Edison, an American inventor, a child can afford books and experimental equipment at home. He collects bottles and cans everywhere. Once, when he was doing an experiment on the train, the long-distance bus that accidentally caused the explosion slapped him in the face. His deaf and physically defective ear didn't discourage him. He studied harder and eventually became a world-famous scientist.
Unfavorable environment/conditions/circumstances
Since the Qing dynasty, only 1.2 million people in the Qing dynasty opposed the armed forces of more than 3 million in the Ming dynasty, which can be described as adversity. But in fact, they successfully defeated the Ming army. Li Zicheng, who represents the people's will, can be used in the face of growing adversity in Qing Dynasty. The Book of Changes describes the Qing world as "making the sky healthy and the gentleman constantly strives for self-improvement". Now, the good times are gone. In fact, the Eight Banners learned to live a parasitic life. In the Qing Dynasty, their children lost their true colors, and China finally perished, leaving a humiliating history of 100 years. Let's look at history again. The China Revolution led by China's * * * Party and the China Revolution led by China's * * * Party are also in adversity. Their growth in adversity can be described as hard. For example, today is hard to imagine. However, the great wisdom of China's * * * production party led the people of China. After 28 years of fighting, the historical predicament of the founding of New China is the same, so adversity is more conducive to economic growth. In the long history of China, various dynasties came one after another, and many dynasties grew up in adversity.
What deserves people's encouragement is that the producer party of China * * *, with Hu Jintao as its general secretary, has really made progress despite difficulties, taken history as a mirror, is close to the people, loves others, is pragmatic and thrifty for the sake of China, the "Theory of Three Represents" thought of China * * * producer party serving the people wholeheartedly and all the producers of China * * *, who have really won the hearts of the whole party and the People's Party and are always the most popular.
Former US President Bill Clinton and former British Prime Minister Heath both come from single-parent families, but this does not mean that single-parent families or domestic violence will be conducive to economic growth.
The growth of talents can be divided into prosperity and adversity. Prosperity is certainly conducive to all the conveniences of talent growth, but adversity is often encountered in talent growth, so we should correctly face the overall disheartened. Many thinkers in ancient China thought that it was difficult to develop talents, and the Wei school even said, "For students, follow Yaomen; Inverse is sacred, following the madman's frost and snow, the business is not solid, the people are not bitter, and they are wise. " He believes that only in adversity can it be useful and one-sided. However, it is an indisputable fact that the phenomenon of adversity teaching embodies more laws of justice.
Reasons for the reversal of talent growth and construction
(A) specific historical conditions, social and political system decisions
Times can be a hero, and you can also stifle and hinder the progress and stagnation of some talents, leading to the growth of talents in adversity. In peacetime, the shortage of military talents is not conducive to people's military play, which is the growth of military talents in social adversity; Social revolution, armed struggle or world chaos, military life, 1 ambition, but in this era, scientific and technological talents and talents with literary and artistic expertise are often faced with the unfavorable situation of learning in hutongs, in order to serve the country. It can be seen that the development of the "times" is specific to the adversity of talents.
Judging from the five social forms experienced by human beings, feudalism and the integration of politics and religion are not conducive to the growth of talents, the most serious of which is the destruction of the most talents. In medieval Europe, a few hereditary nobles prevented a large number of civilians and their children from becoming the privileged channel for officials with feudal family officers as the core and military personnel system to show their military strength. The implementation of the imperial examination system in Sui and Tang Dynasties actually restricted people from playing tricks. The broad masses of workers, forced by life, lost the opportunity to study, could not take part in the imperial examination and left their jobs. In the Ming and Qing Dynasties, when writing "Eight-legged Disabled", candidates had to draw a gourd ladle, and the ancients made statements without independent thinking, releasing the shackles of the imperial examination system. This system is in adversity, and I don't know how many talents have been buried.
(2) The prejudice behind it and the old habits make it so.
