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Why do you say that 3 years old determines a child's life?
As the saying goes, "at the age of three, at the age of seven" is well founded. Because children before the age of three will form their own way of thinking, personality characteristics and behavior habits according to the people and things they come into contact with.

1, the way of thinking is basically formed.

2 years old is a critical period for the development of oral English. Thinking is internal, and language is the external expression of thinking. Children are good at expressing their inner thinking and develop well.

A person's brain weighs only 370g at birth, grows to 60% at the age of one, and reaches 75% at the age of two. At the age of three, it has reached the weight of an adult's brain, which is the physiological reason for being three years old.

American psychologist Bloom pointed out through research that if a person's IQ is set to 100% at the age of 17, then it has already formed 50% before the age of 3. 3 years old is a critical period for children's multi-faceted development.

Critical period: refers to a mature period with the highest sensitivity to printmaking in an individual's life.

Sculpture was discovered by researchers while studying animal behavior. It refers to the phenomenon that small animals that have just gained life chase the movable creatures they first see and become attached to them.

We see small animals in cartoons and follow whoever we see, calling them "mom" or "dad".

So are children. They kiss whoever they see and have feelings for whoever they spend more time with. Children with good companions will trust and feel safe. Such children have good psychological development.

We saw that many parents left their children when they were very young. Later, they always felt that the children were not close to themselves because the children were not comforted by their parents' affection, and there was no blood relationship between parents and children.

Before the age of 3, it is a crucial period for the establishment of family ties. Parents miss this period and get along with their children. It's hard to make up for their feelings.

Before the age of 3, it is the most important stage of children's brain development and emotional attachment. In order for children to grow up well, they need family companionship, and parents must pay attention to companionship.

2. The concept of treating people with things has basically taken shape.

Children's learning mode is imitation. Under the demonstration and influence of the adults who accompany them, children learn and form the basic concepts of communication with others through role models and role models, and form basic behavior habits.

Not every parent can do it well. As parents, there are many things to learn.

Through the internet and books, it is very important to gradually understand the growth characteristics of children at all stages, cultivate their reading ability, speak Mandarin from an early age, and exercise their independence and practical ability.

It is very important for children to know the world through touch, sight and taste in life.

Restricting children's behavior can not stimulate children's desire to explore, and even hinder the development of baby's interest and the improvement of sports ability.

Adult intervention and prevention will make children lose interest in exploration and innovation.

Most old people take care of their children because they are lack of ideas, physical strength and energy. They only care about eating and drinking enough and not freezing. Some care too much, others are more casual? Shepherd? With a baby, it is often difficult to meet the various needs of children.

Interact with children, play with them, read to them, read them poems, play with them and ask them to shake hands, hug and help each other. In the study of helping children build interpersonal skills, children should also learn to play and read by themselves.

Before the age of 3, it is a crucial period to cultivate children's interest in exploring the world.

This is directly related to the acquisition of children's cognitive ability and exploration ability, and it is a critical period of education and training.

Parents should love their children. It is very important to stay with their children before they are three years old and demonstrate and cultivate their good behavior habits.

3. Personality characteristics are basically formed.

What kind of people bring out children is like what kind of people. Children brought by optimistic people are optimistic, and children brought by brave people are brave. What kind of influence you give your children, what kind of children you cultivate.

A good personality is of great benefit to children's future. A two-year-old child is the first rebellious period in life and an important period for the formation of independence.

If you are withdrawn when you are young, you will leave more or less "regret" no matter how it affects you when you grow up.

If the child has a sense of security, then he will have a better sense of security in the future and will accept people and things more actively; If family members often beat and scold children, children may develop personality problems such as avoiding problems and indifference during their growth.

Before the age of 3, parents should give correct guidance and cultivate their children into people with good personality characteristics such as self-confidence, liveliness, cheerfulness and enthusiasm for affairs. In the future, they will become very cheerful, confident, decisive and independent.

If you follow the trend in this period, cultivating children to actively explore the outside world and correctly channel their emotions will affect their attitude towards life in the future.

Therefore, it is very important for children to form the ability of initiative, optimism, self-confidence and inquiry, which should be cultivated before the age of three. Cultivate children's independence before the age of 3, and children will become active people.

"Looking up at the age of three" is not a problem of children themselves, but an environmental problem of family education and children's growth.

The phrase "three years old determines a child's life" actually means that the development of early childhood will greatly affect a child's life and is of great significance to their future life development.

Family education is very important, because children spend most of their time with their families before the age of three, and "parents are their first teachers".

Long-term imitation and study will affect the development of children's personality and habits.

"Thinking mode determines behavior, behavior determines habit, habit determines character, and character determines fate."

Therefore, there is a book to remind parents to pay attention to the cultivation of children before the age of three, which is the possibility of providing good development for their future growth.