Everyone has a dream in his heart, and we always mistakenly think that we should abandon one thing and pursue another, and there are many people who can keep pace with each other in this era. Like me, who has no big culture, I am now learning to write. If I want to write, I just want to take advantage of the convenience provided by many platforms in this society to learn from scratch and start practicing. Although others think it is unreliable, why should I make others feel reliable in my life? What I want is to enrich my life. What I want is to give myself a chance to exercise myself.
No one can imagine what a reliable life looks like except stability. Many people associate stability with reliability, but sometimes too much stability in life is killing one's enthusiasm for life. We should learn to toss ourselves. Combine life and toss out the life you want in an ideal way. As long as you want to do it, there must be a way out. It's important to keep paying.
Grandma, an online world celebrity, Meyer? Musk said: "Don't live up to every opportunity that this era gives you." In this era, everyone has the opportunity to realize their dreams.
Come on!
In his thirties, his mind is mature. As an independent woman, why should her career planning and lifestyle be influenced by the thoughts of her parents and family? Do you have to fight until you are 40 because of the obstacles of your parents and family?
There are two examples around me. In their thirties, they resolutely gave up their high-paying and stable jobs, chose to focus on zero, began to learn to break through themselves, and now they are doing their favorite careers and fulfilling their dreams. I hope to help those parents who are eager to change themselves in their thirties but are confused and uncertain.
The first example is my former colleague.
We all entered the business marketing planning industry as soon as we graduated, and I haven't changed careers to do it now. However, at the age of 33, she became the marketing director of a commercial real estate project and decided to quit this well-paid and promising job. Go home and prepare for the lawyer's qualification certificate. I was really surprised and admired her courage when she told me that I resigned as a lawyer. Because a man in his thirties and a group of young people in his twenties compete in the lawyer industry, age is not dominant. But after studying at home for half a year, she really got a lawyer's qualification certificate and became an assistant with a group of young people much younger than her. Now, five years later, she has become a professional lawyer.
Because she dares to think, do and fight, she can still realize her dream life in her thirties.
The second example is a friend I met at work.
When I met her, she was the editor of the top newspaper in our city. The work of the institution was stable and the welfare was good. We keep in touch because we can chat. Suddenly one day I found that her circle of friends was posting something about mental health, so I took care of her privately. As a result, she told me that she resigned from such a good institution despite the opposition of her husband and family. She just got the relevant certificate of psychological counselor, and now she is preparing her own mental health consulting studio with her friends. Now almost three years have passed. I see from her circle of friends that her studio and new career are developing better day by day, and I often take photos of my husband and daughter's family happiness.
The above two friends are good examples of pursuing dreams in their thirties. Although it is possible to fail, as long as you have a dream in your heart and dare to challenge yourself, there is always the possibility of success.
This is a dream, it's never too late to start, all you need is action! There is a saying that the best time to plant a tree is ten years ago, followed by now.
Grandma Moses began to learn painting in his forties, Liu Bang was called Pei Gong in his forties, and Jiang Ziya was born at the age of seventy-two ... Late bloomers abound.
What's more, if it is a dream, the pursuit process is happy. Why must we succeed in the eyes of the world? Want to be reliable? Those achievements are additional, what matters is your dream-chasing heart.
More than 30 years old, it's really not too late, even just the right age. Compared with me in my teens and twenties, I am more mature and calm. Know how to measure gains and losses better, and only with a firm heart can we persist.
I am most afraid of your so-called dream, which is to fantasize, beautify and live in a dreamland. Face the truth, start from what you can do, be down-to-earth and dream with your heart.
The road will get wider and wider, and you may meet different scenery and people.
I recommend the Moon and Sixpence, hoping to gain something.
People need a goal when they are alive. It's never too late to pursue your dreams and struggle. Besides, you are only in your thirties. You are already in your thirties. This is a good time!
Hello! I'm glad to answer your question.
In fact, the pursuit of dreams, age is not the most important. What matters is whether you take action or not. Age is really not a problem ... There are many people in our life who are still working hard for what they believe in when they are forty or fifty years old.
So, as long as you act, it won't be too late. I hope I can give you a reference, thank you.
If it is really a dream, it is impossible for Lao Tzu, the heavenly king, to stop you from realizing your dream. Just like Buddha Sakyamuni, even though he was tempted by gold, beauty, power and affection, he decided to become a monk and become a universal person.
The reason why you gave up your dream and lived a boring life in the accounting industry is not because of family oppression, parental coercion or fate playing tricks on you. It can only show that you are born with limited, insufficient determination and unclear goals, and are not suitable for such a person. Your dream is just an illusion.
If you like writing and want to make a living by code words, you can write well, and writing will not be affected by engaging in financial work.
Many writers are not trained writers by name. Kafka, a pioneer writer of modern literature, has a professional background of law, and his job is to sell insurance and work. Hugo Award science fiction master Liu is a typical engineering male. He is a senior engineer in power system. Empresses in the Palace's author Wu Lanxue is not a professional writer and director. She was a teacher before the novel became famous. Prince Ma of Intimate Contact of Antique Mahjong and The Longest Day in Chang 'an is a wage earner in a foreign company, not a writer. The authors of grave robbery notes and ghost blowing lanterns series are not professional writers at all, and the cultural background of young people in ordinary society is probably not as good as that of ordinary people; Mr. Murakami is a powerful potential winner of the Nobel Prize. Before he became a world-famous writer, he was only a Japanese employee. ...
Fiction is a sideline of these writers besides serious works. Good writing is a gift, so they became famous and then became professional writers.
