(1) Persuasion should pay attention to methods, be sincere and use euphemism.

(2) Persuade with emotion, stand in the other side's position and be good at empathy; Pay attention to speech speed, intonation and tone, and use more consulting tone, sentence patterns and friendly language.

(3) Be good at using body language to convey information to each other and enhance affinity.

Example:

Hello, classmate. Excuse me, are you a little loud in the library? If you can, can you keep your voice down? Or, you can go out and deal with it before you come in, okay? In the library, everyone needs a quiet environment. Please cooperate. Thank you.

Extended data:

When persuading others, put yourself in the other's shoes.

Because persuaders are often convinced of their own views, persuaders should first understand the angle and way of thinking of the other party in persuasion, so as to know ourselves and ourselves; It is necessary to analyze the ins and outs of the views held by the other party and the materials cited in the discussion, grasp the key points and hit the nail on the head.

At the same time, due to the premise of empathy, the persuader can also start from narrowing the psychological distance of the other party, follow the guidance, step by step, and let the other party naturally accept their own views.