This book is highly recommended and has completely changed my outlook on money. I used to be the kind of person who didn't know how to manage money. I have been spending money indiscriminately and have no sense of financial management. I only know how to make money at work.

I think our domestic financial education for children is still relatively lacking, including many adults and parents who also lack financial awareness. But abroad, financial management has become a part of the important income of many families.

This book is the autobiography of a wealthy American businessman, based on personal experience. It won't make you rich overnight, but it can help you build a good view of money and get rich slowly.

2. "You should fly to your mountain with the birds"-Tara? Westerfer

If you still think reading is useless, then you really should read this book.

This book is also the author's autobiography. A girl in the mountains changed her fate through education. This book is also highly recommended by Bill Gates.

We can't choose our origins and parents, but we can choose to change ourselves.

Many people think that Wendi Deng succeeded through disgraceful means. As a matter of fact, she once said that all of her benefits from education, which has given her the wisdom to see things and seize opportunities.

People living in the world should have their own goals and dreams, and then work hard for them and fly to the peak of their hearts.

3. Mr. Toad went to see a psychiatrist-Robert? Debord

If you always feel unhappy and often worry about interpersonal relationships, this book can be read.

The success of this book lies in showing that obscure psychology hurts a group of small animals. Mr toad, the hero of the book, suffers from depression. After consulting with psychologists for ten times, he finally found the root of the pain.

As the book says, no criticism can compare with self-criticism. Everyone has the ability to be better. If you want things to change, you must first change yourself.

You really don't have to compromise yourself to please others. If you can't help everyone, help yourself first.

I hope my parents have read this book. pear wine

The author of this book is a senior psychotherapist. In the book, the author thoroughly explains the parent-child relationship, family member relationship and interpersonal relationship through parenting theory.

Especially as parents, how to raise children and get along with them.

If we don't reflect on how we grew up and the influence left by the previous generation, one day you will find that those experiences will suddenly jump out and give you a comeback. You may have said something like this: "When I open my mouth, I say exactly the same thing as my mother."

5. Intimacy-Roland Miller

I first read that this is the third edition, and now it has been updated to the sixth edition (as shown below).

Compared with the previous books, I personally feel that this book is more professional, a little thick and has a lot of theoretical knowledge. (It's best to read the electronic version first to make sure you can understand it, and then buy the paper version. )

Its advantage is that it can let us know the essence of some things, such as "men are from Mars and women are from Venus" on the Internet. In fact, there is not much difference between men and women in essence, and they all need to be loved and understood.

This book will let you know the roots of many contradictions, and you will know more about why. Only by understanding the causes of the problems can we avoid contradictions from the source.

6. Camellia Stationery Store-Nana Ogawa Department

How long has it been since you picked up a pen and wrote down what you want to say to someone you miss?

There is a stationery store in Kamakura that specializes in writing letters to people. There are 16 letters in the book, including condolence letters to dead pets, announcement letters announcing divorce, refusal letters refusing to borrow money (this is very useful, I attach it in the picture below), and parting letters to close friends. ...

Ghost letter is the real life of the guests, and it is also a life lesson.

7. The Road to Happiness-Taylor

Happiness is an ability that everyone can learn and possess.

I have read such a passage: "Only unhappy people will think about whether they are happy or not, because happy people are immersed in happiness every day and can't feel happiness."

I think happiness is really a wonderful thing. Some people think that money is happiness, while others hope that family reunion is happiness. Everyone has a different understanding and definition of happiness.

But the same thing is that we all want to live a happy life.

Perhaps a person's greatest happiness is that everything in his eyes is beautiful.

8. "Sit for a while"-Jia Pingwa

Personally, I prefer reading teacher Jia's books.

Temporary Seating depicts a picture of modern urban women's sexual life with Xi as the background. They are mysterious and beautiful, both attractive and unpredictable. Teahouse is the epitome of society, and the interlocking fate shows the living state and mental state of the characters.

The 13 employee rule put forward by Mr. Jia in the book is also the survival rule of every reader and every contemporary in society, which contains the wisdom of this old man who is nearly seventy years old.

9. "Human disqualification"-Osamu Dazai

I prefer to call it "human sobriety".

In this book, Osamu Dazai analyzes the darkest, most cowardly and most desperate part of human nature, and reveals the dark side that we have been suppressing for a long time.

In reality, many of us, like the protagonist, carefully hide ourselves, seemingly positive and cheerful, but in fact our hearts fester. I often feel disgusted with everything when I am alone, and I feel painful about being born.

Perhaps this book tells us that you are not the only one who has been struggling in this world.

10. Break free-Eiko Yamashita

Jia Pingwa said: "People who can live, or people who can succeed, actually understand two words: willing. I can't bear it. Small houses are small and big houses are big. "

Only by throwing away things that drag you down can you go into battle lightly and go further.

Quality is not quantity, just like making friends, a hundred fair-weather friends can't compare with a life confidant.

Learn subtraction for your own life, and you will live more easily.

Some people, some things should be put down, some things should be thrown away, don't give yourself a hard time.