My previous positive thinking is three simple processes: what is it? Why? What should we do?
I occasionally use pyramid model to summarize, but the effect is not very great. The ability to reflect on oneself and put yourself in other's shoes is there, but it lacks strength. People often stick to their own opinions and always feel that they are right and others are wrong. When it is red, I will not only use my own emotional strength, but also constantly tap the strength of others.
Words must be done, and actions must be fruitful. Compared with Professor Alina Zhang's Napoleonic thinking, I think I have the courage to make a decisive decision, but I lack Columbian innovative thinking.
How big is a person's knowledge, how big is the pattern! In the past year or two, I deeply realized that different people meet and do different things, and the circle will be different. But at every stage of time, I know what I really want. !
People can get positive feedback only by constantly improving their values and doing things with altruistic thinking. Even though some people are humble, I can see the light from them after getting along for a long time. Their bright thinking and inspiring thinking shine on me.
I don't particularly want to squeeze into those seemingly tall circles (I value the essence more), nor do I crowd out the low circles that others think (metaphysics serves metaphysics). But I will never give up the opportunity of progress and continue to look for and learn.
Everything is experience and everything is practice. Only with bright thinking can we really know what we are doing, exercising and pursuing.
To sum up, I have several thinking modes: single-point breakthrough, positive thinking, empathy, reverse thinking and bright thinking. There are also paid thinking and value-added thinking, which I have been doing, not only to add value to myself, but also to others.
Most of my previous circles revolved around e-commerce, reading and writing. Especially after listening to Alina Zhang's classmates sharing New Year's Day lessons, I realized that there was a lesson in my left hand and a lesson in my right hand, which was really good.
I am close to this culture+business system.
In the era of origin, life had no ceiling. So, how can we create a circle to improve our own pattern?
First of all, we should jump out bravely and look for more possibilities. As the saying goes: no matter how big the pancake is, it is bigger than the pot that burns it.
Secondly, we should realize our strengths and weaknesses. There are only two basic points in successful tactics: first, in the face of opponents, strike short with long strokes; Second, face yourself, foster strengths and avoid weaknesses.
Third, improve your level with the method of castle retreat. Life is a leap again and again, but also a reinvention again and again. What you give up is what you get, and what you get after going rough is the essence.
Sister Alina Zhang said: To upgrade, we must first have the courage to tear down our existing castles, keep the upgrade mentality, walk with excellent people, and dare to let the sunk cost sink. The second is to learn to look at the problem from a longer-term perspective.
Fourth, the most direct way to improve the quality of one's own circle is to learn and imitate the Niuren constantly and join the Niuren community. You must be willing to invest in your study and future. Thinking is the most inspiring premise.
Only by increasing your sunk cost, can you give inexhaustible motivation, earnestly implement and earnestly complete, not only inspiring yourself, but also inspiring others. Free study is the most expensive.
I like what Sister Alina Zhang said-about how to jump on the track of life and how to break through the ceiling of life, we must first understand our current situation and see what our ceiling is. Secondly, we should bravely make our own choices and stick to our own ideas. Finally, you can borrow money from you, just like an athlete borrows money from a pole in the high jump.
Now is the time to fight adversity quotient. Black swan is more terrible than grey rhinoceros. Only by having a certain adversity quotient can we minimize the frustration coefficient and maximize the bright thinking.
Looking back on the first half of my life, God gave me too many adversity quotient tests. I once said: If life is an exam, I will try my best. But it is not, so I have to have all kinds of thinking to deal with it, learn to take the initiative to bear the inevitable pain, and actively change the pain that can be changed.
Many people think that the ceiling is just a restriction on themselves. In fact, it's like the sky without a cover. Your upgrade thinking determines how high you can jump and how far you can go. You are not a superman, and you will inevitably suffer setbacks in one way or another, so adversity quotient must be the best way to exercise your willpower.
If EQ is the ability to get along with others, adversity quotient is the ability to get along with himself.
Sister Alina Zhang is in adversity. What really beats you is the fear of difficulties. It says: The higher a person's AQ, the bigger the pattern. He is more optimistic in the face of adversity, can accept difficult challenges, and can also use creativity to find solutions.
So, how can we improve our adversity quotient? Sister Alina Zhang gave four suggestions:
I have a signature on WeChat, which reads: If I live, I will live to be topless, shirtless and smiling at the giant in heaven.
Fight, son! If chicken soup can't make you grow up healthily, adversity quotient can, as long as you don't recognize cowards, as long as you don't accept your fate, there will be Wan Muchun before the sick tree and strongmen before and after the strongmen.