Your junior is a thoughtful and deep person. As far as libraries, movies and music are concerned, Korean Wave will feel too naive. You can ask him to recommend some good books to you. Some good music, some good movies. Then read, listen and enjoy patiently and carefully. You will find that a person's appearance is really insignificant compared with his inner self. Also, watch less Korean dramas. Girls who like watching Korean dramas can't live the life of Korean dramas, and they can't find a husband like Obama. Only read more tasteful books, listen to tasteful music and watch tasteful movies. Because when you do this, you have lived as well as life in Korean dramas, so you don't have to envy the handsome men and women inside, because they are alive and you are alive.