But it's freezing to break up. Today, I try to synthesize it from a friend's point of view and a psychological point of view? Talk about it? Those things related to redemption. The most important point of mentality construction is to reduce the sense of demand. Therefore, for such an arduous and difficult task,
If you have a strong sense of need (motivation for success in compounding), it will affect your compounding efficiency and make your compounding more difficult. If the sense of demand is reasonably reduced to a relatively low range, the greater the help to the recovery, the easier it is to achieve compound success. You got it?
Another point is recovery, which depends on time. After so many redemptions, I gradually began to have experience and become handy. What kind of man and personality is the other person? What is the real situation? How can I make it up? I can analyze it clearly.
These are all true knowledge from practice. Now I will tell you how to restore them. There are all kinds of good people and bad people. In fact, most of them have not recovered several times, or have not recovered at all. The counselor's relationship is booming. They are more theoretical and lack some practical experience. Theory alone is not enough to save real life.
My own independence was exploited. When you are in contact with your lover, you are very attached to your physique, unwilling to separate, giving each other too much independent space, which leads to great pressure when you are in love. After reading a lot of books, I forced myself to study and improve my interpersonal skills.
Then slowly I formed a very sensitive constitution, that is, I basically contacted and chatted with this person. You can find out each other's personality characteristics and ways of doing things. I began to gradually establish my own set of thinking logic about saving and repairing feelings. I am here to share with you a few points, my core and most important concept of redemption.