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How different is the most diligent person you have ever met from you?
In my university, I think I am a diligent person. Of course, compared with those key universities such as 285, 9 1 1, and even Harvard and Cambridge universities abroad, maybe my diligence is nothing at all. Compared with them, I can only be regarded as a qualified person at best.

I think the boundary between diligence and non-diligence is not the length of time, but whether your momentum is used in the right place. Whether a person is really diligent or not should be decided by the following points:

(1) Did you use the correct method? Method is the means of everything, and it is also an important factor whether you can achieve the expected effect. If a person uses the right method, his growth path will be much less hindered. On the contrary, even if you work hard day and night, you may not get results.

Give a simple example: I remember that our professional teacher once gave us an example when teaching us. A classmate in her class, I'll call her Xiao for the time being. He is usually not a student who listens carefully in class, but every time he takes a computer practice class, he will find that he can understand what the teacher said with a little attention, and then he will start to do his own thing. In the exam, unexpectedly, he got the first place in the class, even surpassing the second place in the class. Although he is usually so-so, you should know that he has finished reading the textbook after class and even made notes during reading. In class, maybe he seriously understood what he didn't understand, and finally got better grades.

Whether you are responsible for yourself; What is responsibility? To put it simply, it is whether what you promised yourself was really done in the end. Many people always say when they fail in the exam: I will try my best next time, and I will try my best from tomorrow, and how many words I recite every day … It is easy for anyone to simply say a promise, but I will definitely do it if I say it; Otherwise, talking too much is a lie, and in the end it will only be an excuse to comfort yourself, and you will only face another failure in the next exam.

What is really feasible is to make a plan for glory, but the plan should not be too radical or too simple. We should make a feasible plan according to our actual situation; If you finish it on time, give yourself a small reward, otherwise adjust your plan in time and improvise.

3 identify whether you are a pseudo-diligent person. What is pseudo-diligence? This has something to do with the two points I said above. Ask yourself, do you seem to be busy every day, doing things from morning till night, but never thinking about whether your methods are just right or not, and whether you have arranged a lot of unrealistic plans. If the answers are all yes, then you should stop and think about what you want to do in the future, and then act. Only in this way can you change your present situation.