Recently, a girl in a university in Anhui was hit in the face by a boy with a book for occupying a seat in the study room. I have to say that the conflict about seat occupation is not uncommon. I think I met him at school, and I felt speechless at that time.
Girls occupy seats in the library and are hit in the face by boys!
The thing is, that female college student got up early in the morning and went to the library to occupy a seat. Because there was no one in the seat, a boy sat in the seat and studied. Unexpectedly, the girl who occupied the seat shouted as soon as she arrived: This is my seat. I'm early. I put my book here, but you took my book.
I think it should be the female classmate who came to occupy a seat very early, and the boy boldly sat up when he saw no one. This is normal behavior and indisputable.
However, what happened next triggered a heated discussion among netizens.
The two did not give in to each other in words for the seat, and the girls even started fighting, which led to the escalation of the contradiction. I saw the girl bang and dropped the book directly on the table. Because boys are sitting in their seats, throwing books so hard will still have a great impact on boys.
Boys don't show weakness, just throw books in girls' faces. It is such a move that triggered a heated discussion among netizens.
Some people say that it is unreasonable for girls to occupy seats, and there is nothing wrong with boys fighting back. However, some people say that there is a big gap between girls' strength and boys' strength, and boys should not throw books in her face directly, which is easy to get hurt, which is a bit excessive.
However, in the face of this situation, the school did not deal with the meaning of boys, but directly said: students are not allowed to occupy seats in self-study places. The official attitude is already obvious.
How should we look at this matter?
Let's talk about girls first! When it comes to the source, it's all caused by the girl who occupies the seat. If the girl is unreasonable, if she takes the book and leaves directly, the matter will pass, and no one will say that she is not, because no one will care. It happened that she also blamed others in turn. She is an educated person, but she doesn't know right from wrong. It's her own fault. She threw a book in front of others to vent her dissatisfaction.
In this matter, I think she has made many mistakes, and occupying a seat is her first mistake; As a college student, she doesn't distinguish right from wrong, and she is too laissez-faire about her wrong behavior, which is her second mistake; We are all adults, but we can't control our emotions and act excessively in public. This is the third mistake.
In other words, in school, if we are sent to the society to solve the problem in this way, we will only suffer more. It is said that a little intolerance leads to great mischief, not to mention your own fault. The way girls deal with problems is extreme. You know, no one has an obligation to tolerate you and humble you. Lucky to meet someone who doesn't care about you, unlucky like this boy, answer blows with blows.
I absolutely disagree with that girl's behavior and warn the majority of female compatriots not to imitate her. If you really fight, girls will definitely suffer.
Let's talk about this boy again. From the point of view, he is right, but as a boy, let it go. Judging from the strength of the boys' counterattack, there is no mercy. This is a book. I accidentally took my mobile phone and hit my head, but something happened and I suffered.
I'm definitely not saying that this boy is wrong, but I hope anyone can handle things calmly. It is easy to make impulsive and wrong decisions if you are not calm.