No matter what she does, I think she is very quality and cultured.
In fact, as long as you do these 14 moments well, you can also become a super girl in the eyes of others!
1. Put things back where they were.
Whether it's borrowed umbrellas, headphones, books or clothes, when you return them, you will clean up those that can be washed and tidy up those that can't be washed, and then pack them and return them.
When you return it to the other party, you will say thank you politely.
2. It's not embarrassing to refuse people.
Although the other party's request can't be met by himself, he won't refuse it directly, but expresses his ideas euphemistically.
Leave some room for yourself and save face for each other.
3. Take off your headphones when you are talking
Wearing headphones usually means refusing to communicate. But if someone talks to her, she will still take off two headphones. Say, I'm listening. Feel valued.
4. Mute the phone if necessary.
Movies, libraries, study rooms, conference rooms and other places will mute their mobile phones before entering, so as not to disturb others by sudden ringing.
Even if there is an emergency call, I will sneak out and start talking.
5. Knock before entering the door.
Whether the door is open or closed, there will be three knocks before entering. They won't go in until someone calls.
One is afraid of disturbing others, and the other is to prepare the other side psychologically.
6. Leave your seat and clean the table.
Going to the library, study room, canteen and other places will clean up everything on the desktop. The chair will also be put back in place so as not to affect the use of the next person.
7. Driving will slow down when it rains.
Never get in the way when driving, be polite to pedestrians and don't honk your horn at will.
When someone walks and rides a bike on the roadside in rainy days, they will deliberately slow down the speed to avoid the rain splashing on each other.
8. Eating will take away the leftovers.
When you go to the canteen, fast food restaurant and other places to eat, you will put a piece of paper on the table and put garbage. I will pick up the leftovers when I leave. The dishes will also be put back in the storage area, which is convenient for the aunts to clean up.
9. Don't make any noise.
Watching videos and listening to music in public places will consciously put on headphones. Even if there is a phone call, they will communicate in a low voice.
One is to protect privacy, and the other is not to disturb anyone.
10. Pick up garbage when you see it.
Roadside garbage, garbage that has not been thrown into the trash can, will be picked up and thrown into the trash can as long as it is seen.
If the trash can is far away, put it in a bag and throw it later, so it won't be thrown outside.
1 1. Don't lose control of your emotions.
Outside, as long as it is not related to human life, you can face it indifferently. I won't have a sudden emotional outburst, yell at people who are dissatisfied with me, and communicate slowly when I get home.
12. Go back to the dormitory and keep quiet.
But it's a school dormitory, a company dormitory, or a shared small single room. When I come back late, everyone turns off the lights. I will consciously lower my voice to avoid disturbing others' rest.
13. Very punctual
Whether it's a date, a meeting or going out with friends, you will arrive about ten minutes in advance and won't keep your partner waiting for too long.
If you are delayed, you will tell yourself in advance when you will arrive, and you will also tell me the location and how long it will take.
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Borrowed money and said when to pay it back. I'll return it as soon as I arrive. Go out to play, ask friends to help pay, and pay back the money as soon as you get home. I will try my best to finish what I promised, and I won't break my word even if I encounter difficulties.
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