Educate children's feelings after reading.
I haven't read books for a long time, and I am deeply touched by reading books on education. Educating children is a top priority for parents. How to educate children well and find a key suitable for them is something we should study and explore with them. I quite agree with what Mr. Zhang Wenzhi said? Parents change, children change? This kind of education.
Parents are parents for one day, parents for life and teachers for life. Parents are the best teachers for children. Although the child is still very young, it is very imitative. She will firmly write down everything you do and imitate what you do. For example, when I cut something with scissors, it will be put back soon. Scissors are very dangerous tools for children, so I put them high. I don't know how long it took. One day I bought food for my child, but she couldn't open it. She hurried to the kitchen with a small stool, stood on the stool and took off the scissors. I was very happy. Although scissors were dangerous, I didn't stop them. She picked up scissors and cut a hole in the bag. She opened the bag and ate the contents. At this time, we can praise the child and say that she is smart, and the child will feel a sense of accomplishment.
It is the best gift for parents to accompany their children in their daily lives and collect their bits and pieces. Hug our children more, interact with them more and have more physical contact, especially for children aged 1-3, because children will feel safe with their parents, because I have seen it, have you seen it? Sensory integration disorder? Is this concept a common problem of contemporary children, or is it a body? Touch function? If not fully explored, it will affect children's future study and life. It feels a little scary. I didn't know this would happen before? Contact? I only know that kissing and hugging children more will make them feel very happy. It seems that I did the right thing in this respect.
Teach children how to feel after reading the second book.
As an on-the-job teacher who has been teaching 12 years in the front line of education and teaching, I want to share some of my experiences in educating children with all the parents present, hoping to provide some reference and help. How to guide children to do their homework
1, to help children correct their attitudes.
Parents must help their children improve their sense of responsibility for homework, and let them understand that it is his duty as a student to finish homework on time with good quality and quantity every day, just as mom and dad have to do their work wholeheartedly every day at work, and there is no room for bargaining; Parents must also help children to improve their understanding of the importance of homework, so that children can understand that doing homework is an indispensable part of mastering knowledge, a continuation and expansion of learning, an indispensable and important means of consolidating knowledge and improving academic performance, and is not dispensable.
2. Try to improve children's interest.
Interest is an important factor that affects people's actions. It can make people like doing an activity. However, some children have low interest in learning and poor self-awareness, and they have to deal with teachers and parents every day. They can put it off if they can, and try to avoid it if they can't. For this kind of children's homework problems, parents should start with cultivating and improving their interest in learning and find ways to change their interest in learning. Adults force me to learn? Country, so that children can become? I love studying? 、? I want to learn? Active learning.
3. Do your homework wholeheartedly
Some children don't concentrate on their homework. Additional operation? Too many children look around, touch this and play that for a while. Some children like to get together and do their homework while chatting, or they like to do their homework while listening to music and watching TV. Of course, such half-heartedness cannot guarantee the quality and efficiency of their homework. Therefore, parents should ask their children to pay attention when doing homework, not to do things unrelated to homework, not to put distractions on the desk, and not to disturb their children when they are doing homework. Did you do well at school today? Did you get the teacher's praise? ,? Are you hungry? Do you want a snack? ,? How many courses have you taken? How much more
4. Arrange reasonable operation
Parents should teach and urge their children to arrange and handle their daily homework reasonably. For example, they should pay close attention to school homework and don't put everything they can do at home. Don't play enough after school, and don't do your homework until your energy consumption is almost the same; Prepare learning tools (tapes, markers, blank paper, books, etc.). ) Before doing your homework in advance, don't wait until you use it to find it temporarily; When you do your homework, you should read the topic clearly and carefully before you start writing. Don't do it until you find that the topic is wrong or you don't do it according to the requirements of the topic. When you encounter problems that you can't do in your homework, you can bypass them first and do other problems that you can do first. Don't stop there and waste unnecessary time.
5. Pay attention to the combination of work and rest
Children should use their brains when doing their homework. If children think for a long time without rest, their brains will be tired and slow. At this time, children's learning efficiency will be reduced and the error rate will increase. At this time, if children are given proper rest, the learning efficiency will be improved after fatigue is relieved. Generally speaking, primary school students should not do homework for more than half an hour to 1 hour.