All kinds of depression in real life can't hinder the realization of your dream. If your dream is strong enough, you will have irresistible actions, forcing you to pursue your goals involuntarily. If your talent is strong enough, what you do, any effort, will be transformed into practical value and success.
You don't need to learn skills and knowledge again, and regain the so-called dream, because the dream has never been lost, then you can live on it.
Now you are eating accounting meals, writing, drawing, dancing and performing these so-called literary hobbies, just hobbies. Hobbies are a supplement to real life and a regulator of emotions, but they are not a tool for making a living or the end of dreams, because you don't have enough talent to support your dreams, and these things don't bring you practical life security.
So I suggest you distinguish between reality and dreams. Qian Qian should never be harmed by those poisoned chicken soup. Don't be carried away by business copy, thinking that the ultimate value of life lies behind the poems and distant places described in these wonderful words. In fact, you are just resentful because of temporary work fatigue. The so-called dream is just an excuse for you to escape from reality-just dig at home.
It is strongly recommended that you read Mao Mu's The Moon and Sixpence and pursue your dreams at any age. Just one question, can your dreams support you to live? If not, what do you live on? Most people don't have Skillland's talent, so dreams are always just dreams!
Let me give you a suggestion: on the basis of your current job, you can use your spare time to regain love and practice love more deeply, and then consider becoming a freelancer, otherwise you can't even support yourself, and it will be miserable!
Painting: A carpenter was born in an ordinary peasant family in Hunan at the age of 55. At the age of 65,438+05, he was sent by his parents to learn carpentry in order not to starve to death in the future. Later, he made some woodwork carvings. At the age of 55, he traveled all over the country, but decided to go to Peiping to be a "drifting north". At the age of 58, he really became famous because he switched to carpentry. At this time, Zhang Daqian, who is 35 years younger than him, has held a solo exhibition.
Jiang Xun said: "He started to exert himself at the age of 70, at the age of 80, and at the age of 90, he was in full swing." If he gives up his dream at the age of 55, he can accomplish nothing. He is Qi Baishi, a painter who became famous at the age of 58 and a master at the age of 70.
Singing skills: a singer who debuted at the age of 30. 1972 was born in Inner Mongolia. After graduating from high school, I worked as an electrician, riveter and welder for several years, but I like music very much. Later, he came to Beijing to pursue his musical dream. He sings in nightclubs and his income is extremely unstable. He often has to live a life of hunger and inequality. He moved more than 50 times in a while, and the more he moved, the more remote he became.
At the age of 30, he released his first solo album "Never mind". He drifted in the north for 10 years and finally got a chance. This album made him an instant hit, and then he became the tutor of The Voice of China, appearing at major parties and giving 32 concerts a year. He is Yang Kun, a singer who started his career at the age of 30.
Writing: A science fiction writer in his thirties, the first person to write science fiction in China. After graduation at the age of 22, I worked as a computer engineer in Niangziguan Power Plant. He likes science fiction, but he has never published it. It was not until he was in his thirties that he began to contribute to a magazine. This is when he goes to work and writes while fishing. At the age of 33, he won the first prize of China Science Fiction Yinhe Award and became famous in one fell swoop.
2/kloc-0 At the beginning of the 20th century, he published a series of science fiction novels, which established his position in China's science fiction circle. In May 2006, his first novel "Three-body" began to be serialized in the science fiction world. After that, his "Three-body" series was popular at home and abroad, and 20 15 was called the Hugo Award of the 73rd Nobel Prize for Science Fiction.
He is Liu. Before he started writing science fiction for magazines in his thirties, he was a computer engineer in a power plant.
But the hobby you mentioned actually needs artistic talent. It is not recommended to rush to pursue your dreams in your thirties, because reality may hurt you. I suggest you take it as your hobby first, and then turn it into your main business when you have the opportunity, and take your hobby as your job. After all, I am in my thirties, and there are too many practical problems to consider, such as parents' pension, children's schooling, mortgage and car loan, etc. ...
Don't do anything you regret in your thirties. In the field of art, some people became famous when they were young, while others were baptized late. In fact, there is not much difference between the two, provided that you have been insisting and have a little talent to wait. I suggest you don't do anything that has no way out. You should be a sideline before you talk about success. Just like the recent TV series, it is nothing more than thirty, and good things are not afraid of being late. There is no dream in this world that can't be let go. Come on!
Without an ideal life, what is the difference with salted fish?
Put aside utilitarianism and look at your heart. Why not fight for your dream once and have no regrets in this life!
Instead of fishing in the forest, it is better to retreat and weave a net! More than 30 years old, full of energy, lack of ability, study hard. It is more competitive and challenging than those who are content with the status quo and only do stable work to fight for their dreams, meet challenges and constantly enrich themselves. Even if the pursuit of dreams fails, it is enough to gain a foothold in this society.
My cousin likes music. He is over 40 years old. He goes to work during the day, rides a tricycle and sings with a group of music lovers in Xi 'an Annan Gate. He actually formed the South Gate Band. Now he is famous! It can be seen that it is never too late to pursue dreams!
Therefore, it is suggested that you start to accumulate in your spare time, and you can learn to draw, sing and dance. . . You don't have to quit your job immediately to pursue your dreams, which can not only ensure your income, but also maintain your life. Work is just a means for us to make a living, not the whole of our life!
People who really pursue dreams constantly exercise their abilities in the process of pursuing dreams. In their thirties, when they have enough knowledge, experience and energy, why not try to break through the bottleneck of life and pursue their dreams? No regrets in this life!