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Why do many children relax when they get to college?
Before going to college, many children studied very hard at the request of their parents and teachers. They usually don't have enough sleep time, and even have to hurry to eat. In order to get into a better university, they have to save all their time on study every day. It can be said that the years before many college students went to college were very touching, and their efforts and spirit were very exciting. However, after entering the university, many students completely lost the excellent quality of high school when they first entered the university, and gradually degenerated and relaxed.

Many people don't understand why they have worked hard for so many years, and less than half a year after entering the university, students gradually relax and degenerate. In fact, it is mainly because high school life is too hard. Many students can persist in high school, mainly because of their good expectations for the university. They are strict with themselves every day, and they are very demanding of themselves. Then they will feel that they need to compensate for their hardships after entering the university. They don't play mobile phones in high school, so they should have a good time in college. What I didn't do in high school, I did it in college. I feel that I have never done it before.

On the other hand, because many children go to college, the school environment is completely different from before. In junior high school and high school, teachers will constantly ask children to study hard, discipline students in all aspects, and parents are around. Parents and teachers put some pressure on their children together, demanding and supervising their words and deeds. After entering the university, the teacher will not discipline the students. Parents are also far away from their children. In this case, many children slowly relax.

In addition, many students have no clear understanding of the tasks of universities. Many students think that learning is a matter of junior high school and senior high school. After entering the university, they just need to have fun. In particular, many students especially believe in the plots in some idol dramas. According to some TV dramas, we can see that college life is very colorful. Under such circumstances, many students automatically ignore their studies, and at this time they have entertainment facilities such as mobile phones and computers around them. If self-control is not strong enough, it is very easy to become degenerate and then relax. Once you relax, it is difficult for you to return to the state of studying hard before.