6, strengthen the ability training
Completing homework well and quickly requires some basic abilities, such as the flexibility of small hand muscles and the coordination of hands and eyes. Some children do their homework? Slow? It is precisely because of their lack of coordination that they frequently raise their heads and lower their heads when doing their homework, thus reducing the efficiency and accuracy of reading and writing. For this kind of children, parents should first strengthen the training of their visual perception ability and action coordination ability, and let them do more extracurricular activities such as basketball shooting, table tennis, paper cutting, maze walking, skipping rope and skating.
7. Review before you do your homework
The purpose of homework is to make students understand and remember the new words, grammar, definitions, theorems and formulas they have learned correctly, so as to consolidate their knowledge better. The quality of children's homework is based on the mastery of the knowledge imparted by the teacher in class. If the classroom knowledge is not mastered, the content learned is not digested and understood, and the homework will naturally not be done well. Therefore, in order to successfully complete homework, children can be asked to read books and reference materials before doing it, and then start writing homework after reviewing it, instead of writing it at home to save trouble.
Teach children how to feel after reading the third book.
Children are the treasure in every parent's heart, and we all expect them to grow up healthily. Besides teachers, parents also play an important role in the process of educating children. Family education is as important as school education.
My daughter is six and a half years old and has just entered the first grade of primary school. In the process of educating children to grow up, my deepest experience is:
A warm and harmonious family environment is the source of children's healthy growth.
Home is the main activity place for children, and the quality of family atmosphere directly affects children's physical and mental health. Parents must not always quarrel with their tongues in front of their children, which will make them feel fear, inferiority or even disgust. Not only will it alienate the feelings between children and parents, but it may also lead to extreme behavior among peers. Giving children a safe, comfortable and warm home is the first step to teach them. Family members should love each other and live in harmony. In this regard, we use practical actions to let our daughter feel the warmth of the family.
Second, it is very important to cultivate children's good moral character step by step.
Our daughter started kindergarten at the age of 3 and entered the formal education system. We should lay a good foundation for her to take the first step in life and cultivate some good qualities in every bit of her life, so as to get rid of it? Self-centered? The common fault of the contemporary only child. For example: tell her about it? Kong Rong qinli? Story, and put it into practice, let her know the truth of respecting the old and loving the young; Tell her that it is very happy to help others and let her know that she should help others; When playing with friends, give and take and so on. In my spare time, I often play games with my daughter. I said the last sentence: My sister fell down. ? Daughter continues:? I'll get her up at once. ? Enjoy it.
Third, let the children? Do it yourself? Cultivate children's hands-on ability and self-care ability
The importance adults attach to children's education directly affects whether children will develop good behavior habits. Whether adults attach importance to it or not, and whether the educational methods are correct or not, the first is the concept. Some parents want their children to succeed. They are under increasing pressure in their studies and take more care of their lives, but they leave their children's good behavior habits behind and let themselves go. I think it is especially important for children to have a good habit of loving their work. Let children participate in the labor within their power, which can not only cultivate children's working habits and hard-working morality, but also cultivate children's good qualities and abilities such as independence, responsibility, self-confidence and willpower. Therefore, when my daughter was very young, I began to ask her to do some housework as much as I could. Such as: packaging toys, dressing, washing handkerchiefs, washing socks, making beds, etc. Of course, children often can't do their jobs well, so we can't judge them by the standards of adults. As long as the child has made efforts, parents should fully affirm it. This is a challenge for them, and it requires children to make great efforts.
Fourth, let children have less stress and more relaxation. After studying, we should pay attention to let the children relax properly, take half an hour to walk and jog every night, use this time to understand the children's spiritual needs, and often have heart-to-heart talks with the children, observe the children's physical and mental changes at any time, be good at using the little things in life, open their hearts, learn to look at the children with appreciation, and be good at capturing the bright spots in her body. Don't compare your own children with other people's children, but compare their present and past, look at their progress vertically, and find and discover them in time.
Children's hearts are sensitive. What kind of seeds are sown, what kind of flowers and fruits will be harvested. Therefore, I sincerely hope that my parents will sow the seeds of beauty, kindness and friendliness. Let beautiful, kind and friendly flowers bloom in children's hearts. No? Looking forward to success? Psychology has become the pressure of children, let nature take its course, teach students in accordance with their aptitude, and let children learn easily. Believe that gold always shines!