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What happened when the son's soul questioned the mother?
The son's soul questioned his mother. Just like this. The boy's mother told him that his family had been poor since childhood. But when he grew up, he found that the economic conditions at home were actually very good. Therefore, when this boy participated in a program, he openly questioned his mother's soul and asked her why she lied to him. I have to say, this kid is hard to be cheated. He said in the story of a teenager that he believed his mother's words that his family was poor since he was a child. Therefore, in daily life, he always reminds himself that the economic conditions at home are not good, so we should not ask too much, nor waste it, so we should be diligent and thrifty.

When the boy grew up, he found that this was not the case and never talked to his mother again. The boy asked his mother a question through the program, and her mother answered him: I learned it from your grandmother, and that's how she taught me. Be frugal and spend your money on the cutting edge. ? After listening to this, the boy didn't know how to communicate with his mother for a while. Indeed, what my mother said is also reasonable, but my mother's well-intentioned deception has had an indelible impact on my children. The boy whose soul questioned his mother looked quiet and introverted. The reason why he openly questioned his mother seems to be that he has been under psychological pressure for a long time and his psychology is very depressed.

In fact, sometimes raising children in poverty is really not a perfect educational method, and this method even has many shortcomings.

First of all, telling children that they are poor at home will make them feel inferior, and they will be passive in interpersonal communication, lack self-confidence and always feel inferior. In fact, children also need to relieve their inner pressure through shopping. Sometimes, if children can get what they want, it can make their life and study very easy. Secondly, raising children in poverty will make them sensible too early and often put grievances in their hearts. In fact, children's ability to withstand pressure is limited, and too much pressure will really make children fall into anxiety.