In the history of our country, some stereotypes and old habits have caused all kinds of adversity, which still restricts the growth and progress of talents. First of all, the qualification of habitual adversity. Talented people in Germany can enter the body and take their place. In the order of seniority, the promotion after the promotion of "all fools are connected to the grid" must be "according to the seniority of the next row." Junior high school must obey the arrangement, endure years of hardships, and even be buried for a long time. Secondly, due to the adversity of interpersonal communication and envy of the environment, it is difficult for talents to succeed. Even if you succeed, you will have a sense of accomplishment, but it is limited by "gratifying". Some people can't stand outstanding talents, and even some leaders lack magnanimity and abandon them in vain. However, we should not let talented people show their heads and faces, and create a rainbow board of potential talents. The tiger lies in a closed and conservative social, cultural and psychological adversity. Self-esteem, as a virtue, is a conservative and introverted psychological feature of China's traditional culture, and its business philosophy of "being smart is better than hiding" and "not trespassing" is quite insightful to the demand of so-called "self-esteem", such as young people's work suggestions, ideas and academic research, and even doubts some authoritative conclusions, but it doesn't show any trace, because once "invaded", a joke will not be lost.
(C) the unbalanced decision of talent development
People at the forefront of long-distance running often bear greater wind resistance or headwind. The same is true for the development and progress of talents. Some people became famous, even this one became a public figure. The society and people around them pay more attention to them, and-with relatively high expectations, they will be more demanding, which is tantamount to forming a kind of pressure, which is called "happiness in adversity."
Adversity causes a "Matthew effect": the growth and progress of talents, the outstanding talents ahead are easily recognized by organizations and society, and those famous potential talents are honored and rewarded. It is difficult to be recognized, and it is often in trouble and adversity. The price is often at the expense of developing potential talents and promoting the development of outstanding talents, thus depriving potential talents of development opportunities and the "Matthew effect" of development. The growth potential of this "deprivation" mechanism, the "Matthew effect" in the artificial adversity of talents, is an obstacle to play its role, which not only suppresses talents, but also buries them. (4) The characteristics of occupational character make it so.
The British philosopher John Mill said in On Freedom: "A talented person has more personality than anyone else in the sense of life. Only in this way, it can't satisfy the trouble of maintaining social order than anyone else's detailed information, and its members will form a personality and will not feel pressure. " This is intolerable by the old traditional view of talents with distinctive personality, decadent social system and backward habits. More and more outstanding talents have to undertake more. Therefore, unique talents often face the severe test of social adversity, especially for thinkers and politicians who are eager to destroy the old world and build a new world. In particular, what they are looking for is a decadent social system, and its personality will not be tolerated if it is combined with the society at that time. If ideological giants and political giants are so satisfied with the clockwise order in history, then the social system, in this environment, does not constitute adversity, but if so, it will not become a historical giant. Those talents with distinctive personalities and sharp edges sometimes hurt some people intentionally or unintentionally by contacting them, so that the enemy can bear grudges. Coupled with their talents, they are often jealous. If there is some stubbornness and stubbornness, it is difficult to coordinate with the surrounding environment. The unique personality of talents often plays a role in the face of adversity.
(e) The objective conditions and abilities and their status are certain.
Adversity is often determined by objective social conditions, natural conditions and talents in its growth state. Parents with poor family background, poor living conditions, unable to change their social status, natural and man-made disasters, sudden and helpless major diseases, unexpected disabilities, physical defects, people who are unfortunate and helpless; Humble people can't meet their talents, only silence, the unfavorable environment when they first arrive, and the situation that people who are not familiar with their jobs can't open it, all of which have to start from the beginning ... all kinds of insurance, disasters, poverty, hardship and adversity have caused it. Whether you like it or not, sometimes people can't choose their own status. This is the passivity reflected by the objective world.
Second, a comprehensive understanding of adversity Under certain conditions, adversity has indeed played an important role in stimulating the growth of some talents, but not everyone can teach in adversity, nor does it deny that adversity has played a positive role in the growth of talents several times. Therefore, it is necessary to have a comprehensive and objective understanding and dialectical analysis of the role of adversity in talent growth.
(1) Adversity is full of thorns, but it also contains opportunities for success.
People who grow up in adversity do have many shortcomings, but, as bacon said, "miracles are bad luck." It often contains great work miracles and opportunities for successful teaching in adversity.
