If you really say you are not confused, who will believe you?
Some students around me practiced earlier and got the offer in advance; Some began to enjoy the last leisure time of college and came on one trip after another.
But what about yourself? Get up at six or seven every day and go to the library to occupy a place. I solve every meal silently and mechanically in the canteen, and then drag myself back to the dormitory at eleven or twelve in the evening. I've never felt so lonely. Not to mention those in World War II and World War III, good schools can't go, poor schools are unwilling, and they miss the opportunity to find a job. It seems that how to choose is wrong; Those who give up the postgraduate entrance examination will pick up their books again under various pressures, the last stop.
Even so, there are still many people who dare to stick to the postgraduate entrance examination. So, what happened to those who insisted on taking the postgraduate entrance examination?
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When I was bent on taking the Tsinghua exam, I should let myself be completely dead, just take the exam this time, and if I fail, I will resign myself. So, I broke up with my partner at that time, probably because I was moody and stressed. The result still failed, and I missed the second interview by 4 points. It's a pity to dream back at midnight now. However, there are also many regrets in life. At least I did my best in pursuit. Although I failed, I will turn around wisely and strive for more choices for myself through other channels. Now I'm taking TOEFL and GRE while working, and I'm going to save money for further study abroad.
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After graduation, I went to a small company first, and it became a common practice to work overtime until evening 1 1. My family has been urging me to go back to my hometown, and I often want to cry for no reason. Later, I figured it out, resigned decisively, rented a small room, scrimped and saved, reviewed for half a year, and prepared for the postgraduate entrance examination. Whenever I want to give up after reviewing, I will look at the recruitment information of those large state-owned enterprises and see "requirements: master's degree or above" I silently sat back to my desk and continued to review with bread. After graduating from graduate school, I entered a state-owned enterprise, and I was well paid. I worked nine to five every day. I am glad that I chose that year, but I regret that I didn't take the exam earlier at school.
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Because I have long known that it is not easy to find a job after graduation, I began to prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination very early. Although World War I failed, God paid off. He landed successfully in World War II and was admitted to an ideal university. People, once they meet excellent people, can't stand their mediocrity. If they want to pursue a better life, they think they can get it in one jump. I majored in engineering. After graduation, I went to a research institute. I have graduated for three years now. The down payment of the house and the car are basically bought through their own efforts, which reduces the pressure on parents. I'm very proud.
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After failing in the college entrance examination, I once thought I had a problem with my IQ. Crazy study during the postgraduate entrance examination. Every day, I go in when the library opens, and I come out when it closes. I only rest for half a day to play games every week. I persisted for nearly five months and was admitted to the graduate school with the first place in the preliminary examination. Later, because of graduate school, I met my current doctoral supervisor and successfully passed the doctor's examination. Currently studying for a doctorate in physical education. If I didn't go to graduate school, I might be an ordinary primary school physical education teacher. Unlike now, life is full of infinite possibilities, and I always expect what will happen.
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After graduating from junior college for two years, I resigned to take the postgraduate entrance examination. I have everything across schools and majors. After graduating from junior college, I can't stand working at night. After working for two years, I rented a house outside with my poor savings, and began to review the postgraduate entrance examination without telling my parents. Without the support of family and friends, a person walks alone, feeling insecure, with less and less savings and more and more pressure. Once I couldn't help talking to my good friend and crying again. In this way, I persisted for half a year and finally finished the exam. The whole person collapsed and spent all his savings before confessing to his parents. I met my present wife after graduate school. I have been working for three years now, working as a teacher in a high school, earning about 280 thousand a year.
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Being admitted to graduate school changed my life direction. This sentence is not exaggerated. When I was in the college entrance examination, I went to a very ordinary two schools because of the mistake of filling in my volunteers. But from the moment I entered school, I made up my mind to change my destiny through postgraduate entrance examination. In the last six months of postgraduate entrance examination, my roommates are still sleeping when I go out every morning, and they are still sleeping when I go back to the dormitory at night. Now I can still recall the biting cold of Nanjing winter night. Finally, I was admitted to a 985 school in the south. I didn't have any academic talent during my graduate school, so I just graduated. But because of the school background, there are many more choices at work. After graduation, I was successfully admitted to the civil service, and now I have a certain position. More importantly, I met my present wife when I was a graduate student. She is a schoolmaster and a graduate student admitted to the school. After graduation, she did a good job outside the system and earned much more money than me. Now our family of three lives happily in this first-tier city. So sometimes I think, if I flinch and slack off on such a cold winter night, what would I be like now? Therefore, whenever I encounter something unsatisfactory, I will comfort myself. If I didn't succeed in the postgraduate entrance examination, I wouldn't have everything I have now. What's to complain about? I am very grateful for my hard work for the postgraduate entrance examination.
The above are some people who once insisted on taking the postgraduate entrance examination. They will have regrets to some extent, but without their original insistence, not taking the postgraduate entrance examination will become their greater regret. I like the above sentence very much: "Once you meet excellent people, you can't stand your mediocrity." Even if we can't reach that excellent level temporarily, at least from today, we are trying to make ourselves better every day, and some dreams can still be realized on tiptoe. The fairness of postgraduate entrance examination lies in that no matter who you are, you have unlimited possibilities, and good or bad depends on yourself.
As mentioned in the famous Harvard Happy Class, one of the secrets of making yourself happy is to "allow yourself to be human". We also have small emotions, often doubt ourselves and sometimes waver. Whenever these times come, don't push yourself, give yourself a half-day holiday, get some air in a different environment, think about the warmth that has been encouraging and supporting yourself, think about your goals, think about a better yourself not far away in the future, and believe that you will be more powerful to write your own life script.