The ancients said that blessing in disguise. A keen eye and a sense of innovative wisdom can always break the routine, find out in the crisis, see the opportunity to turn around and come back with countermeasures. 179 1 The French army entered the Netherlands in late autumn, and the Netherlands dug canals and retreated meters. After hesitating, Napoleon learned a lot of cobwebs. According to his own knowledge and experience, he immediately judged that a cold wave was coming, so he stopped retreating and prepared to attack. Sure enough, a cold wind blew in a short time, freezing the river overnight. The French army stepped up its action on the Val River and captured Utrecht in Seu, the Netherlands, to avoid falling short. This is Napoleon's shortcoming, an opportunity found in adversity and an example of success. Before the dark dawn, the previous success was extremely difficult. Talent growth, persistence in the crisis, through the most difficult period, the second time may be a miracle opportunity to patronize.
(2) In the face of adversity, talents with depressed will also have strong motivation to grow.
Adversity stimulates growth, making it difficult for people to form stress and depression, and making talents grow and depressed. However, as Cai Gentan said, family adversity. , the whole body has constructive criticism, and the whole body has feelings and feelings; When things went well, all the weapons were in front of the spear and closed with paste, I don't know. "As long as things go well, it is easy to be enchanting and lazy. In adversity, human resources patches lack mental depression, are eager for success, and become energetic. It is often difficult to achieve great success in prosperity. This is a fact. The children of the poor and the rich are always in trouble. Adversity leaves you no choice. Adversity puts a lot of pressure on people, and it has strong stimulation and pressure driving force. Of course, this positive action also depends on all teachers adopting a positive attitude towards life.
() Adversity tests talents, but it also sharpens their good personality.
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Due to his bad temper, the output of Yun Yang Qing was limited by former South African President Nelson Mandela. A young man was arrested and opposed apartheid in prison. The white ruler kept him on a desert island for 27 years, and the guards always made excuses to bully him. Mandela was released from prison and 199 1 was elected President of South Africa. The three guards who held him were also invited to attend the inauguration ceremony, and Mandela paid a respectful tribute. All foreign dignitaries and VIPs who are so broad-minded are in awe. Later, Mandela explained that he had a bad temper when he was young. It was a long-term prison tragedy, which gave him time to think, so he learned to control his emotions and how to deal with their pain and suffering. He woke up, and he overcame his personality weakness, which was his last brilliant achievement.
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Fu Lei once said: "Without the tempering of disaster, separation is frivolous." The profound adversity of this sentence is an important value, that is, people learn to manage their own personality, properly publicize their personality, become slaves of their personality, eliminate their negative tendencies in personality, and become a harmonious blend of self-development and socially useful talents.
(4) Adversity creates misfortune and talents. Sublimation compensation, the function of some other organs of the individual will be strengthened, therefore, in order to fill the gap or incompleteness of the physiological function of the diseased organs in China. Blind people are particularly sensitive to ears, and their tactile hands and feet are particularly elite. He can even recognize faces and images through sound and touch.
The principle of compensation also applies to bad times. Stephen Hawking was paralyzed at the age of 24 and didn't even speak, but his Big Bang theory was born with severe kidney disease, but he eventually became a great writer. Yang Xiaokai was imprisoned for ten years, but he also became a famous economist. Beveridge said, "One of the most outstanding jobs often creates mental stress, even physical pain and spiritual stimulants under unfavorable circumstances." To sum up this phenomenon, it never rains but it pours.
Realistic Enlightenment of Adversity Success Phenomenon
() Training of Young Talents with Useful Adversity
The success of early teenagers is not necessarily a good thing. Fang Zhongyong, a prodigy in the Song Dynasty, was able to write poems and biographical anecdotes when he was five years old. However, at the age of 65,438+02, he was hurt because the rich environment, sometimes a good environment, was not conducive to the growth of talents. Since ancient times, his talent has suffered a lot, and he has never been too handsome. Zhang, the prime minister of the Ming Dynasty, is a bit playful. 13 years old, a lovely examiner who took the provincial examination paper. When he was the governor of Grain Rain, he suggested Zhang Luodi. He explained: "Jing is young and studious. I think his literary ambition is the only stage that makes him develop prematurely, makes him complacent and destroys his ambition. If he falls behind in recent years, let him see his own shortcomings and be clearer, thus promoting their self-improvement. " The governor's vision is really admirable. Later, Zhang really became an outstanding politician in the Ming Dynasty. ZTE insists on reforming politics. In a dangerous environment, he firmly stated that he would not give up, which was related to "backwardness in childhood adversity".
To cultivate young talents in adversity is not to deliberately create "adversity", but to train young people in harsh environmental conditions, which actually creates more opportunities and conditions for exercise.
(2) Perfect talents forge ahead. Facing adversity is also facing adversity. Some people crossed over and gained fame and fortune. Some people, even some talents with high IQ, are deeply involved and eliminated because of their lack of ability to face adversity and solve practical problems. In other words, their AQ AQ is relatively low.
AQ·AQ (adversity quotient), when people face adversity, the unfavorable situation is the favorable condition. Adversity is inevitable and critical situation is irreversible, so the only correct choice is to face the reality. In the adversity of early depression, people's minds will have a series of anger and panic, which is a normal emotional response. ●AQ easily falls down, complains and gets angry repeatedly, but forgets to seek a solution. AQ will calm down, analyze and judge rationally, and walk out of adversity, which is the ability to face adversity. Adversity quotient is highly respected because it reflects a positive value orientation.
Adversity (AQ) and emotional intelligence (IQ) are innate. Anyone can learn to improve AQ. Dr Paul Toci, the inventor of AQ, believes that the ability to face adversity can be decomposed into four related factors-control, possession, promotion and patience, so as to realize a person's ability to change this situation. Control; Attribution refers to the ability to bear the consequences, expand the problem and evaluate the impact of work and life. Patience is aware of this problem, which may exist for a long time and needs long-term persistence. Training AQ mainly focuses on these aspects and should improve the ability to face adversity.
(C) Pay attention to the strategy of adversity teaching
First, wait, pass through patiently, and live smoothly. In the face of adversity, be patient, tolerant, endure grievances and sit in the back seat. At this time, there is no chance, so we need to observe calmly and keep a low profile. Misjudging the situation, being in adversity and rushing for success may lead to even greater disasters and disasters, as long as you remain calm and enthusiastic in adversity. It is possible that when the time is ripe, the disadvantages will turn into advantages and enter the front.
Optimism transcends adversity. This mentality that leads to addiction and the pursuit of happiness is not plundered or suppressed by any adversity, because adversity already exists. Don't rush to change the reality, but seek the greatest pleasure in the persistent cause of transcending the reality spiritually. Only in this way can we eliminate adversity from the date of elimination and succeed in the industry.
To save electricity and stand by and break through adversity, we should also pay attention to the tough and flexible "burial" strategy, break down barriers, and break through the long-term and arduous accumulation of strength and mental preparation until the basic conditions of Sky Trend fans break through the shackles of adversity and achieve their careers. In fact, groundbreaking achievements and innovations, adversity suppression and prevention, for example, have the courage to "break through", put on an offer, take a bold journey-or gain external support from authority, or guarantee effective organization, or quit the stream and fly away from the circle.
(d) Organized human intervention can make people hostile.
Adversity does not necessarily teach people. Adversity itself will not give people any achievements, but usually, it will destroy, strangle and destroy talents. & ltBR/ Organizing the Party's name can't teach you how to set up a talent dilemma in adversity, whether it is facing adversity or top talents. "When adversity teaches doctrine, engage in blind worship of adversity. After all, teaching in adversity is depressing, which is not conducive to the healthy development of human cognitive system and temperament. Any organization and leader can grow up all kinds of talents in the administrative intervention and ideological education necessary to deal with human adversity, so as to eliminate the shortcomings that lead to difficulties. Through sound institutional arrangements and harmonious internal environment, mature and appropriate material interests, the social role of talents and the scholarship of moral knowledge have a relatively benign and all-round development space, and talents can leave the torture and residue from adversity. This is also the objective requirement of social harmony, democracy, progress and development.